Bobani swingers, lonke iqiniso ngabo

Ukuzama ukuthola abangekho swingers, akunakwenzeka ukuphawula izimbangela zalesi simo. Njengoba Bathi, uthando uhlala iminyaka emithathu, kahle, uthando ngisho kancane. Kodwa kufanele wenzenjani-ke lapho ugqozi isidlulile, uthando kudamba, wakhula waba into evilaphayo?

Othile wayefake eligoqiwe amaphiko ayo futhi ageleza kancane ngokusebenzisa ukuphila okuyisidina, futhi othile akajabuli nalesi simo. Kubonakala futhi engxenyeni yesibili wanelisekile ngokuphelele njengoba umngane, futhi izingane zikhula, futhi njengabanye bonke abanye abantu, kodwa walahlekelwa ezinye drive ekuphileni, ukunyakaza noma okuthize. Abanye basanda kuhlanganyela yokuphila okuyisidina, nezinye izitshalo ngokwabo abathandi. Futhi ezinye ingxenye enquma ugxumela jika, okuyinto okuthiwa uzokuhlenga isikebhe umndeni.

Njengenjwayelo, ngasekupheleni eze kithi lo mqondo futhi okwamanje abangekho swingers? Ubulili abalingani abenza exchange phakathi ngazimbili kwakhiwa.

Lokho zivuleka?

Igama elithi "Swinger" livela jazz "jika", okusho ukweqa okusheshayo komunye inothi kwenye, futhi esimweni sethu - "jumping" kusukela bathandane nalowaya. Indlela lokhu mkhuba kungenzeka kakhulu ezahlukene emaqenjini ehlukene sabantu, kodwa, njengoba sazi, izibalo - yizinto nenkani. Futhi ukusakaza ke ukuthi u-20% of imibhangqwana okungenani kanye wayekwenza jika umsebenzi, futhi u-40% mahhala kusuka izibopho Hymen okungenani kanye ngiphuphe ukubeka ubuhlobo esenqatshelwe ezimpilweni zabo.

Swing ihlukaniswe izinhlobo eziningana:

• swing lula akusho ukungathembeki ngokomzimba phakathi kwesibambisene nabo, kodwa ivumela uthando mutual, isifiso sakhe sokuhlanganyela kunjengokungathi ukuba omunye umuntu
• swing ezithambile uyavuma ucansi useduze nomunye ngaphandle ukushintshisana abalingani;
• swing zasendlini ivumela ukusondelana ngokomzimba, imibhangqwana exchange abalingani kanye ziyahlakazeka zingene amakamelo ehlukene noma ezindlini. umkhuba wakhe labo abashadile abazama ungathanda ukuzama ukusondelana ngokoqobo nomunye, umuntu hhayi ababewazi;
• swing ongaphandle kulapho abalingani ocansini konke ndawonye, ukukhulula amandla abo ku ngomqondo wokuthi isenzo kungenziwa ngokuthi i orgy.

Umlando omncane

Efuna ukuthola impendulo yombuzo othi obani swingers, lokumba umlando. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungasizathu sini, liyaphambuka eladabuka eCzechoslovakia esikhathini sezenhlalo phakathi nekhulu leminyaka eledlule.

Kodwa obanzi kunayo lesi simo sibangelwa eCalifornia phakathi hippie American. Ayikho Ukwesaba ingculaza noma ezinye venzabolevany abayeki isifiso zabantu ukwehluka ubulili - kwaba Isiqubulo sabo.

Eminyakeni 60-70 kwekhulu elidlule, umqondo uvele emhlabeni , "umkhaya-Swedish" futhi abameleli intsha kakhulu impela nje, njengoba kuqhathaniswa imikhaya bendabuko, ihlelwe "uthando onxantathu". swingers Swedish - bangamalungu "umndeni Swedish", bona ziqoqwa sisonke, njengoba kulandela: indoda + indoda + owesifazane noma indoda + nowesifazane + nowesifazane ube uxhumano ngaphakathi eqenjini.

Ukuxoxa umbuzo abangekho swingers, kuyacaca ukuthi sengqondo maqondana nalolu daba wehlukile kakhulu, kusukela ngokucijile engakhi omuhle kakhulu, futhi omunye ngabandayo ngokuphelele futhi swingers.

Lesi simo esiyingqayizivele sibangelwa emadolobheni amakhulu ihlelwe jika amakilabhu ukuzijabulisa nabanye kanye ukuphola, njengoba engu esifushane of swingers imibhangqwana, kusukela ngo-6 kuya ku-12 izinyanga, ngoba ngokuyisisekelo Lobu buhlobo ushintsho abalingani unomphela.

Ngisho Sigmund Freud owake wathi ngeziphambeko ngokocansi - akusiwona ubuhlobo bobulili obuphendukezelwe ngaphandle kokunaka ongqingili, futhi ukungabi ingqikithi ocansini.