I izingcaphuno best mayelana nokuhlala ngokwehlukana. Amagama elingakwazi ukuvula amehlo akho ubuhlungu

Izingcaphuno eziningi mayelana ngokwahlukana - lena umzamo amashushu ukuxosha bonke ubuhlungu ukuthi ababekuqongelele ezinhliziyweni zabo. Ngoba kungenjalo ungase niphihlize emhlabeni kwangaphakathi yomuntu, kwasala nalutho nokulahlekelwa yithemba. Inkinga nje wukuthi e ngenxa yobuthakathaka kunzima ukuthola amagama kungaba ukuveza zonke leyo mizwa ezikuleli inhliziyo.

Ngakho-ke, ikhambi kuphela yeqiniso iwukufuna usizo kwabanye. Ngokwesibonelo, ukucaphuna amadoda olukhulu sokuvalelisa. Kakade, imuphi umahluko owathi amazwi okuhlakanipha, into esemqoka ukuthi ibonisa ngempela okushiwo okwenzekayo.

nesimemezelo yithemba

Iningi izingcaphuno mayelana ngokwahlukana ezithwala nathemba lesi simo. Vele kunzima kangakanani ukuba basinde lapho isikhashana lapho izwe ajwayelekile is igqekezwe izingcezu ezincane, njenge-puzzle yezingane. Alas, le mizwa wakunqoba abantu abaningi kakhulu, ngoba kukhona izinkulungwane imishwana edabukisayo kukhulunywa ngazo.

Njengoba ubufakazi sethula ezinye izibonelo elikhanyayo kakhulu futhi acacile kusukela nezincwadi zakudala:

• "Kepha mina, ngokuhlukana zimbi kunanoma ukufa Ukufa -. Kuyinto kuphela umzuzwana omncane, kodwa ubuhlungu uyakwazi ukuhlafuna kukho konke ukuphila kwami." Nureddin Abdurrahman Ibn Ahmad Dzhami.
• "Ngobusuku sifushane ngosuku olwandulela ngokuhlukana, Dawn lapha ukufakaza isiphetho esidabukisayo. Azithulele ehlebela omunye yokuvalelisa, khumbula ukuthi akukho ukubuyela emuva ..." Bernard Werber.
• "Susa uthando, umuntu hhayi kuphela ukushayela kaNkulunkulu, kodwa futhi beckons kuye uSathane." Leonid Solovyev.
• "Ekupheleni indlela yobuhlungu sokuvalelisa ngokuqondile wakhona amandla wazibonela uthando. Futhi izinkumbulo amahle ngakho, kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu ukumelana ubuhlungu 'Lowo ozayo emva kwabo." Mey Uest.
• "Kunzima ukuchaza indawo engenalutho lihlala at inhliziyo emva ukuhoxiswa uthando. Kodwa kunzima nakakhulu ukuphila umcabango wokuthi kungcono kuze kube phakade." Edward Schultz.

Uma kunothile omthandayo, ake ...

Ukudedela othandekayo kunzima. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kumelwe kwenziwe, ngoba uthando akukwazi. Lena isinqumo esinzima, okungase kwenziwe umuntu onamandla ngempela kuphela, uyakwazi ukuba banqobe ukwehlukana ngokwabo. Ngakho-ke, uma uthanda, uyeke futhi sibone ukuthi kwenzekani. Phela, owazi, mhlawumbe lokhu akukhona ukuphela kodwa nje nolunye uvivinyo ukudalelwa.

Ezinye izingcaphuno mayelana ngokwahlukana kungase kusize ukuqonda lokhu:

• "Ukwahlukana kuyinto ukubulala Luhambo amancane, kodwa ubhebhezela uthando oluqinile, njengoba nje isivunguvungu esikhulu somoya extinguishes ilangabi ikhandlela, kodwa inflates ukushisa amalangabi." Fransua De La Rochefoucauld.
• "Farewell - lokhu akulona njalo ekupheleni, ngezinye izikhathi kungcono omunye nje isinyathelo empilweni yami." U-Erich uMariya ziphawula.
• "Ngezinye izikhathi isiphetho Ufaka abantu nje ngenxa yokuthi beqaphela indlela esiyidinga nomunye." Paulo Coelho.
• "I zo bathi ngokuhlukana kuphela ongabonisa siyoba luhlobo luni lwabantu, kwakukhona wena. Kuyinto kuphela buqamama, yena izokhipha imibala bakhe beqiniso." Abdurrahman Jami.
• "Ngakwazi ukuba basinde izinsuku ezimbili ngaphandle kwakho, + ngakho, bear nokuningi." Bernard Shaw.

Farewell kubangani

Nokho, ukuhlukana hhayi kuphela indoda noma owesifazane kungaletha munyu ukulahlekelwa. Ayikho ubuhlungu kancane wahlukanisa nabangani abaseduze. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ufuna ukuthuthela emadolobheni noma ngisho emazweni ahlukahlukene. Nakuba zikhona izikhathi edabukisayo ngaphezulu, elibuye ubuhlungu inhliziyo nomphefumulo.

Kuyinto ngalezi nakho silandise zingcaphuno ezilandelayo mayelana nokuhlukanisa:

• "Akukho lutho kuleli zwe elihle ezingaphezu kuka isikhathi esichithwa nabangani, kodwa futhi ukuhlushwa okubi kakhulu -.. Ukuhlukana nabo" Abu Ja'far Abdallah Rudaki.
• "Ubungane - akusiwona ukukhanya eyethile enjalo aphume umoya lokuqala zokuhlukana." Iogann Kristof Fridrih Shiller.

izingcaphuno ongashiwongo mayelana sokuvalelisa

Maye, akubona bonke izingcaphuno babe abalobi zabo. Phela, kwezihlabathi isikhathi ngokushesha ukusula inkumbulo owathi lokhu noma lokhuya izwi. Nokho, lokhu akusho ukuthi ngoba lokhu, ezikushoyo nokuthi ubuhle balahlekelwa amandla abo. Efakazela lokhu, ake sibheke isitatimende okucebile eziye elahlekile izimpande zabo:

• Ngidinga ngithi goodbye, singabheki emuva. Jikela wena - khumbula. Khumbula - ukumboza ukudumala. Cover ukudabuka - ufune ukubuyela. Buya - nakho konke kuzophindwa futhi.
• Ngo sokuvalelisa, into embi akuyona ukuthi uthando ufile, nokuthi kanye kwalahleka ucezu umphefumulo wakhe.
• Kukhona ikhambi kungekho kangcono inzondo kuka ngokuhlukana.
• Ukube abantu bebazi ukuthi ngekusasa lakhe, ubengeke abe sokuvalelisa ujabulile zazo zangesikhathi esidlule.
• Ngisho ilangabi elikhanyayo sothando Umlando wakhe unika ice abandayo.