Busa - ingabe okuhle noma okubi?

Amalungelo Alinganayo Nokuhlonipha ubuzalwane ebuhlotsheni babantu - Cishe yilokho okuvezwa lungafinyeleleki kuka ngokoqobo. Ekuphileni, kaningi ezihlukahlukene izakhiwo kanye nobudlelwano nabantu noma kufanele zidonse isikhathi eside. Lokhu kusebenza imindeni kanye namaqembu amancane, futhi nomphakathi wonkana. Kokubili esisemthethweni futhi izinhlangano ngokwethukela ngaphandle umholi, ngaphandle umuntu ngeke bathwale imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe futhi ngeke wenze izinqumo cishe kungenakwenzeka ukuthuthukisa.

Kodwa ukuze linqobe - kusho, kunalokho, kungasiko kwenza abaningi ukucindezela, abuse, ibe phezulu noma enamandla kunezinye. Libuye ukwazi ukuphoqelela intando yayo. Zama ukuqonda kulindelekile umuntu ukuba abe umholi noma abangaphansi nalokho incike.

Uma ubheka umhlaba isilwane, lapho linqobe - iwukuba babe namathuba amaningana ukuze siphile, ukuze esiphelweni kanye ne-transmission yofuzo. Cishe zonke izimvu abe umholi. Wenza izinqumo ezibalulekile, futhi abantu esele angaphansi. Kunjalo kubantu. Ezikhathini zasendulo izizwe zinamakhosi zinduna zawo siqu noma abaholi. Kulokhu evelele ngokuvamile wachaza izici psychophysiological yomuntu. Lokho kuyinto ephakeme ezingeni kwe-testosterone, umzimba nemisipha futhi eqinile, ikhono ukuthola enokudla uwine izimbangi kusengaphambili ukuthi umuntu uyoba inhloko omphakathi. With ukuthuthukiswa ubudlelwane lezimpahla-imali, kanye kokusungulwa izikhali yezinto eziza kuqala futhi izici efiselekayo umholi yaqala ukushintsha. owesilisa evelele akusho ngempela isidingo sokuthi kube eqinile emzimbeni futhi aqine. Ngokuvamile, unamandla noma imali ukuthi ukuthuthukisa amakhono ayo ukunikeza umndeni bantu esondele a izinga lokuphila eliphakeme. Kuyinto ngalezi zimfanelo futhi umvumele ukuba zidonse isikhathi eside. Nokho, Kuyinto, indlela, okuyinto amanga ekujuleni enganakile yomuntu. Ingane ilalela abazali bakhe, ngoba kumnika lokho kuyadingeka kwalo. Abesifazane akhethe amadoda anamandla noma ocebile abhekana nabo lapho uzokwazi ukudlulisela izakhi zofuzo engcono inzalo, noma izimo zentuthuko.

Kodwa kuthiwani ushintsho indima? Kungani hhayi inhloko yomndeni njalo kukhona amadoda? Phela, kwaba inkathi matriarchy, futhi manje wobulili buthaka ngokuvamile esimweni kwezenhlalo kanye impahla namandla, ingasaphathwa ngokwengqondo. Kubonakala sengathi i-izici okubangela ikhono lomuntu ukuze linqobe, okungukuthi, ukuphoqelela intando yayo, ukuba phambili, ukuze anqume kusengaphambili izenzo zabanye - setha. Nokho, igunya - kuyinto bokuphila. Lo mqondo kuhlanganisa izici Ubumnene. Sanguine futhi choleric kunamathuba amaningi okuthi linqobe kuka melancholic. Indima ebalulekile udlalwa futhi le accentuation uhlamvu, okungukuthi evelele kuhlobene nezimfanelo zobuntu. Ukucindezela, kumelwe okungenani unganakile uzizwe nokubaluleke kakhulu othile ezingeni intelligence, ikhono, nginenhliziyo noma isimo nemingcele. Kuyindida ukuthi isifiso linqobe ezicini ezithile, ngokuvamile kubonakala abantu kokubili ukuzenyeza, futhi eqolo. Futhi ngokuvamile indima enkulu kulezi ukuthambekela kudlalwa ukukhungatheka - becindezela, imizwa kungalungiswanga, isifiso "ukubuyisela amalungelo abo 'futhi bahlangabezane isidingo ukuqashelwa. Okuhle noma okubi - umbuzo eziyinkimbinkimbi. Kodwa ukubusa kungenxa kakhulu ubunjalo indoda.