Ngokumangalisayo, lezi zinto amadoda ezingabakhangi

Ungaba guru ezindabeni ukuqina imfashini, nomuzwa elicwengekile isitayela kanye nekhono akhohlise, kodwa ezinye izenzo zakho zingaba phezu amadoda okuphambene umphumela. Lokhu akumangazi, ngoba bezilokhu eqiniseka ukuthi wenza into elungile. Kodwa, kwacaca ukuthi, wobulili namandla kubonakala abesifazane abaningi evamile "Izinto" unattractiveness. Ziyakwazi nesu lokungacunuli futhi ukukhuluma ezingaba abangane ngalo. Futhi okwamanje uqhubeka amaphutha futhi baphokophelele emuva nengxenye ezinhle ezingaba Cavaliers kude. Sekuyisikhathi ukuletha isimo ngaphansi kolawulo. Ngokulandelayo, sizobe akutshele mayelana imikhuba zabesifazane ukuthi umuntu osesilinganisweni uthola alithandeki. Gwema kwabo, futhi Olwa ngesandla futhi inhliziyo zenu ziyotholakala ngokushesha.

Overreliance ku izimonyo

Ukuthenga Amathrendi izimonyo futhi saqala ukusebenzisa kusihlwa izimonyo, uku userdstvuete kakhulu. Ngaphansi ukwakheka oyisebenzisele gubadlela isikhumba ukungapheleli, izindebe bright akwanele, nemivimbo engu kukhona amashiya esifushane futhi kwaphela. Kanjani langaza fanele you ngafunda ukuthi izimonyo kwenza ubuso bakho bakhulume bazwakale, futhi manje besaba ukuthi avele ngaphambi abakhethiweyo ngaphandle makeup. Ngesizathu esithile, abesifazane abaningi banomuzwa wokuthi abawona esihle, kuyilapho abantu bebona engokwemvelo zabo, nje abaleke bacondze etindzaweni letehlukene. Empeleni akunjalo. Ukuze a ton of izimonyo ukufihla izikhungo abesifazane eziningi, futhi amadoda Awunandaba amashiya ngesineke, isisekelo nezithunzi ezinemibala. Futhi angeke abamele ukunikeza angiqabule izindebe zakhe, esinabantu embozwe bezinto. Ukuze nginqobe lo muntu, kuphela othi awube ukukhanya kanye imivimbo embalwa mascara on isandiso nemivimbo engu.

lwaya nge inhlebo

Akukho mnandi ezingaphezu kuka ukwabelana nabangani inhlebo, amahlazo ezinkulu, izindaba zakamuva ezivela empilweni abangane bakho mutual. Nokho, lokhu kusebenza kuphela lapho sisebenzelana nabangane. Kungani ukholelwa ukuthi umlingani wakho uzovumela ngokuziphatha okunjalo? Iningi lamadoda awukwazi ukubekezelela inhlebo kanye Gossips ukuhlola abantu indlela nge ukuzenyeza. Ingabe unayo lutho usitshele sigaba imphilo yakho? Lahla izihloko impikiswano bese nixoxa ukwehluleka yakamuva abangane bakho mutual. Yazi ukuthi amadoda badonsekela abesifazane abazisa ngokwabo, kodwa musa ukucindezela abanye.

ukuzethemba

I ubulili qotho okusezingeni eliphezulu ukuzethemba zibonakala zezinhlobo ekhangayo. Nokho, kumelwe uqonde lapho ugijima umugqa omncane phakathi ukuzethemba futhi ukuzidla. Akukho lutho olubi okumele siziqhenye ngayo impumelelo yabo, ukujabulela impumelelo yabo futhi ngolwazi omunye. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi abantu ngokweqile uzidumisile wayigona zobungoma yakhe obala, abanye abakubheka njengomuntu narcissistic. Okukhethayo siqiniseke ukwazi impumelelo yakho kusuka besithathu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uthola ibhonasi amaphuzu ukuthobeka futhi yokuntuleka esilawulayo nokuzitusa.

Emazwini akhe Esibi ngokumelene wangaphambili insizwa

Ungase ucabange ukuthi leli qhinga ingasebenzela ngamaphesenti ayikhulu, kodwa bangena izinhlelo zakho iphutha elikhulu. Sishaye udaka lover yakhe yangaphambili, ngeke uvuse zamanje abakhethiwe. Lokhu ukuziphatha, umtshela ukuthi kahle kuyinto isu lakho umqhele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma iyiphi inkulumo mayelana ex-isoka (ngisho uma bewasebenzisa benesifiso ukubathobisa) zithathwa ngokuthi ulwazi ukuze sicatshangelwe. Cishe, omunye wakho wamanje abakhethiwe abangacabanga ukuthi imizwa ubudala namanje niyishise esifubeni sakho. Manje le ndoda bazothini kathathu ngaphambi kokuqhubeka ne ubuhlobo. Futhi kuthiwani uma ngemva breaking up naye, uyongithatha ukuba bahlekise ngayo ukushiyeka kwakhe nomunye isoka? Kodwa kuthiwani uma ungenaso fantasy enobudlova, nithanda bahlobise?

Wena engaphansi kakhulu kuye

Uma kuziwa amehlo wobulili obuhlukile, ufuna ukudlala umcabango wolwazi umphakathi bendabuko izindima ubulili. Ngokwesibonelo, indoda uthanda bazizwe bedingeka. Nokho, kulesi simo, wena engozini kakhulu. Uma uzama ukuchitha isikhathi ekhethiwe sonke isikhathi sakhe samahhala, ubophele izandla nezinyawo. Cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthi elifuna ukudela esisemthethweni esikhaleni somuntu siqu. Abantu abasha sikubiza amantombazane "iziphanyeko". Hhayi definition ezithophayo kakhulu, akunjalo? Ngakho uma ungomunye labo bathembele ngokomzwelo on umlingani wabo, sikucebisa ukubamba amahhashi kancane. Ngeke balowo muntu nakakhulu, uma uchitha isikhathi naye amahora angu-24 ngosuku. Akakuthandi nakakhudlwana uma ukhuluma kuphela mayelana nothando. Empeleni, le ndlela yokuziphatha bangathandi kuphela kuye. Bonisa ukuthi nawe kufanele isikhala siqu kanye ukuzethemba.

"Ungenakunqotshwa Fortress"

Enye ngokwedlulele, okuyinto okucasulayo amadoda - lokhu inaccessibility. Phambi kwethu kunethuba uhluke ngokuphelele umuntu engaphansi. Ngalesi sikhathi, lona wesifazane edlala oludonsa kakhulu futhi lady ezimele. Qaphela, ngokweqile ethakazelisayo, ungakwazi wazala Cavalier yakho ezingaba khona. Noma he bayocabanga ukuthi awunasithakazelo nhlobo, futhi ungathanda ukubona eduze intombazane eziphilayo futhi nobudlelwano. Ukudlala lo "inqaba ungenakunqotshwa", ungenawo ukwandisa ukukhanga yakho, kodwa kuphela eziwuhlupho kumuntu.

Wena bahlale bekhononda

Melodrama kusifundisani enhliziyweni yale ndoda njalo ancibilike ubuhle ekucindezelekeni. It kudingeka ivikelwe emandleni, eyagcina uthola kusukela isicebi osemusha futhi onekhono. Kodwa ekuphileni kwangempela ikude abalobi eqanjiwe, ejwayele nicabanga clichés. Empeleni, akukho muntu ufuna ukuxhumanisa isiphetho sabo ne nabesifazane abangabafundi abakhuthele ekucindezelekeni. Ngakho sime ukukhonona futhi ngosuku ngalunye ukudlala yisisulu sezimo. umlingani wakho cabanga yokungavuthwa yakho. Ubani ofuna coddle wena ukuxazulula izinkinga zakho engapheli? Uma kwaba iqhinga uhlakaniphile, wenqabe. Uma uvivinyo nezinsizi empeleni ukukulandela, thola amandla okubhekana nazo ngokuzimela. Uma ufuna zidonse ukunaka kwanoma isikhulu handsome ke abe inkosazana kuye. Psychology of isisulu salokhu akudingekile.

isitayela eyinkimbinkimbi

Uma une kuze kube manje, bayakhohlwa isitayela eyinkimbinkimbi. Ukwahlulela uvote, amadoda ungathandi eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi eyinkimbinkimbi kusihlwa zezinwele. Iyazamukela inkimbinkimbi, ubuhle, izinwele shiny futhi unempilo, ogeleza phezu kwamahlombe akhe. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi izinwele iqonde kuyinto emuva in fashion, kwenzekani ngosuku, uncamela ukustaka "igagasi Hollywood." Khumbula ukuthi cishe amaphesenti angu-75 amadoda kwasekuqaleni banake abangabazi izinwele.

Ingabe wena uthanda amaqembu

kahle wethu olandelayo eziyizici yilezozintombi. Amanye amantombazane angazithola uthole umbono wokuthi abanothando emaphathini njalo uhambo kuma-nightclub usizo ngokushesha ukuheha engase ibe umlingani. Kodwa konke ongakwenza - iwukuba ugxumela maelstrom ngokushesha, kodwa inoveli lezivakashi. Ukukhetha naye ubuhlobo eside futhi sina, give up party intombazane isithombe. Iningi lamadoda zama ukuhlala kude nabayiziminzi abathandi nightlife. Abameleli beNdikimba ubulili namandla uqiniseka ukuthi la mantombazane bathambekele ngokuphamazela, izenzo kabi kubhekwe futhi ngokuvamile kakhulu bazithola ezimweni yingozi. Yebo, isifiso sokuthwala abantu extrovert jolly ukhiqiza kini, ngeke like it, kodwa ukunganaki yakho ukushintsha umbono kwamadoda 180 degrees.

Wena njalo avumelane naye

Futhi lokho iphutha enkulu ohlwini lwethu. Kodwa kubonakala sengathi leli wawungeke ukuyichaza.

It kuvela ukuthi abantu besilisa abakwazi ume lapho darling wabo wonke bayavumelana yini nazo, ngokoqobo wobungane emlonyeni wakhe. Ungesabi bengasheshi ukuveza imibono yabo. Awufuni ukuthuthukiswa isimo ingqubuzana? Khona-ke ngokukhululekile futhi ngokwethembeka uyokhipha umbonwabo. Ngeke bakwazi ukuheha umuntu ilungelo, uma ayiswe indima isithunzi esilalelayo. Abantu abasha ungafuni ukufaniswa, bona dream of a ngokubambisana egcwele. Vele kube ngokwakho, futhi kulesi sikhundla ukuphila kuyoba isihluthulelo sempumelelo yakho.