Iseluleko esiwusizo: indlela yokuthandana nabantu ngokwabo

Ukuze benze ukuphila kwabo kube lula, abantu beza nemithetho eminingi. Cishe zonke izindawo zokuphila kwethu zilawulwa ngokuqinile. Futhi kusukela ebuntwaneni sesiyazi ukuthi yikuphi okuzokwenzeka impilo yethu: isikole, isikole, umsebenzi, umshado, izingane, njll. Futhi kulo lonke uthando uthando ludlula ngentambo ebomvu. Futhi lapha, nakho konke kucacile: abafana kufanele bafune uthando lwamantombazane, banakekele, banike izimbali, amaswidi. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, ukukhipha umlilo wothando enhliziyweni yomuntu futhi ungamkhuthazi ukuthi ungoyena kuphela oyojabula nayo yonke impilo yakhe, owesifazane kufanele asebenzise ezinye izindlela. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi amadoda angabantwana, u-Andrei Makarevich wahlabelela ingoma yakhe. Yiqiniso, abakwazi ukuthanda ngo-kilogram yama-chocolates, kodwa kunezimiso, lapho kuyophumelela khona impumelelo. Ngakho-ke, ake siqale.

Indlela yokuwa othandweni namadoda ngokwabo. Umthetho No. 1

Uhamba phansi emgwaqweni, uhlangabezane ... HE, futhi uyaqonda ukuthi nguwe owalinda yonke impilo yakho. Umcibisholo ka-Amur washaya inhliziyo yakho, kodwa awuzange uyishaye. Oh horror, kufanele ngenzeni? Kumele uzinakekele ngokuphuthumayo, futhi okuthakazelisayo nakakhulu. Kanjani? Bheka isimo. Vula umlenze wakho, ziphonsa entanyeni yakho, bese usho ukuthi uzibonisile. Ngokuvamile, esikoleni ungahamba zonke izinyathelo. Umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko ukuqhubeka uxhumana naye. Isigaba esisodwa: kufanele ube nesithakazelo kumuntu. Yiqiniso, isibonelo esinikezwe njengesibonelo singathonywa kancane, kulula kakhulu uma wena nesilisa usuvele ujwayele. Kulokhu, thola ngokuzilibazisa kwakhe, okuthandayo. Uma ethanda i-parachuting, mtshele ukuthi nabo bafuna ukuphoqa ngokweqile isikhathi eside. Mhlawumbe uthanda ukudweba, ubuciko banamuhla - mema ukuba ahambe nawe embukisweni. Izinketho zingase zibe olwandle, into esemqoka umuntu eyazi ukuthi ungumlingani womphefumulo futhi nawe uzoba nesithakazelo.

Indlela yokuwa othandweni namadoda. Umthetho No. 2

Umthetho wesibili uthi indoda kufanele ihlonishwe. Cela iseluleko sakhe, bese udumisa ukucabanga okungavamile, uthi ngaphandle kwakhe awungeke uthole isinqumo esifanele. Wamukele ukuhlakanipha kwakhe, ithalente. Into esemqoka akuyona ukuyiqeda ngokuncoma, imizwelo kufanele ibe yinto eqotho. Khumbula ukuthi amadoda adinga ngempela ukudunyiswa, akusona isono sokusebenzisa lobu buthakathaka.

Indlela yokuwa othandweni namadoda ngokwabo. Umthetho No. 3

Mye abe yiqhawe langempela. Indoda eseduze nawe kufanele izwe njengomvikeli. Mcele usizo. Isibonelo, thatha ekhaya, ngoba kumnyama futhi kuyesabeka emgwaqweni. Londoloza kumakhelwane we-ham, noma, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, kusuka ku-cockroach ohlala endlini yakho. Ngisho nokulungiswa kwe-crane kungaba kuhle, into esemqoka ukuyiveza ngendlela efanele.

Indlela yokuwa othandweni namadoda ngokwabo. Umthetho No. 4

Ungakhathazeki. Ungabizi njalo, ngaleyo ndlela uzikhumbuze njalo. Ukudlulela izinsuku ezimbalwa ekuphileni kwakhe, futhi uma ungamkhathaleli, uzokubiza kuqala. Ungatsheli konke ngawe, ake kube khona ukukhathazeka, amadoda afana nokuxazulula abesifazane. Kodwa ungagodli, khumbula ukuthi owesifazane ngamunye kufanele abe nemfucuza, inkomba kanye nencazelo.

I-Psychology yomfana othanda ukuthanda

Eqinisweni, empini ukunqoba inhliziyo yomuntu, ulalela yonke imithetho. Amasu azintandokazi athuthukisiwe nokusebenza. Uyazi kanjani ukuthi uyinqobe uma engakhulumi ngemizwa yakhe? Mhlawumbe impi iphelile ekunqobeni kwakho? Noma mhlawumbe umyeni wakho ukhululekile kakhulu? Kuthiwani uma engazange avume ukuthi uthanda wena ezindlebeni? I-psychology yendoda ethandwayo injalo ukuthi uqala ukwenza okungavamile kuye. Ngakho-ke, umfana ojabule ohambisa amahlaya angamahle ngakwesokunene nangakwesobunxele, phambi komthandi wakhe angalahleka futhi ngeke akwazi ukuxhuma ngisho namazwi amabili. Indoda ethandwayo isengozini kakhulu, ingathintwa nanoma iyiphi inkulumo engenandaba. Uma unentshisekelo kumuntu, uzobiza noma abhale i-SMS okungenani kanye ngosuku. Indoda ethandwayo inesithakazelo kukho konke okwenzekile emahoreni angu-24 edlule. Uzokhathazeka: ingabe usenokudla namuhla, uthola izingubo ezifudumele, uma ubanda ngaphandle, uzizwa kanjani? Futhi uma ngokungazelelwe ugula, khona-ke uzokuza kuwe ngephakheji lemithi nezithelo. Lalela inhliziyo yakho - futhi ngokuqinisekile izokutshela ukuthi ngabe owakhethiweyo uyakuthanda yini noma cha, ngisho noma engaqapheli ukukusho. Jabulela!