Pursuit of Happyness: izenzo - lena ...

Fedor Tiutchev kahle waphawula - Umuntu akakwazi kusengaphambili ukuthi izwi lakhe kunomsindo. Akekho owaziyo ukuthi ngeke ujike isenzo salo. Futhi sihlala baqonde ukuthi wenza into enhle? Futhi lokho, impela, lokhu izwi ukuthini? Izenzo - kuba yingxenye ebalulekile ekuphileni komuntu, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi iqonde izici zabo futhi lokho abayikho.

Uyini isinyathelo?

Ngaphansi isenzo ziyabonisa futhi isenzo esithile uzibophezele ngokuzithandela. Izenzo - ungumuntu abaqaphela umuntu, okuqukethwe ebheka semthethweni yayo futhi kuhlanzekile ngokokuziphatha.

Futhi, isenzo okukhulunywa oluthile lokuziphatha ngabanye, okuyinto choice bamatshe nezindlela ukuyifinyelela ngayo. Ngezinye izikhathi benza kanjena kungenzeka kuphambene izindinganiso zomphakathi.

Ngakho, kungashiwo kuqashelwe ukuthi izenzo - lena isinyathelo ngamabomu, okulinganiselwa njengoba ungubani zokuziphatha yomuntu, Kubonakala ngesimo sakhe sengqondo abantu, umphakathi kanye nemvelo.

akha isenzo

isinyathelo ngasinye siqukethe izingxenye eziningana:

• Isisusa. Aqondiswa yini umuntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo.
• Lwela. Konke okwenziwayo has umgomo oqondile. I engavamile lo mgomo kubonakala nethonya layo nezithakazelo zabanye abantu.
• Ukuguqula into. Konke okwenziwayo kunemtselela ubuntu bomuntu noma nabasizi bakhe, okuyinto iyahlule senzo.
• Kusho. Okungukuthi, abangabantwana ngazo ukwenza izenzo ezithile: ngezwi noma ngesenzo.
• Inqubo. Isenzo uqobo.
• Umphumela. Izinguquko ezenzeke ne ndoda noma imvelo yakhe.
• Ukuhlolwa. Imiphumela Ukuhambisana sezizathu kokuqala.

Izenzo - akusiyo nje izenzo ofezwa indoda nsuku zonke, futhi izinto sibe nezisusa nethonya ngamunye noma umphakathi othile.

ezindabeni zokuziphatha

Uma kuziwa ezenzweni, ngaphambili njalo iza nenkinga yokuziphatha. Kuyini isenzo zokuziphatha? Lena isinyathelo wemfanelo futhi bayazi, okuyinto akuphazamisi yokuzikhethela futhi izithakazelo zabanye abantu.

Ekuphileni, umqondo zokuziphatha kuba bangahlukani ulandele nomunye. Uma sikhuluma zokuziphatha, kuba ohlangothini wokuphila, okuyinto lihlotshaniswa nezenzo zomuntu, kwenta na isinyathelo langempela. Ukubuka endleleni abanye abenza ngayo umuntu yakha umthetho othile ngoba yena ukuziphatha, okungase okuthiwa ukuziphatha.

isinyathelo Zokuziphatha njalo inenani esithile sokuziphatha. Okunqumayo izisusa imiphumela isenzo.

Amandla kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha

Ukuze uqonde ukubaluleka kokuziphatha izenzo, kubalulekile ukuba uqale ukunquma, ngaphansi kwethonya iyiphi zokuziphatha, wayephelele. Ukuziphatha kuyinto:

• "Kuhle." Kuhlanganisa imiqondo ezifana nenhlonipho, umusa, isihawu, ukuqonda, onakekelayo.
• "Ababi." Yikuphi esekelwe definition yomhobholo nobugovu.

zokuziphatha kuphela ongabonisa kubantu kufanele aqondiswe zokuziphatha "ezinhle". Eqaphela ukuthi izenzo zokuziphatha okubi okulahlwa umphakathi, umuntu uyasizwa isidingo thembeka, ukuba sethembeke, ehloniphayo abadala, ukwenza izinto ngokuqapha, advisedly futhi ngendlela efanele. isinyathelo Ngakho zokuziphatha - isenzo inenani ezithile zokuziphatha futhi omuhle beqonda emphakathini.

Lona sici kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha: show Umuntu isenzo esihle futhi okubi.

Man - lena izenzo zakhe

Izenzo nabantu - lamagama letimbili atehlukaniseki. Ekuphileni njalo kudingeka wenze izinqumo, ukwenza izinqumo futhi benze izinto. Futhi ngokuba seduze nokuxhumana nabanye nabanye abantu, umuntu njalo inomthelela isiphetho sabo.

Ukuthatha izinqumo ezibalulekile, befuna ukuthola injabulo futhi sifinyelele ofiselekayo, ngesinye isikhathi bayakhohlwa khona ngokulimaza enye. Ukuqondiswa NguNkulunkulu "okubi", ukuziphatha zobugovu, isinyathelo ngokuphambene nomthetho zokuziphatha.

Futhi hhayi nje kungaba kuyayithinta imvelo. Akazishalazeli izinkinga zabanye, meanness engqondo, ukungafuni ukuthatha izinqumo nezenzo - izenzo, kakhulu yileyo okuncike ubuvila, ukunganaki nokungabi nandaba. Lelisu kungabuye ngokuthi izenzo zokuziphatha okubi, njengoba lokhu kunomthelela omubi kwabanye.

Kodwa akugcini lapho, ngisho izwi - kuwukuziphatha. Kwakungenzeka kanjani nje bathule futhi ubheke eceleni lapho othile kudingeka ebakhuthaza ngamazwi. Kalula futhi angajeziswa, ungakwazi uyasethuka noma babukise, hhayi ngisho nokuqaphela. Futhi namanje nzima ukuthola amazwi abaqotho induduzo noma udumo. Isizathu salokhu siwukuthi yonke izwi, futhi, lapho kukhona khona isenzo. Futhi ngokuvamile into enjalo kusho okungaphezu senzo.

Ngoba wonke umuntu kufanele kube umusho never-ophela yezenzo zakhe namazwi. Ezinye zazo yilezi yinhlonipho izenzo, abanye musa ngisho bafanelwe kancane ukunakwa, futhi izenzo ezithile singachazwa ngokuthi ukuziphatha okubi. Kodwa akufanele asolwe ngalokhu, ngoba isisekelo zonke isenzo isizathu esithile. Futhi njalo motif neqembu elilodwa umgomo - ukuze sijabule.