Isikhathi esingakanani sokutshala intombazane? Impendulo yalo mbuzo inentshisekelo kwabaningi

Umndeni omncane, ukulindela umntwana kuyisikhathi esithokozisayo kakhulu! Futhi manje ngemuva kwe-toxicosis, ukuvuvukala, umzamo omkhulu. Futhi udokotela othakazelisayo, ekuboniseni isikhumba esincane sokumemeza, uyazisa izindaba ezinhle: "Unendodakazi!". Ngokuqhubeka nokukhipha esibhedlela, ubuyela ezindongeni zakho zendawo, futhi izinsuku ziqala ukuhamba ngokushesha kakhulu. Ama-diapers, i-diapers, amabhodlela, izinsipho, ukugcoba, ukugeza, ukuhamba, ama-powders, ama-creams, amafomula amancane - konke sekuvele kujwayelene, futhi impilo izuza uhlaka oluthile kanye ne-tempo ephakeme, futhi isikhathi sihamba ngokungaqondakali.

Futhi-ke umncane wakho usevele ehleka, ephethe ikhanda, ejika phezu kwesisu sakhe, edlala futhi eshicilela "gu-gu" wokuqala. Futhi kukhona umbuzo wemvelo - ungakanani ongatshala intombazane? Uyakhathazeka kakhulu ngabazali abancane abancane ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwendodakazi yakhe. Kunolwazi oluningi ngalesi sihloko, futhi konke kuphikisana. Abahlengikazi basho into eyodwa, odokotela abahlinzayo - omunye, kulabo abahambisana nezinhlelo ezihlukahlukene zezintambo ezintsha zokukhulisa - bathi lwesithathu. Ngakho ngubani okufanele athembeke futhi ubani okufanele alalele kulokhu okubalulekile?

Isikhathi esingakanani sokutshala intombazane?

Okokuqala, akudingekile ukutshala intombazane, noma umfana. Kodwa-ke, ngokuqondene nomfana, kunomkhawulo omncane kakhulu kule ndaba, futhi kungenzeka (kepha kungadingeki) ukuqala "ukuxoshwa" cishe ngemuva kokuqina, futhi uzoziphendulela ngesibindi esiswini nasemhlane . Kodwa ngizophinde ngikukhulume - awudingi ukwenza lokhu. Ngokuqondene namantombazane, ukuqapha okukhulu kakhulu kuyadingeka lapha. Isikhathi esingakanani sokutshala intombazane? Akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi ngamunye wabo, okokuqala - umama wesikhathi esizayo, ozohamba naye kamuva noma kamuva ofuna ukuba, nesifiso sabazali sokufakazela wonke umuntu ukuthi ingane yakhe iyingqayizivele futhi uyazi ukuthi angenza kanjani konke ngaphambili, angase "avele eceleni". Ngemuva kokuhlala kwentombazane kungase kuholele ekuguleni kwesisu noma ngisho nokungazalwa.

Kodwa nokho, ungazitshala izinyanga ezingakanani intombazane? Impendulo lapha izoba elula - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungakanani! Ungenzi lokhu nhlobo, imvelo ngokwayo iyoyithatha, futhi uma isikhathi sifika - umntwana ngokwakhe futhi ahlale phansi, ahambe, agijime. Ungaphikisani nemvelo, ngoba kunenhlakanipho kunathi futhi kule ndaba kuzokwenza konke ngokwayo - ngesikhathi, ncamashi kuyoba yindodakazi yakho. Ungaphazamisi naye. Wonke "amakhono" akho, "okutholakele" ingane kufanele yenze yedwa, ngaphandle kosizo olukhethekile oluvela eceleni kwakho, futhi kuphela kuleli cala uzobe enempilo.

Uma umbuzo - kungakanani ongayifaka intombazane, noma kunjalo, njengomfana, unike impendulo kusukela ekubukeni kokuhlinzwa, khona-ke kuyoba okufanayo - akufanele kwenziwe, kodwa incazelo izohluka. Umgogodla wengane ingxenyana ngokuphelele yesiguli sakhe ngalesi sikhathi. Ama-vertebrae awakakakwazi ukulwa nomthwalo osindayo obekwe emgodleni nganoma yisiphi isikhundla sokuma komzimba - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlezi, umile, noma uhamba. Futhi ngisho nokuqapha, kodwa nobudlova, ushintsho endaweni ekhululekile yalesi sinyama esincane kakhulu, esikhathini esizayo, singaba ukuvinjelwa kwengane yomgogodla, i-scoliosis, i-sciatica nezinye, izifo ezingadingekile ngokuphelele. Futhi kulokhu kuzoba ngcono kakhulu ukwenza konke kusengaphambili ngendlela edingekayo, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ukuvimbela ukubukeka kwanoma yikuphi ukwehluleka ekuthuthukiseni umntwana kunalokho, eminyakeni edlule, ukuzama ngamandla onke ukulungisa imiphumela yokungazi kwethu nokuzama komunye umuntu Ukukufakazela.

Ekupheleni kwalesi sihloko Ngingathanda ukuphawula futhi: lapho nginquma umbuzo wokuthi kungakanani intombazane engatshalaliswa, akufanele ukuphazamise imvelo. Vumela konke kuhambisane nalokho okuhleliwe kusengaphambili, konke, njengoba besho, kufanele kufike isikhathi. Phela, ngoba abazali, okokuqala, kufanele kubaluleke empilweni yengane, konke okunye - izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu.