Umncintiswano for umshado: Ake izivakashi ungaphuthelwa!

Manje njengoba ukugujwa kokuhlanganiswa we abasanda kushada waqala ukuba waqonda abantu njengoba into edingekayo, ngokuvamile honeymooners kukhona umbuzo evutha: Indlela futhi kuphi ubambe lomshado? Ngeshwa, kule minyaka yamuva, ambalwa owakwakhe ibonisa indawo ezithakazelisayo futhi yasekuqaleni iholidi esibaluleke kangaka. Ngokuvamile, bonke izivakashi abuthele ekhaya lothile noma cottage noma intela amagceke inhlangano zedili.

Yingakho, phezu imincintiswano original kanye izipho for the wedding kanye inkulumo ingahambi. Ukwakha isimo bejabule izivakashi abashadayo basuke ukuqasha i toastmaster abanolwazi, okuyinto elibamba imincintiswano for the wedding, okuyinto musa ziyehluka repertoire yakhe yonke le minyaka 10-15 iminyaka. Yiqiniso, ngeke sikwazi ukusho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi imincintiswano ezifana lomshado ngokuphelele akekho idinga. Kunalokho, amahlaya ezinhle ubudala esesidlangalaleni ku "hurray". Kodwa lo mbhangqwana phakathi imicimbi yemishado ungathanda ukubona into engavamile ngempela futhi ongasoze zonke ekuphileni esizayo ndawonye. Uma ufuna ukuthola imincintiswano eliyingqayizivele futhi ezithakazelisayo ngempela lo mshado, kufanele bacedze kufundza emkhatsini sihloko kuze kube sekupheleni.

Okwamanje, izindawo ezihlukahlukene kwi-Internet ungathola ulwazi oluningi ezahlukene ngendlela romantic kakhulu futhi original kwamathenda emshadweni, kodwa eziningi zalezi ukusebenza yokuncintisana kungukuthi empeleni ihlolwe in practice. Ngezansi 3 ezithakazelisa kakhulu, ngombono wami mncintiswano ukuthi izikhali zayo kungathatha ngokuphepha ngisho toastmaster elitheni.

"Indlela ngahlangana nomkami"

Zonke amathenda umshado isitayela sakhe zihlukaniswe 2 izinhlobo - imincintiswano izivakashi nemincintiswano laba abashadayo. Lo mncintiswano ezithakazelisayo kakhulu laba abashadayo ngesikhathi mkhosi lomshado. It ikuvumela ukuba ujabule phakathi nawo wonke emshadweni. Wabekwa ngokukhethekile toastmaster emcimbini ucela omunye izivakashi amnike iwashi abawuthandayo ukuthi kuzodingeka ukuba bakhombise ukuthi umkhwenyana wakithi wawuhlala isikhathi kokuba ahlangane umakoti wakhe. Toastmaster ke iqala babeka yonke idatha ke amawashi ilandelana phansi, futhi umkhwenyana ngesikhathi ezazivalwe amehlo. Ngemva kwalokhu, wathembisa ukuza nemini, futhi, sandise phezu kwabo, zama ukuba ngingaphinde ngize. Ngaphambi kokuqala kwecala, lapho kuvulwa amehlo umkhwenyana wethu ongakabi abopha iwashi kumele zisuswe.

Ngemva iwashi lenziwe out, izivakashi ndawonye baqala ingayala umkhwenyana, lapho zihamba futhi yini okufanele uyenze, futhi kungenzeka ukuthethisa ngisho ngaye futhi behleka emehlweni ukunyakaza kwakhe kuxakile. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala ukuthi imayelana uzoshiya kwenye amawashi, kuyilapho umkhwenyana kuyoba njalo squirm ngokuhleka, bese ukuhambisa ngempela amahloni, ingqondo esinokuduma uhleko. Tamada, ngubani wakhethwa emshadweni, kumele njalo bathi, kahle, yilokho impela umkhwenyana waya lomshado, nangaphambi kokuba ahlangane umkakhe, ekugcineni ngabona ukukhanya. Lo mncintiswano ngokuvamile uhambisana esinokuduma ihlombe uhleko.

"Izindleko zabantu asimdingi"

Imincintiswano umshado isimiso ushintsho ngokuvamile, futhi kakhulu okusikhumbuza umdlalo izingane owaziwa sika uhlobo "okweqile yehlile." Ukuze ukuqhuba lokhu emncintiswaneni kumelwe kuhlu yonke izivakashi ukukhetha 5 - 6. Khona-ke etafuleni uzobe izibuko ibekwe, futhi nge round mncintiswano oyedwa isiphuzo ngamunye iyoba amancane. Zonke izibuko noma izibuko egcwele iyiphi notshwala, okuyinto ku imicimbi yemishado. Toastmasters inika abantu ngesikhathi ithimba itafula, futhi abahlanganyeli uzoqala ukuhamba kuwo.

Ngemva ehola Rhythmic umculo izitobhi, umbambiqhaza ngamunye kumele ubambe yimiphi isibhamu kanye ngokushesha ukuwaphuza. Yayikhona ngaphandle izibuko, kumele ushiye umdlalo. Ngemva kwalokho, omunye ingilazi luyasuswa, futhi umncintiswano lomshado uyaqhubeka futhi. Ekugcineni, emhlabeni itafula nje amalungu amabili eyodwa ingilazi. Ophumelele yilona umhlanganyeli owaqala ukudweba ingilazi yakhe lokugcina futhi uzokwazi ukuwaphuza. Njengoba lo mdlalo uya ngaphandle isidlo, futhi abahlanganyeli njalo uwaphuze e round ngamunye, kulolu vivinyo bengayi wonke umuntu. Futhi egijima ezungeza etafuleni kule minyaka round kancane ukukhumbuza umuntu ovamile uhamba kumbuthano.