Yini azibandakanya "" noma "wahlanganyela": isitembu in passport, isimo sabo emphakathini noma nje umhlangano omkhulu?

Ngokuvamile zokuxhumana nabantu ungabona isimo azibandakanya "" noma "wahlanganyela" in isicelo umsebenzisi othile. Yizwa mayelana ezifana isimo umndeni kungaba empilweni yangempela. Nokho, akubona bonke uyazi, ukuthi kusho ukuthini "Engaged", bezama ukuchaza lokhu izibikezelo eziningi ezingalungile. By the way, ngokuvamile ku-inthanethi futhi empilweni yangempela, lo mqondo ihlukile lukhulu futhi umqondo ogcwele kubantu wokuthi udukisa Umhlaba abasebenzisi Wide Web. Kodwa abanye abakholelwa ukuthi isimo azibandakanya "" limane nje lisho ukuthi owesifazane akayikuvuma khulula, ukuthi unesoka. Kodwa nokho lokho akusho azibandakanya "" noma "wahlanganyela" zokuxhumana nabantu kanye empilweni yangempela?

Uyini Engagement

Ngokuvamile, lwekucocisana - lena usuku lapho abathandi ngokuqinile unquma ukushada, kodwa ukuzibandakanya Russian ubhekwa ngosuku isicelo kuMbhalisi, okwathi ngemva kwalokho abasha banikwa ngenyanga ucabange ngazo futhi ukulungiselela umshado. Kusukela ngosuku umbhangqwana ukubandakanyeka kungenziwa ngokuthi umakoti nomkhwenyana. Umkhwenyana ngokuvamile linikeza umakoti i zegolide ukubandakanyeka (ikakhulukazi tetifundvo) njengophawu kahle ukungathí sina kwaleso izinhloso zabo. Kuvele ukubandakanyeka kuthathwe ukubika isinqumo emindenini nabangane (izwi lomlomo ukusabalala, njengoba besho), nangemva lokusebenza umbhalisi ukuhlela reception zemikhosi. Ngokuvamile lokumamukela ngesikhathi kuba nesizotha futhi bangalisebenzisi ikakhulukazi grand, engesiyo isiko efanayo eNtshonalanga, futhi amasiko okhokho bethu.

Umlando omncane

ERussia, kwanqunywa ukuba ahlele ukubandakanyeka ngaphambi komshado, futhi ukwenza lokhu kwakudingekile ukuba qiniseka. Yonke inqubo ukubusa emshadweni kuhlanganisiwe sokuqomisana, ukubandakanyeka bese kuphela emva isithembiso. Ngakho, ngemva uyise wengoduso yayivumile ukucela isandla indodakazi yakhe, abasebancane banelungelo ucabange ngomshado.

Njengoba wenza isinqumo ukushada, kufanele kuqala wazise abazali ubanikeze umhlangano, ukuze esisondelene umndeni ukuxoxa ngayo yonke imininingwane ozoshada, kanye esizayo wokuphila komkhaya (isikhathi kanye nendawo lo mkhosi, izivakashi eziningi, lapho nendlela abangaphila abashadayo njll). abazali Umkhwenyana BakaJehova bamenywa ukuba indlu bakamakoti ngaphansi kwanoma iyiphi ibhaxa, kodwa kuyiqiniso futhi wathatha kuzo lapho esidumisa futhi imicibisholo. Umkhwenyana sasinezimiso ukuza elambatha, nokunikela umakoti iduku, indandatho noma ezinye izinto zokuhloba. Umakoti kakhulu efanayo ubengekho ngesikhathi esifanayo, kodwa ekupheleni kusihlwa waphuma, ukuthatha izipho wanika okunenani umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Leli siko ngokuthi usole ezithakazelisayo. Kusukela ngosuku usole ngaphambi komshado umkhwenyana ukubona umakoti akufanele abe. By the way, esikhathini sethu ngokuvamile zonke izinto zihambe njengoba nesimo esifanayo. Ngemva usole osebenza ku Registrar. Bese ungakwazi "ake inzwabethi" mayelana ozoshada kubangani kuqashelwe kakhulu ukuhlanganyela. Nakhu ukuthi kusho ukuthini "Engaged" noma azibandakanya "" ngempela.

Ukwenza i-Inthanethi

Eminyakeni yamuva, zokuxhumana sekuwumkhuba abonisa isimo iphrofayela yakho "Engaged" noma azibandakanya "". Yini Esimweni esinjalo, kusobala, kodwa ngokuvamile lokhu isimo nje ukubeka labo imibhangqwana kabani ubuhlobo oye waqhubeka isikhathi eside ngokwanele, futhi akusho ukuthi zingabantu esikhathini ngaphambi komshado. Ngakho-ke, i-Inthanethi Akubalulekile amaphrofayli ithemba ikakhulukazi futhi ebalulwe idatha yabo futhi nje kudingeka ucele lo mbhangqwana ukuthi sinjani isimo sabo somshado.

isiphetho

Manje ngoba sewuyazi ukuthi lokho kusho ukuthini "Engaged" futhi "wahlanganyela", kuhle ukucabangela: ungawulahli uwangala emoyeni, watshela bonke abantu mayelana nesimo nomndeni non-akukho, kungcono nje isinyathelo ukuze isipele amazwi abo kanye nezenzo!