Ubuhlobo amabanga amade futhi kanjani Londoloza

Ngokuqinisekile thanda mnyama engqondweni, uma bevumelana ukuba baphile izinkulungwane amakhilomitha kude kothandekayo. Yiqiniso ukuphila ngisho simple, futhi isizathu ngezinye izikhathi ezinhle ngempela ukuze bathethelele ubuhlobo elide. Umsebenzi, imfundo kanye nomndeni kukhona nje ezinye izici eziningi ezenza izinhliziyo enesizungu ukulala umbhede awunalutho. Kodwa uma ucabanga ukuthi uthando sibheke Kude - ucabanga futhi.

Inkolelo yokuthi ubuhlobo elide akukwazi eside - inganekwane. Lokhu inganekwane iye ngokuphindaphindiwe ukulahlwa izigidi imibhangqwana emhlabeni wonke. imibhangqwana Okuningi kuka ucabanga, ngempumelelo silondoloze ubuhlobo bothando nobuhlala inthanethi baxoxe kude nomunye. Yebo, akulula, kodwa kungenzeka uma ukulandela iziqondiso ezimbalwa.

Ukuze uqale, kudingeka ichaze imithetho futhi unamathele kuzo kulo lonke isikhathi ubuhlobo. Zama ukuxhumana inthanethi kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngokwesibonelo, bhala nomunye okungenani kanye ngosuku, sebenzisa khulula Internet, ukukhuluma ocingweni kusihlwa, lihlangane okungenani kanye njalo ezinyangeni ezintathu. Ngenhlanhla, ubuchwepheshe ifinyelele ezingeni lapho ungabona omthandayo ku ikhamera iwebhu ngaphandle inkinga. Futhi, kufanele xoxa nomuntu othandana naye oyilindele kusukela ubuhlobo esikhathini esizayo futhi ayini amathemba abo.

Qotho kimi futhi bangethembe zidlala indima ebalulekile ibuphi ubuhlobo. Okokuqala, kufanele ukwethemba othandekayo wakho futhi ukunqanda nomhawu wakhe. Phela kuba - esinye sezizathu ezinkulu zokuthi kungani inhliziyo engenabantu abakwazi ukuyigcina kubo uthando buqamama.

Gwema umhawu ukuthembana. Enye yezindlela elula zichithe ngisho nobuhlobo ephelele kakhulu - ke ziwubuthi nomhawu wabo nemdlalo ezingadingekile. Njengoba ubuhlobo elide, wena kufanele ungazikhohlisi ngobunzima futhi umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama ukuthi uzovele. Musa baqhubeke mayelana umhawu Ungadlali imibuzo njalo ozithandayo ihlangabezana nabangani noma uma engawenzi ngokushesha sisabele obizweni yakho noma umyalezo. Iqiniso lokuthi une ubuhlobo buqamama, akusho ukuthi ukuphila kufanele ayeke. Zombili ungakwazi ukujabulela izinto enizithandayo ozithandayo, uhlangana nabangani, futhi isikhathi ngingekho ekhaya.

Yiqiniso umlingani wakho kuzoholela impilo yomphakathi, okufanayo okufanele kwenziwe futhi. Yiqiniso, akufanele sisekele iso ngokuphelele kuwubuwula futhi kuyisidala wayengakuboni izinto esobala, kodwa izinsolo ezingenasisekelo nomthelela omubi ebudlelwaneni bakho. Kudingeka sithembele uzakwethu, uma akazange akunike isizathu ukubuya. Kufanele futhi nobudlelwano, bejabule futhi esebenzayo.

Ungazami ukulawula nomunye. Wonke umuntu nezifiso zabo siqu futhi unelungelo lokunquma, futhi akekho umuntu okufanele azame ukuyiguqula. Ngizama ukubeka umkhawulo, noma kabani inkululeko uzohlangana ukumelana sina futhi izingxabano akunakugwenywa. Uma nje sobabili sinesithakazelo emshadweni, nikwazi ukuhlala nithembekile komunye nomunye, futhi ibanga ngeke ukwazi ukuyishintsha. Futhi uma kukhona unquma ukuthi ayisekho bajabule naye, ngeke ndaba ngabe bahlala emazweni ahlukene noma emigwaqweni ezahlukene, manje noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubuhlobo bakho ngeke inqamuke. Uma ufuna ukwakha ubuhlobo iqinile futhi bahlale bejabule, kufanele uqale othembela nomunye. Ingasixhasi okuthakazelisayo Internet, sikhuluma ngekusasa, ukwakha izinhlelo ndawonye, ukukhumbula izikhathi ezimnandi wachitha ndawonye, futhi izinhliziyo zenu nesizungu naphakade kuzohlanganisa ibe ukushaya kwenhliziyo olulodwa.