Kuphi nengane

Intsha engokwesiko uba indoda nenkosikazi futhi amatasatasa akha emisebenzini yabo noma umsebenzi amaphrojekthi eziyinkimbinkimbi enkampanini ehlonishwayo, kungalindelekile bona babe abazali uyaziqhenya. Lesi simo kungenzeka, futhi akuyona ongavamile.

Torn phakathi umsebenzi nomkhaya, abazali abasebasha ziye zanquma ukuba amasevisi zilaliswe umzanyana, bese enkulisa iwashi, izikole kanye namaqembu usuku enwetshiwe. Kodwa kuza isikhathi lapho kwakuyinto kancane ukuze uthole okuhlangenwe nakho futhi usufinyelele eminye yemigomo yayo, abazali bengane unqume ikhefu. Kukhona isikhathi, futhi ihlushwa ezisola, abazali banquma ukunikela sonke isikhathi sakhe ukuze umndeni wakhe abakhulile nengane-ibanga lakhe.

kungazelelwe Lapha uqala enkingeni pretty big: abazali ngisho izethulo nakwazi kuphi ukuya nengane, ngisho nje - indlela uphumule nengane yakho.

Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Okokuqala ukuthi kungaba umqondo omuhle ukuthi ngijwayele ingane yakho futhi uthole ukuthi yini afuna nokuthi yini amaphupho. It kuvela ukuthi izingane eziningi bemagange ukuba uchithe isikhathi esiningi kanye nabathandekayo - abazali bakhe. Ukuze ingane, umama wakhe kakhulu ihambisane nendlu, Ukuvikelwa onokuthula okuthembekile, uPapa - lo umngani omkhulu futhi wasemuva, naye bangafundisa umntwana zonke izinto ezibalulekile. Ngakho-ke, izingane kangaka ngabomvu ngempelasonto bese kwehle kahle abazali bami futhi, akusona isikhathi ngabo.

Abazali labo ecabanga ngempelasonto, ngokuvamile dream ubuthongo ngasekupheleni, ahlale esihlalweni phambi TV noma nge incwadi ezandleni zabo, futhi bayithande ngokwezinga iziphuzo ezimbalwa nabangani, kodwa mayelana nokuthi uzoyaphi nengane yakho, ungacabangi. It kuvela ukuthi umuntu omncane kuphela futhi ngifuna indlela yokuphuma, baphelela hhayi inkampani okuhle, ukuqala ukuba ngibheme, uzama utshwala ...

Bazali, uyaqaphela noma ngokungazi wayencisha ngokwabo yokuxhumana nengane yakho ubuye ngokujulile engajabulisi, kodwa ngendlela enganakeki.

Futhi uma uzama? Cabanga ngayo njengohlelo ukuphumula nengane kahle.

Uma ifaniswe iholide nokushiya ingane yakho, zonke zingahlelwa kahle. Kodwa kanjani ukuchitha amaholide nengane yakho? Yiqiniso, zonke lezi zinsuku ukuhlala nezingane phambi TV usuku lonke noma ubhuquze iqhwa - kakhulu isidina. Cabanga umkhandlu umndeni ngokucophelela ukuhlela ukuphuma kulezi zinsuku. Ake sithi kulesi sici, nsuku sizonikeza into entsha. On the kuqala usuku slide, kwesibili - a esikhungweni sokushwibeka, ku iminyuziyamu, lokwentiwako waseshashalazini, isekisi, abantu imikhosi, uya izivakashi, kanye ibhola azenza.

Qiniseka ukuba sizame ukwenza kanjalo wena ngiphupha ngiseyingane, kodwa iphupho neze sagcwaliseka. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukudlala indima esiteji? - Beka ukusebenza ekhaya iqhaza wonke amalungu omndeni, umeme abangani bakho kanye nomakhelwane. Thina uzoyenza ukuniqinisekisa - uzokujabulela.

Okuhle ukuya nomndeni wakho ukuvakashela abangane, okuyinto singakaze sibonane - futhi iyakujabulela nobabili wena nengane yakho.

Indlela ukuchitha ngamaholide nengane yakho - manje kuyacaca ngempela. Ungakwazi ukuhlela ngisho party yezingane egcekeni iqhaza ukuthula komakhelwane nasezihlotsheni, ezinhle ukuya ukushaywa encane ngokusebenzisa ehlathini ebusika noma epaki edolobheni. Awuboni nje ukuhamba, kodwa futhi ukutshela ingane ngokuphila ehlathini ebusika. Beka ndawonye nengane inyoni Element, ake kid uyanezela ifolishi baye hung esebenza ngogesi kanye inyoni ababukele.

Kuphi nengane? Ehlathini, epaki, esekisini, kodwa leyo ndawo yeshashalazi, e cafe yezingane - amathuba nokungcebeleka, kanye ilungu elincane isibalo esikhulu sezithunjwa imikhaya.

Kodwa kungase kube umbuzo yemvelo: kungani konke lokhu? Kungani ngamaholide noma ngesikhathi samaholidi kubalulekile ukubamba wena kanye nengane yakho? Mhlawumbe nje okwanele abadala ukuze uphumule emsebenzini, nezingane - esikoleni?

Yilokho sonke isikhathi, ukuthi ukuzilibazisa yokwenziwa, okusho ephelele okuthuleyo imbangela ezinganeni akuyona imizwelo eyakhayo, kodwa ukucindezeleka ngempela. Umfana noma intombazane ngakho musa uphumule futhi babhekene nobunzima obukhulu, uyahlanganyela ngesikhathi efulethini futhi lapho nje kuvela ithuba, wakhipha egcekeni, ngokuvamile ukuzijabulisa ezingabazisayo.

Ngakho Akusincono ukuba smash ikhanda lakhe kancane ekuphenduleni umbuzo "Kuphi nengane", kodwa ukunikeza izinyane iholidi Okuyınqo, ngokwami kanye yawo wonke umkhaya?