Ngokukhululekile Into esemqoka: kungani nokuthi ukuya sezindela

Mhlawumbe ngamunye wethu okungenani bake babona i-monk (noma indelakazi), uzithela kubo emathempelini noma ekhaya. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi ucwaningo labantu lengesihloko "Kungani futhi kanjani ukuya esigodlweni sezindela abameleli kwabesifazane nabesilisa" eqoqwe iningi izimpendulo ejwayelekile.

Iningi ukholelwa ukuthi izindela abasha noma izindela - bayizisulu engajabule uthando unrequited, okuyinto ayitholakali umphefumulo wakho lonely enye indawo yokuhlala, ngaphezu yesigodlo. Amadoda nabesifazane asebeneminyaka efanele yobudala phakathi uwukakabi ukuphila komkhaya noma umculi okhokhelwayo. Ingabe kunjalo ngempela? Ake sithole ukuthi kwakungani.

Ngakho, umbono ovamile kule isimo esinjalo - izindela (nezindela) abantu abangazange bazithola kulempilo, noma umane buthakathaka umoya. Ngokwabo njengoba izindela ungavumelani nombono onjalo abampofu ezimfushane. Zihluke ngokuphelele ukuchaza bese usitshele ukuthi ukuya esigodlweni sezindela! Asifundeni iqiniso langempela!

Ngifuna ukuya Isigodlo, kodwa unembeza ayivumeli ...

Abantu sezindela zivela yobudala ihluke kakhulu futhi isikhundla emphakathini. Lokhu kungase kube amadoda abampofu ubudala, Abesifazane abavuthiwe, noma nje abasha futhi bahlakaniphile. Isizathu salokho - isifiso abavamile kakhulu abantu ukuba baphenduke, unikele ukuphila kwakhe kuJehova, futhi isifiso esisuka self-ngcono. Phawula umehluko - esigodlweni sezindela akuzona losers, futhi abantu abazimisele futhi sinamandla! Phela, ukuphila endaweni lezindela, kudingeka ukuba enesibindi nenokuzimisela.

Indlela ukuya sezindela?

Ukuze ube owayeyindela, umuntu kudingeka alethe phambi kukaJehova uNkulunkulu izithembiso ezithile. Lesi yisinyathelo kuhle esingathí sina kodwa futhi indlela ukubuya nhlobo! Ngakho-ke, kukhona inguqulo ye uhlobo elithi "umshuwalense". Ukuze umuntu ongazange enze iphutha ezinkulu ekuphileni kwakhe, wake wanqotshwa noma imizwa, lihlolwe isikhathi eside. Lokhu kwenziwa ukwabela ke ngezinga elithile Izigodlo.

1. Trudnik. Lena esiseqophelweni eliphezulu kakhulu. It inikezwa umuntu uye wanquma ukushiya sezindela ngesikhathi, ukusebenzela inkazimulo kaNkulunkulu - hhayi imali, mahhala. Umuntu onjalo akumele senze izibopho futhi njalo ungabuyela emhlabeni.
2. Imfundamakhwela. Lena besigaba sesibili. Bedumisa umuntu owayefuna ukuba indela, owabhala isicelo yokwemukela umphakatsi welibhola letinyawo. 'Bhalisa wakhe, inkinga isivatho bese usetha isikhathi probationary. Isikhathi akugcini. Othile kungathatha yezifungo ngaphambi othile - kamuva. Konke kuncike ukulungela sangaphakathi umuntu ngokwakhe. Ngokuvamile isikhathi esinjalo ehlala njalo iminyaka eminingana. Kulokhu, imfundamakhwela ungabuyela emhlabeni. Lokhu akulahlwa, kodwa hhayi bakhuthazwe.
3. Monk. Lona isikhundla zakamuva futhi engelapheki. Kulesi sigaba, lo muntu ephoqelekile ukuba alethe izithembiso. Indlela emuva manje. Ukukhaphela yalezi izifungo inamandla alinganayo ukushintsha oPhezukonke! Uma indoda eyayazi ukuthi ukuya esigodlweni sezindela, wavele washintsha izithembiso zakhe, uba bayekiswa ubufundisi. Laba bantu ayibonanga wangcwatshwa emathuneni! Umngcwabo ahlelwe ngaphandle kocingo, kokubili abazibulalayo.