Passion. Kuyini uthando nendlela sikubone

Igama elithi "uthando" wandile namuhla. It is hhayi ayesanda kuklanywa, njengokuthi "laser" noma "i-computer" noma abstruse, ezingavamile. okungabangela imibuzo eminingi. Nokho leli gama ngokuthi iyiphi, okuyinto ephawula endaweni imizwa, eziningi otenkom, futhi kuyasiza bakuqonde yiziphi.

Kuyini lokhu umuzwa

Kuyini uthando? Esishoyo Dictionary of the ulimi Russian Efrayimi unikeza incazelo elandelayo yale mqondo: "uthando" - lena oqinile wokuthi kwenzeka ngezinga okungokwemvelo. Lena uthando oluqinile, isifiso noma ukuthambekela ukwenza lutho.

Ngokwe-achazayo Dmitrieva isichazamazwi, igama elithi "uthando" ichazwa kanje: sizibona ngokomzimba noma ngokocansi womunye umuntu komunye. Kuba yisikhathi futhi lapho isithakazelo enempilo kunoma umsebenzi, umsebenzi.

Collegiate sichaza Ushakova Ngendlela efanayo, igama elithi "uthando". Kuyini uthando? Lena Luhambo enamandla kakhulu inkanuko ezenzeka abantu unganakile, ngokomzwelo wemvelo.

Ngakho, kokuba ukuhlaziywa tetemibhalo, singasho kugcwale umlomo ukuthi kusenzima umuzwa.

Eziyisikhombisa izinkanuko ezimbi kakhulu abantu

Futhi, kaningi leli gama lisetshenziselwa ukuchaza ekhangwa indoda, kodwa ukuchaza izifiso zakhe ezichithekileyo, esingenakubalwa kunganqandwa.

Lezi izinkanuko kukhona eziyisikhombisa izono ezinkulu lwesintu. Abantu abaningi bayazazi legend. Ukuze uhlu izono: nokuziqhenya, ukuminza, ukuhaha, ubuvila, umona, ulaka kanye nenkanuko.

Lezi izinzwa eziyisikhombisa futhi izenzo okukhulunywe ngoba izinkanuko ukuthi kunalokho yabo nzima aqukethe. Ngamunye wethu izikhathi eziningi empilweni yami uthukuthele, ngezinye izikhathi ngokungazi nomona, noma azazise kangangokuba ngaye ngokwakhe, gluttonize noma ukuvilapha, kuba obusebaleni. Futhi lokhu kungenye umbandela ukuqonda onjani umuzwa - uthando.

Passion nothando entsheni

Bonke abantu empilweni yami, manje noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi niyolazi umuzwa uthando. Futhi ngokuvamile kakhulu kwenzeka ukuthi ukudida ngayo uthando. Kungani lokhu kwakwenzeka?

Ikakhulukazi ngokuvamile kwenzeka esemncane lapho izinsizwa nezintombi okokuqala ziqala ukuba babe nekhono lokungacasuli wobulili obuhlukile. Khona-ke intsha udidekile uthando ngothando futhi ngokuvamile ngokwabo lokhu tangle. Phela, intsha uhlangabezana kunalokho abanothando. Iyini yobudala kusho imizwa? Kulokhu, bona ingafaniswa uthando. Kufana izibuko rose-ezinemibala. Akusona umbuzo ngokocansi. Girls ukuthandana nalo abafana, futhi abafana - emantombazaneni. Kodwa manje umuzwa uthando, baqala ukuthola engaphezu engu bayazi.

"Uthando Abadala '

Uma sikhuluma nabantu abadala, kuyafaneleka ukuthi ugqozi kubantu besilisa nakubantu besifazane ithatha kancane ngendlela ehlukile.

Abesilisa kule ndaba ngobudlova futhi esisheshayo. Uma umuntu azizwa uthando ngowesifazane, into izifiso zakhe, washeshe ejabule, igazi odlula kuya ebuchosheni, uma singakubeka kanjalo. Indoda ezama ukusebenzisa zonke izindlela ezitholakalayo namasu ukwanelisa isifiso sakhe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.

Kodwa lapho bebona kutheleka owesifazane ihlangabezana ugqozi wesenzo ngaphezulu kulinganiswa. Abesifazane bavame ukucabanga okuningi ngezinto ezahlukene futhi sihlaziye. Ngakho-ke, njengoba umthetho, owesifazane ufuna into isifiso sakhe ngaphansi ngokuphamazela, ngokomzwelo enophephela kancane, uzama ukugcina isimo ngaphansi kolawulo, bavimbele nogqozi. Lokho lesi simanga kungaholela imiphumela engemihle - yena eqagela.

Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi kuyenzeka futhi okuphambene nalokho. Abantu abafani, futhi ngamunye ngendlela yalo kungenzeka liziphathe uncharacteristically, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi indoda noma owesifazane. Lokhu kuthintwa izinto ezifana ezingokomzwelo nezingokomzimba, ubuntu, yokuphila, umuntu noma umcimbi elafika noma ezenzeka ekuphileni.

Indlela ukuqaphela ugqozi

Ngesikhathi ngiba ibhungu, abadala futhi bavame ukudida "uthando" nelithi welithi "uthando". Luyini uthando lapho usukhulile it is ziba sobala. Lokho akumnandi kuphela, ezingaphelelwa isikhathi candy buketny sikhathi, kodwa futhi umsebenzi njalo yena, ukuyekethisa, ezivuna nokuqonda. Kodwa ugqozi - umuzwa a engenangqondo kakhulu futhi imithwalo yakhe.

Futhi ngokuvamile, ungase ucabange ukuthi, ukuzizwa kokucindezelwa ukuba umuntu, sithanda ke. Kodwa kumelwe ukuba siyiqonde ngokucacile ukuthi uthando - ukusondela olungokomoya lwamadoda amabili, kanye nogqozi - lo muzwa, esekelwe isifiso.

Kunezinto ezimbili eziyisisekelo phakathi kwalezi imizwa:

1) inkulumo imizwa. Yiqiniso, ubuhlobo phakathi kwabantu, indoda kanye nowesifazane, akuyona ngaphandle nogqozi. Kodwa kunomehluko. Uma ubudlelwano zakhelwe uthando, kule Ngohlelo, njengoba umthetho, abantu musa acabangele izifiso kwabanye abantu, futhi kuphela bebodwa, njengoba abanothando - kuba umuzwa zobugovu.

2) I transience. Passion kwenzeka ngokushesha futhi ngokushesha "shabalala" kuncike ezicini ezihlukahlukene ukuchayeka womuntu. Ezimweni eziningi, lapho umuntu ephumelelisa efiselekayo, ugqozi buphela. Lena ngokungafani luthando lwakhe. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuyokwenzeka, futhi ukuze ugqozi liyakhula libe umuzwa oqinile futhi ijulile.

Ngakho, ngamunye kancane ayo Ungaqonda wafaka uhlaka welithi "uthando": yini intshisekelo, isifiso, uthando, futhi yini uthando lwangempela.