Ikhaya Nomkhaya, Izingane
Ungathanda ukuba nezingane esikhathini zokuba umuntu omdala? Izinzuzo kanye nezinzuzo
Ubungazizwa kanjani wena uma uma batshelwa ukuthi ukhulelwe kuyingozi kakhulu? Kuthiwani 'sokukhulelwa izintothololo "noma ngisho ehlukumezayo elithi" starorodjashchaja "? Ngamunye leli gama umsindo njengoba uma isikhathi ukuyovakashela kudokotela, kodwa empeleni basuke bonke elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza owesifazane oseneminyaka isinqumo ukuhlehlisa kokuzalwa kwengane ngesikhathi lapho kuyoba phezu amathathu. Yiqiniso, asikho bakhohlise, uma bethi abesifazane abaneminyaka engu-35 nangaphezulu zithobe nengane yakho engcupheni enkulu.
izimali zakho ukuze
Breaking News! Izingane - kuyabiza! Abazali abasha, akufanele silindele ukuthi uzochitha ngamashumi ayisihlanu zamadola ngesonto umntwana, futhi zonke namanabukeni nje futhi baby ukudla. Engeza kuleli stroller, imoto esihlalweni, izingubo kanye imbeleko, kanye nezindleko zokwelashwa, futhi uzothola imali okuningi kakhulu kunalokho okudingwa oye wachitha sivakashile yabo wokugcina yokudlela.
Ingabe unayo ngaphezulu isipiliyoni ukuphila
Ngaleso sikhathi, njengoba uyobe kakade engaphezu kwamashumi amathathu, uyoba nenala nakho. Wena uhambo okuningi, zama ukudla exotic, kungenzeka ushintshe imisebenzi embalwa nozakwethu nakakhulu. Ufunda izincwadi ezengeziwe, efunda okwengeziwe emhlabeni, futhi kungenzeka abe ezingeni eliphakeme lemfundo kuka iningi abazali abasha. Kuyinto imfihlo ukuthi izinga lakho lemfundo kunomthelela oqonde ngqo ku ingane yakho.
Izingane zakho zingase lokhu, uyojabula ngokwengeziwe.
Nokho, Yiqiniso, kuyiqiniso ukuthi owesifazane owayeshushumbisa sizala emva kweminyaka 35, cishe ukubhekana nezinkinga ezithile ngokomzimba kuka omama abasebasha, ososayensi baye babonisa ukuthi amakhono umzali ngalesi leminyaka batholakale bephila kangcono kakhulu kunokuba intsha noma abantu 20s zabo kuze kube iminyaka engu-30.
Inyunyana singaba uzinze
Abesifazane abaneminyaka ephakathi kwengu-amathathu nangaphezulu saba nethuba elikhulu kakhulu ukuhlangana amadoda ahlukahlukene. Njengoba ikhula, it is ngokucace kakhudlwana azwisisa kuhle lokho akufunayo kubazali uzakwethu, kakhulu ngakho kwandisa amathuba ukuthi uzokwazi ukuthola umlingani nobani kuyoba ubuhlobo ujabulisa futhi uzinzile enikeza enjabulweni nasezinzuzweni ezitholwa hhayi kuphela pair kakhulu, kodwa futhi izingane zakhe.
Ungabona umzali ngaphezulu
omama abasakhula zivame kusimangaze bekhulelwe ezingalindelekile, kuyilapho omama abadala aba maningi amathuba okuba uhlela lesi sehlakalo kusengaphambili.
Ube professional kanjani ukuba umuntu omdala
Yebo, ngemuva kwabaneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala kungaba ibhomu wangempela, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo empilweni yakho futhi kukhona isamba umxhwele ukuqeqeshwa izigaba. Wena eyakho ukukhokhela izinsiza, ukuxhumana umninindlu ukuze uyeke ukuthenga imoto, ukuba abhekane ngokuphumelelayo nesitha nzima emsebenzini isimiso, futhi ekwakhekeni "omdala" egcwele - akuyona into kunikezwa umuntu ngamunye kalula. Ososayensi ukubika ukuthi ubuchopho bomuntu awufiki ukhule ngokugcwele, kuyilapho umuntu sigcwaliseka ngemva kweminyaka ecishe okungenani amathathu.
Ungakwazi ukuba nesikhathi esengeziwe sokuba nezingane zabo
career yakho ezinzile uyonika izingane okungaphezu inkolelo yokuthi usengakwazi ukhokhe irenti ngenyanga ezayo.
Abazali bakho siqu umhlala
Nakuba kungezona zonke abantu uphathe ukuphila iseduze ogogo nomkhulu kanye wonke umuntu jikelele abayikho, wonke umuntu uyazi kahle indlela badlala indima kwabahlengikazi. Uma abazali bakho wayephendukele nje 50, kungenzeka ukuthi bachitha usuku lonke emsebenzini ngendlela efanayo njengawe. Uma sebevele umhlala? Kuyinto ipharadesi langempela kuwe izindaba ukuhlala nomntwana.
Uyojabula futhi unempilo
Uyini omunye izizathu ezinamandla kunazo hhayi uhlushwa yini unquma ulinde nezingane uze amadala? It kuvela ukuthi uma owesifazane ubeletha emva kweminyaka 25, kungaba uphile isikhathi eside! Yebo, kuyiqiniso!
Ukuthatha zonke lezi zindlela osekukhulunywe libhekelele ...
Jill Robbins, self-bamemezela "umama omdala e lokudlala", wathi: "Njengoba umama ukhulile, ngiyaqaphela ukuthi engithinta izinto ngingajabula acasuke lapho ngineminyaka engu amabili: Igumbi unmade, ezingcolile ubuso, ibhulukwe phansi, ibhulukwe ku isibambo umnyango, ushiya indlu endaweni izingubo nokunye ekhaya. Angikwazi uphumule futhi sikujabulele ukuphila kuyini ngempela njengomuntu ocebile. " Lena indlela esichaza kangcono akulona inzuzo kuphela ukucabanga ngendlela yokukhuliswa kwengane lapho usukhulile. Khona-ke, uma une ku-wallet yakho isivele lemali umxhwele, uyaqaphela zonke izifundo ukuthi baphoqeleka ukuba bafunde ukuphila, une ubuhlobo obuqinile nomlingani noma oshade naye, futhi ungathathi ngamawala kanjalo ngqo ukuze izinto kancane ukuthi ngabe zikucasula eziyishumi edlule. Lokho uma engcono enawulungiselelwa wokuba umama.
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