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Indlela ukushintsha ukuphila kwakho ngendlela ezuzisayo?

Abagxeki abafunda isihloko sihloko, ungase ubuze: "Yini ilungelo owenza umuntu ongaziwa ukweluleka kanjani ukushintsha ukuphila kube ngcono?"

Ngicabanga nginganika ezimbalwa zalezi amathiphu, ngoba ngaphumelela. Ngiye wakushintsha ukuphila kwami. Ngo ngendlela engcono kakhulu.

Ngemva kwesehlukaniso ziningi futhi zaba nzima, ngasala nezingane ezimbili. Ayeseza kabusha. Futhi ngaphandle kokusebenza ngokuzikhandla wokufundisa amantombazane ngokushesha sehliselwe inkinga ilula: indlela ukondla amadodakazi abo? Ngalezo zinsuku mina, anginaso isikhathi ucabange indlela ukushintsha ukuphila kube ngcono. Kwakudingekile ukwenza. Imiholo ingakhokhwa izinyanga, futhi imali, ngisho noma zazizinkulu, ukuthenga ezitolo mbibi. Kodwa ngangifuna nokubakhumbula sikhanyisa amakhandlela ukuletha imfundo ezinganeni. Emini ngangisebenza ke moonlighted, wabe esesiza Encane ukwenza izifundo kanye zokulingisa Alter-bathunga amadala: yena eyingoduso kumbuthano ezigcawugcawu. Bese umzukulu oshadile amadala wazalwa, kwakukhona isikhathi esingaphansi ngisho kwaleso. Umqondo ukuthi sekuyisikhathi ukushintsha ukuphila kwakho kube ngcono, nje ayifiki ingqondo yami.

Bese ngokuzumayo esezikhulile hhayi kuphela kodwa ngisho nomzukulu. Bengingakhulumi ezidingekayo. Engikuthanda ngaleso sikhathi? Umsebenzi, encishisiwe nge engangiwusebenza, izinzuzo futhi kuphekwe ... isizungu. Abekho abangani, engenandoda, akukho amathemba.

Lapha umbuzo kanjani umehluko kwaba ubambo. Ukukhethwa lalilincane: noma ushintsho, noma ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa.

Ngaqala ukwenza engenangqondo Clumsy, kodwa ukwenza.

Ukuqala wehlela phezu Simoron. Kukhona indawo enjalo. Uma unquma ukushintsha isiphetho sakho, qala naye. Kukhona ungakwazi kwenze umoya wakho uthokoze, thola abangane. Futhi kukhona ezithakazelisayo izigaba: Into Engakwenza Umcebo, Wishes, eziwusizo futhi eziningi nezinye. Bathanda futhi kalula, kodwa ekuqaleni umkhuba ubuchwepheshe amaphupho, Ngizokwenza ukucacisa ngazitholela nalokho ncamashi ngifuna.

Manje sengiyazi ukuthi ngingabhekana kanjani ukushintsha ukuphila kube ngcono. Ingabe benza uhlu izifiso, izindlela kokusebenza kwabo. Ukuze balahle ukucindezeleka wazindla. Khona-ke wathatha yena esandleni futhi waqala ukufuna umsebenzi. Ngangingasakwazi engu-40 ubudala, ngakho ukuthola indawo enhle kwaba ngaphezu nzima.

Sexy Simoron kwadingeka ngishintshe endaweni yomkhuleko sendlela kahle ukuyofuna umsebenzi, futhi kanjani ukuhlela izimpilo zabo. Iseluleko bengqondo, zezenhlalo, futhi abaqashi zingisize: enginakho umsebenzi omkhulu. Futhi makube isinyathelo sakho sesibili: qala ukwenza lokho limnandi.

Ngenxa ucasukile ngezinye izikhathi babuya, abangani awavelanga, kusihlwa, ngangivame wahlala kuwebhu. Kwenye indawo okwakuvinjwe izinkundla Ngahlangana nendoda. Sine naye ngenkolo, imicabango yabantu abuhlangananga, thina wagomela amasonto amabili. Khona-ke yena gade ngezebhizinisi emzini wami. Sine iminyaka emine, safike sashada.

Yenza isinyathelo sesithathu: Thola phezu kwakho, uqale ukufuna umphefumulo wakho womshado. Hhayi ngokushesha, kodwa ngeke uyithole. Futhi lapho abantu babe ozithandayo kanye umsebenzi intandokazi, ihlala yodwa ukuze uthole abangani.

Siye kuvuselelwe ubungane nabangane bakudala, thola abangane abasha kanye izithakazelo ezifanayo. Abanye babo babebuya waya engashiyanga trace ezimpilweni zethu, umuntu eba ngumngane wami oseduze.

Vakashela nabangani bakhe abadala, thola amasha. Phela, lutho ukufika, lutho yazuza.

Labo ungafuni ukuyofuna umsebenzi, abangane abasha, othandekayo, kodwa namanje ngizibuza kanjani ukushintsha ukuphila kwakho kube ngcono bangakunikeza iseluleko njengoba wezengqondo (lokhu degree yami yokuqala):

  • Ungesabi ukuphupha. Musa ukunamathela amehlo akho engqondo. Dream wasebenza njalo. Khona-ke imicabango imizimba yawo, futhi amaphupho ugcwalisekile. Ukuze lokhu kwenzeke ngokushesha, ukwenza ibalazwe izifiso.
  • Khetha inhloso, ukuhlela kwabo okumele kuqalwe. Futhi izimisele ke, naphezu kobunzima. Ukuhamba - njalo iza kuze kube sekupheleni.
  • Musa ukwenza lokho ungathandi. ukwenza nje izinto ozithandayo, uyojabula ne ngokwabo.
  • Musa unkom 'idla. Kusihlwa, lapho ifingqa ngosuku, ukuhalalisela wena ukukwazi ikakhulukazi. Hlela kusasa. Ukwenza kanjalo njalo, uyakuqonda ufuna futhi kanjani ukushintsha ukuphila kube ngcono.
  • Bazitike imininingwane ukujabulela eziningi.

Inhlanhla kuwe!

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