Zonke ukhathele futhi engafuni ukusebenza, yini okufanele uyenze?

Kukhethwa mkhakha esizayo - kuyisinyathelo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wonke umuntu uthola unomphela ebusheni bakhe. Nokho, ngokuvamile kakhulu kwenzeka lokho ngokukhetha indlela empilweni, eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, une umuzwa wokuthi akusiyona eyakho, ukuthi alwenziwa nje ngenxa yalo msebenzi. Caught in nesimo esifanayo, ungalilahli ithemba, ngoba awuwedwa. Abantu abaningi kakhulu, ngemva kweminyaka eminingana umsebenzi, ukuqaphela ukuthi uma wenza isinqumo esingalungile futhi kuba isikhathi ukushintsha imisebenzi. Phela wena ngokwakho njalo ukuphinda: "? Angifuni ukusebenza, yini okufanele uyenze ngale" Impendulo isobala. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi ucabange indlela ukuthuthela kwenye indawo yomsebenzi? Futhi ungcono ungacabanga! Njengoba abantu ngokuvamile baphelelwe isithakazelo umsebenzi wabo ngemva kweminyaka embalwa, noma ngisho nezinyanga imbala. Isasebenza ibanika injabulo, kuletha ukuzithiba ukwaneliseka, ngeke usakwazi wokuthi ufuna ukwenza konke okuthumela.

Nokho, njengoba umthetho, labo ochwepheshe asebethathe isinqumo ngokuqinile mayelana noshintsho umsebenzi, okokuqala kunakho konke, uhlangabezana abanolaka nempi yangaphakathi. Phela, bazobambisana ngokuphelele ukuphila kwakhe. Shintsha uhlobo umsebenzi, ukuya iqembu elisha ngokuphelele futhi okungajwayelekile, futhi owaziyo ukuthi yini kuzoba umsebenzi wakhe omusha. Kodwa uma kungenjalo, yini okufanele uyenze uma ukhathele umsebenzi? Sizoba ukuthatha ithuba futhi kuhlolwe indlela intuthuko sasiyokwenziwa enkundleni ezahlukene.

Nokho, uma wazi kahle ukuthi yini imicabango yakho "ungafuni ukusebenza, yini okufanele uyenze nalo awazi" abayi kuphi, kusho, kuyisikhathi ukushintsha konke.

Ngakho, Angifuni ukusebenza, yini okufanele uyenze?

Okokuqala ukucabanga ngokuthi uzimisele ukushintsha umsebenzi, futhi akukho ungashintsha ngempela. Funa iseluleko kumqondisi wakho, mhlawumbe njengoba uchwepheshe nakho okwengeziwe, uyokunika iseluleko esihle. Kwazi bani, ongakuthanda intukuthelo esesikhashana kuphela nokuthi konke zizoxazululwa e izinyanga ezimbalwa. Noma mhlawumbe uwena nje ukhathele futhi udinga ukuphumula? Cabanga ngakho, ayizange ngakho ukuthi "usike kusukela hip" bese ezisola.

Uma lutho kungaba umqondo wakho, futhi akukho okunye kodwa ukubuyela, nje musa ke ungesabi. Phela, ukuzethemba kanye, ezinqumweni zawo kuzokusiza benqoba zonke izithiyo. Ngakho eqinisweni lakho kwenze nokuba career yakho kuxhomeke ngokuphelele kuwe. Futhi uma unomuzwa wokuthi umsebenzi wakho odlule ayisakwazi ngikunike lutho futhi lingekho nethemba emkhathizwe, sime siqine, ushiye. Ake wena ngeke kube lula ekuqaleni, kodwa ekugcineni, uzothola umsebenzi kuyokulethela i ukwaneliseka okungakaze injabulo.

Ngakho, impendulo yombuzo othi "Angifuni ukusebenza, yini okufanele uyenze," aphansi. Uma umsebenzi ukuthi kungahambi kahle, futhi isizathu alikho yini, kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba iSilekeleli Sokwazisa kwesinye ndawo. Nanini sesabe ulinge futhi sithuthukise, ngoba ukuthola amakhono entsha, iyobalethela ngokwakho khona ukhululekile esikhathini esizayo kanye nokuqashelwa hhayi kuphela ontanga yabo, kodwa futhi ngaphandle emsebenzini.

Kanjalo, njengoba sasinothando bazama konke abangakwenza, uyaqaphela ukuthi udinga umsebenzi omusha, cabanga ngalokho ongathanda ukukwenza. Uma Siphuphé njalo mayelana ezinye izifundo, ubhalisele kubo. Ngokwesibonelo, ngidlula ukuqeqeshwa wezinwele noma nengcweti, ungakwazi kalula ukusebenzisa amakhono abo entsha emsebenzini, abahlezi salon ubuhle. Mhlawumbe kudala njengoba ngosuku lokuqala endaweni entsha, uzoqaphela benza iphutha futhi ufuna ukubuyela emuva.

Ukuzizwa isidingo phuma, ungesabi ukuthatha ithuba. Futhi khumbula, kuhluleka, ungahlala uya emuva evamile ngaphandle ukulahlekelwa. Phela, ngempela futhi ongoti abaqeqeshiwe kudingeka yonke indawo futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Ngakho, ukuthi ungakuthandi umsebenzi? Njengoba lase linqume ukushintsha umsebenzi, zama ukuba banamathele uhlelo ezilandelayo:

• Zama unqobe ngokwayo hhayi ukushiya. Uma naphezu kwayo yonke imizamo ize ke isikhathi sesifikile.
• Cabanga ngalokho " 'imiphefumulo.
• Bhalisa enkambweni ethile noma uye ku ukuqeqeshwa ekhaya.
• Hlela umsebenzi omusha. Futhi noma kunjalo akudingeki uzisole lokho okwakwenziwa.