Kusukela esikhathini eside esidlule, emiphakathini eminingi lalibhekwa: ukushada izingane - imikhaya Ganiselanani. ERussia, umshado kwakusho ukuvela abaningi nezihlobo ezingebona igazi. "Ekhaya" nomunye babebhekwa njengabangakufanelekeli abafowethu nodadewethu bendoda nomfazi, kanye nabazali, obabekazi nomalume. Ngokuvamile, bonke eziphatheke babexhumana njalo kanye namaholide nibuthana ngemuva kwedeski elikhulu. Namuhla, amakhulu nomndeni friendly - siyindlala yangempela. Abaningi bethu abazi, ngubani kahle ngokuthi nomalokazana, kodwa othile - Devereaux. Futhi ngubani indodana emthethweni?
Isihlobo entsha abazali bakamakoti
Lapho ubuhlobo kuhlala khona lezi zithandani yafinyelela umvuthwandaba, futhi esivumelwaneni mayelana lomshado, le nsizwa, ukuthuthukisa isithakazelo intombazane, ngokuthi nesoka lakhe. thandeka kuyafaneleka ukuba ushayele umakoti. Lezi zincazelo abonisa ubuhlobo intsha ngababili nomunye. Kodwa ukukhuluma ngakho konke ngabo futhi third parties, isibonelo: "Phumani nesoka lomngane wami uya" noma "Lona umakoti isikhathi nendodana yami." Ngemva kokushada okwenza umbhangqwana ube maqondana nezinye umyeni ngamunye nomfazi. Futhi ngubani indodana emthethweni? umyeni Indodakazi gama ngokuthi abazali bakhe. Kafushane, umalokazana - indodakazi abasemzini. Unkosikazi indodana nabazali bakhe ngemva komshado kufanele indodakazi.
Lapho kufaneleka kakhudlwana zisebenzisa igama elivamile elithi "umalokazana"?
Ngezinye izikhathi umyeni a emfushane definition indodakazi esetshenziswa amanye amalungu omkhaya wakhe. It kubhekwa ezifanele uma owesifazane indodana-unkosikazi udadwabo. Sebenzisa izwi may abafowethu unkosikazi maqondana umyeni wakhe. IsiRashiya namuhla kukhona azinalo igama elilodwa ukuchaza degree of nokuzwelana phakathi abashadayo abazalwane / nodade nomunye. Ngakho uma kudingeka uchaze ukuthi siyini kwadingeka nomunye Udadewabo womyeni 's nomfazi umfowabo lona wesifazane, singayisebenzisa indlela yokubonisana nabantu incazelo jikelele. Nokho, ezweni lanamuhla, impendulo ethandwa kakhulu yombuzo elandelayo ingubani indodana emthethweni: umlingani indodakazi / udade. Ukuze ukwazi ukubona more "eziyinkimbinkimbi" Ubuhlobo ngokuvamile asetshenziselwa iziphakamiso enemininingwane kunezincazelo.
Alternatives amagama umyeni indodakazi
Ezweni lethu, ubudlelwano phakathi umama wakwakhe, futhi - lokhu akukona sihloko ethandwa amahlaya ehloniphekile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, abaningi ungathandi idatha kwencazelo nokuzwelana. Ngokuvamile abazali owesifazane ungezwakala: umalokazana - lo uyindodana yethu. Ngokulandelana, futhi umyeni kulokhu kusho abazali nomkakhe, "umama" futhi "ubaba". Uma Nokho, phakathi ubuhlobo bomkhaya entsha kwakungafanele seluseduze kangaka, kuyafaneleka ukuba more yokwelapha esisemthethweni. Khumbula ukuthi, futhi izincazelo eningiliziwe ubudlelwano ahlobene uvumelekile, isibonelo: "Lona indoda indodakazi yami" noma "Abazali umkami uthi ..."
Temdzabu futhi ngempela ubudlelwano emkhayeni
Ukuze ufunde indlela kuhlobene umama wakwakhe kanye kumkhwenyana eligoqiwe izaga eziningi futhi amahlaya. Ngeshwa, empeleni, lezi izihlobo akuzona engisekela njalo nomunye. Izizathu zalokhu antipathy ezimbalwa: Yebo, umama nobaba bafuna okungcono kakhulu izingane zabo futhi can ke ngokuhlolisisa ukuze kukhethwa indodakazi yakhe. Indoda kunzima ukuzivumelanisa ngokushesha ngemva komshado, bazi ukuthi, ekubeni yindoda ekhule, kwakukhona abazali yesibili, ukulungele nokuhlaziya izenzo zakhe futhi 'ukufundisa ukuphila. " Noma kunjalo, zombili kudingeka ukubekezelela nomunye bese uzama ukuthola izinto esivumelana ngazo. Vele ukulahla zonke ubandlululo futhi uzama ukuthola ukuthi sazana kangcono, singenza abangani ngempela abe nomkhaya. Landela imiyalo elula bokuhloniphana bazame ukuvimbela izingxabano kusuka breaking isikhathi. Futhi-ke, cishe, ngelinye ilanga umama unkosikazi wakhe wayethi, "Ubani ngumkhwenyana? Mina uzakuba nenye indodana futhi! "Noma umyeni yena, ekhuluma mayelana umkhwekazi wakhe, shayela yakhe yokuqala, esikhundleni" Tiffany "izwi uhlobo" mama ".