Ukuzikhukhumeza nokuqhosha - yini umehluko?

kunemibono ehlukene kakhulu ngale ndaba emphakathini wethu. Abanye bakholelwa - ukuthi ukuqhosha nokuziqhenya izinto iphambene, abanye - ukuthi cishe kuyafana. Futhi inguqulo ngalezi izimfanelo zomuntu zihlukile kubantu benkolo nabezwe.

Uma ufunda iBhayibheli futhi oFata oNgcwele yeSonto ke esiphethweni ilula: ukuzikhukhumeza nokuqhosha - amazwi impande efanayo futhi ngokuyisisekelo okufanayo. Ukuziqhenya okubi elincane, it is kuqhathaniswa ukuthi unesimila kungavamile ukuba ingozi, futhi sibe nokuziqhenya ngobuzwe ingafaniswa isimila esibulalayo, yingozi enkulu kokubili umuntu ngokwakhe kanye nabantu ababemzungezile. Kungani?

Igama elithi "yokuziqhenya" yakhiwa lonke iqoqo izimfanelo alithandeki babe yize, ukuqhosha nomuzwa wokuba mkhulu engenabulungisa phezu kwabanye nokunye. Futhi uma uzibuka Dahl isichazamazwi, kungenzeka ukuze ungeze kule ncazelo: ukuzikhukhumeza, ukuzidla, nokuzidla, ukuzidla. Ukuziqhenya imiBhalo - iyona kwesono. Kudala, ngisho nangaphambi ukuvela isintu, ingelosi esiphezulu kunazo Lusifa ngiziqhenya kangangokuthi babefuna ukuba njengoNkulunkulu. Yini kungaholelaphi? Ngu impi, ukwahlukana futhi ukuwa izingelosi liwile esihogweni. Ngakho kwaba khona okubi. Kunanzuzoni nokuziqhenya - lutho.

abantu Ebhizinisi nabo bayakholelwa ukuthi leli yokuziqhenya futhi sibe nokuziqhenya ngobuzwe - izinto ezimbili ezahlukene. Uyaziqhenya ukuthi abe Bathi kahle, lo muzwa wokuzizwa ubalulekile, futhi njengoba esasizifunda kwamaSoviet: ". Indoda - ke kuzwakala kukuhle" Isithunzi nokuziqhenya - izinto ezimbili ezahlukene, ekuqaleni nokuziqhenya livela zokungazi yena, izimfanelo zakhe kwangaphakathi. St Tihon Zadonsky uthi uma umuntu engase ukwazi yena - akwenza lutho okumele siziqhenye ngayo! Umuntu itheleleke nge nokuziqhenya, konke kuye bangafuni, ngombono wakhe ukubeka ngaphezu kwamanye, ongabazi acasuke nemibi, eqaphela yabo.

Ukuzikhukhumeza nokuqhosha zifana ngezindlela abantu abangenwe kubo, oziphakamisa ngokwayo, nomlawuli akusho ukuhambisa, ukuthobeka ayinayo, alamukeli amathiphu, ofukamela igqubu, svoevolnichaet nokunye. Ngokusho ezindinganisweni ezifanayo wokuziphilisa, le mfanelo enhle, abanye ngisho akhononde, yilokho abantu manje steel, nokuziqhenya, ungalilahli, Ukuthobela abaphathi, imibono yakhe ungathuli. Ngakho zama ukuqonda ukuthi ubani kwesokudla kulesi simo.

Uma uqonda mbuzo: nokuziqhenya - kuba okubi noma okuhle, kusobala ukuthi imicabango yabantu kule kuhluka abantu amakholwa ikude kakhulu okholweni. Ukuziqhenya futhi labo nezinye izimbangela imizwelo eyakhayo. Kufana esuselwe nokuziqhenya, agobile izikhathi eziningana lakhuliswa futhi zakhubazeka. Kuzoqalwa nge-okuyize, nokuziqhenya ongafinyelela ukucwaninga kanye ukushayela umuntu esihogweni. Futhi ingozi zako ezisemqoka - okungekho muntu omunye ake sono singeke sikhule enjalo usayizi ezinkulukazi njengoba lena.

Ukuziqhenya kuholela ngokuqiniseka - ukuthi kukhona lesono sokufa. Futhi iBhayibheli lithi uma ungenawo ahlulele abanye abantu, futhi ningahlulelwa. Kukangaki sacabanga ngecala izenzo nezenzo zabantu, ecabanga thina ke ngokuqinisekile singafani lokho! Futhi iNkosi suffereth ukuba siwele izono ezifanayo, ukuze basiyise ukuthobeka. Le ndoda, beqaphela lokhu, nezimangaliso: kanjani ukuqeda lowo muntu uyaziqhenya, ukuthi udinga ukwenza?

Ake sibheke Obaba oNgcwele, lapho sifundiswa ukuthi amandla, okuphambene ukuziqhenya nothando. Uma umuntu othanda umakhelwane wakhe, ngeke bayamsola, hhayi yena ngokuziqhenya ngokumelene nabo, futhi kungokufanayo nangendoda - izozama ukuqonda, usizo kanye nokwesekwa. Ngakho, kuvela ukuthi ukuqeda ukuzikhakhazisa ngokusebenzisa uthando. nothando olungenabugovu, lapho uvumela ukunqotshwa konke futhi lutho wena kufunwe emuva ngokwabo. Uma ukwenza okuhle, hhayi wena-ke wabuya ngokuphindwe ngekhulu, kodwa ngoba uthanda umuntu futhi sifisa kuye kuphela best - ngobuqotho nangokusuka enhliziyweni. Futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ukubona ukuthi kuyo yonke umuntu izinto ezinhle kuwo, hhayi ngenjongo yokuthola amaphutha. Bese kancane kancane, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, sizokwazi ukunqoba ukuziqhenya kanye ukuvelela kuwukuphela kwezici phezu kwabanye.