Bobani ummeli wesifazane futhi ibhapathizwa? Futhi hlobo luni ubuhlobo bawo ukuhlanganisa uxhumano nomsebenzisi?

Mhlawumbe hhayi umhlali enjalo CIS, ongazange asazi ukuthi ngubani ummeli wesifazane futhi ibhapathizwa. Kodvwa kuliphupho njalo la mazwi zibhekwa kahle? Ake ukubhekana!

Inchazelo yesayensi elithi "ibhapathizwa"

Kum ngokuvamile okuthiwa godparents wengane, okungukuthi, labo ababe- phezu ifonti ngesikhathi isakramente futhi waletha izifungo. Laba bantu e inqubo nezinqubo ubhapathizo makalahle uSathane futhi baqikelele ingane ibanjelwe ezingalweni zakhe. Kepha akusikho lokho kuphela (hhayi kakhulu) ngomqondo impahla, kodwa umoya. Zibizwa ngokuthi vospreemnikami.

Godparents kumele baqonde ukuthi udinga ukufundisa kid kanjani ukuphila ngendlela efanele, ukuba agweme amaphutha. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo ngubani ummeli wesifazane futhi ibhapathizwa, kumelwe uqonde ukuthi akusikho nje abantu ababekhona ebandleni ngesikhathi sokubhapathizwa. Kuyinto, eqinisweni, abazali yesibili kwengane. Isibopho lapha kakhulu! Godparents kufanele athumele isibonelo ingane, ukuligcina. By the way, Kum shayela nomunye nabafazi / abayeni godparents, nakuba, eqinisweni, akuzona.

Bobani abazali ibhapathizwa futhi godson ibhapathizwa?

Njengoba eqhubeka ehamba aba izihlobo ngokomoya abazali sengane ngokomzimba. Empeleni, laba bantu amalungu omndeni komunye nomunye, kanye nezihlobo igazi. Ngakho-ke, akufanele ukumenywa ukuba godparents zabantu lingenamuntu futhi lutho. Noma okubi nakakhulu, bengavilaphi aluhlaza nokuphika izakhi ngokungafanele emphakathini.

Kungcono ukuvumela omunye godparent ngeke, kuka ukubamemela kule "iposi" umuntu, ngenxa nje yokuthi banquma ukuba ibhapathizwa nonina. By the way, iSonto kule aluphikeleli! Vospreemnik babe munye.

Hlobo luni ubuhlobo kufanele uxhumanise godparents?

Abantu ngokuvamile ungase uzwe inkulumo kumele sime ibhapathizwa, ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, ukuya ngaphansi ibhapathizwa. Ngakho agudlisela ubuhlobo bobulili phakathi godfathers. Empeleni, lesi simanga Akuwona wonke umuntu osamukelayo esontweni. Kukhona Izenzo zenkolo, okuvimbela imishado (futhi kuhlalisana!) Godparents godson futhi godparents nabazali zemvelo ingane. Indoda nomfazi angeke ukubhapathiza umntwana! Ngokusho izikhulu zesonto, ubudlelwane enjalo akhiwa ukulalana kwezihlobo.

Nokho, kwezinye izici, kufanele lizwakale linemfudumalo, friendly futhi nokuzwelana. Okungukuthi oluhle lokuzalwa ibhapathizwa nje kumele ukuhalalisela ibhapathizwa yami, njengoba enza! Ungenza amahlaya, kumnandi, kumnandi! Yiba godparents - hhayi esindayo duty. Phela, basuke babe ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuba sijabule, sokuthi bayothandana futhi babe abangane! Ikhona yini enye indlela yokukwenza, kodwa ngesibonelo sabo?

Ngakho uma igama lakho libe ibhapathizwa noma ummeli wesifazane, zikwazi lokho ukuze zifunde toast siyakuhalalisela esibhekiswe ilungu elisha lomkhaya, futhi eziqala ngamazwi athi "lokuzalwa oluhle, mfowethu!" (Funny ukubingelela wamukelekile, kodwa ngaphandle vulgarity!). Ake sithi, isibonelo, umbhalo olandelayo: "Kum! Ngifisa ukuba ube nempilo futhi enhle njengoba unjalo manje, eminye iminyaka engu-100! Bese ngcono ngisho, "noma ukhethe lokhu:" ummeli wesifazane wami othandekayo! Siyazi uthando lwakho yezitolo, ubungakwazi ukuthenga gum, kodwa ngeke sifanelane ekhaya lakho, futhi sithanda umndeni wakho futhi, ngakho sikunikeza kuphela isitifiketi ruble 1000! Thenga ngokwakho into encane, kodwa enhle ewusizo! "

Impumelelo ebhizinisini ebalulekile imfundo godchildren! Njengoba manje ukuthi ubani ummeli wesifazane futhi ibhapathizwa, Garner amandla, ukubekezela kanye nolwazi!