IzAga mayelana nomsebenzi kanye sobuvila. Njengoba ezimbili ezeqisayo balolonge ezimpilweni zethu

Umuntu omdala alinganise nezikhathi ekuphileni sobuvila nasemsebenzini. Yiqiniso, amavila (ukuphumula) yena ukuthandwa, kodwa ethanda ukuba bafundise izingane ukuthi umsebenzi - ukuthi kuhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyinto nje enhle. Ukuze izinto ezinjalo izaga ephelele mayelana nomsebenzi kanye sobuvila. Kulesi sihloko sizohlola incazelo yabo hhayi kuphela kakhulu ngemuva imihlola eshiwo ngenhla.

Lapho umsebenzi - kungcono embi

It imisebenzi - ke omubi lapho umuntu akathandi lokho akwenzayo. Ngokwesibonelo, kukhona aphorism ezifana: "Uphi intando - kukhona ikhono." Yena okungukuthi ngokuphelele fair, ngoba uma abantu abafuni okuthile okufanele kwenziwe, wena azisoze zawufinyelela ezinye zinobude ku izikebhe, engatholakali. Ngokwesibonelo, insizwa iya lesi sihlahla isidingo iminyaka engu-15. Eqinisweni, lowo - umculi, imbongi noma umculi, kodwa isidingo uyashayela up by umshini. Okokuqala lona, liyokuma isikhathi eside lapho, namanje gone, futhi okwesibili, kungenzeka ngamafuphi lonke ibhizinisi, njengoba umsebenzi kuyoba ngaphandle isifiso. Ngamanye amazwi, izaga emsebenzini futhi ubuvila evumelekile ngokuphelele kuphela maqondana uhlobo lomsebenzi lowo muntu othandekayo.

Sebenza njengoba value

Umsebenzi - lokhu kuyinto enhle, ngoba kushintsha umuntu. Akukho mehluko, yini okufanele uyenze, into esemqoka - do it nge isifiso ngisho nabanye injabulo, bese "amehlo bayesaba, kodwa izandla abakwenzayo." Uma kungekho isifiso sokusebenza ke besaba wina.

Okuncane kakhulu ezweni lanamuhla

Manje umsebenzi - kungcono okhulekela izithixo, kanye ukuvilapha, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akuyona imfashini. Noma ubani Goof off, hhayi uthole iPhone njalo futhi kuyoba isiphukuphuku. Oh, futhi uyonishiya emzaneni nogogo wakhe, hhayi Maldives. Akekho umuntu othanda ukuthi bayaxabana kuleli zwe, ngakho wonke umsebenzi ophuthumayo. Kodwa ingabe ikhona yini imivuzo ke?

Ubuvila - kukubi

Lapho umuntu akusebenzi ngaso sonke, akukho matasa futhi akangeni ngisho ufune into ngendlela ethandwa nguye, nguye nje ukhona ngezithukuthuku zabanye. Futhi okubi ngisho yokuthi kuholele ekuziphatheni okubi kobulili ngendlela yisinanakazana wokuphila, futhi yini umuntu ngaphandle ezokuzilibazisa amakhefu njengomuntu. Kodwa kulokhu, ingabe izaga ofanele kakhulu mayelana nomsebenzi futhi ubuvila:

• "Ngubani akusebenzi ngeke udle kukho."
• "Ongenayo ukuhlwanyela, kepha ayiyikugcina avune."

Nokho, kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke sizamukele sina. Esinokwethenjelwa imali Okuvinjiwe ukuphuca.

Woza engqondweni ngalo mqondo akuyona nje abafana big ubani ifike kuthathwe kubazali babo imali izidingo zabo siqu futhi ngokuvamile ekuphileni, kodwa futhi emizi abakholelwa ukuthi azanele - kukuhle.

Lapho ayisebenzi guys omdala futhi ihlale ithule on entanyeni abazali, kuyacaca ukuthi kungani kukubi, bamunye "izingane okuphakade." Khona-ke uma umuntu ngenxa yengozi ethile noma ukungaqondi iphelelwe umshado wabo, nengxenye yabo yesibili ukuthi kungani kanti akakwazi ukwenza lutho. Laba bantu kungukuthi ngiyijwayele impilo, ngoba abazali bazo ungavumeli ukuba isebenze.

Kusukela emizi enye indaba. Abesifazane, lapho kucishwa kusuka ekuphileni komphakathi, ngokushesha okukhulu, "phansi", okusho Yeka isikhathi qapha, khuluphala. Kafushane, baphelelwa ukuma ayisekho ngokobulili bakhangwa kubayeni babo. Kanjeyana they ogibeni setha bawabekela ubuvila yabo futhi passivity. Kodwa uma lezi abesifazane badunyiswa saga zabasebenzi kanye nobuvila, ukuthi kungaba abasha, mncane, asebenzayo futhi emuhle.

Ubuvila - kukuhle

Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu - Bani ezibulala ngomsebenzi, futhi wayeyoba ukuphumula okuhle, ukuvilapha kancane, kodwa akakwazi: kumele sisebenze, ngoba umsebenzi isibe injongo yokuphila futhi funa zako ezisemqoka, kancane ayibalulekile kunalokho ukudla namanzi. Bad kanye neqiniso lokuthi umuntu onjalo eliphakanyiswe impucuko yesimanje njengendlela ekahle ezithile, futhi kunemiphumela efinyelela kude kangaka.

Abazali abangoFakazi wesaba ukuthi izingane zabo ziyoba phathelana losers, ukuqeqesha izingane zabo ngokunqoba esizayo: izifundo, amakilabhu, ngesiNgisi. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane "uphonsa efile" kusukela nakakhulu leyo misebenzi. Basuke ukukhokha abazali babo ukwesaba. Yebo, ungakhohlwa ukuthi kukhona esikoleni. Iphinde alithathe ezinye amandla engqondweni nasemzimbeni. Futhi uma labo okhokho meet futhi uyibona off enzalweni yabo Isebenzisa izaga kanye amazwi aphathelene nomsebenzi, kufanele ngokushesha stop ukwenza lokho!

Mhlawumbe abanye abantu kokufunda lesi sihloko yilezi "abanikazi ojabulayo 'ingane feeds. Uma becabanga ngalokho isaga zomsebenzi izingane okufanele Daze zabo, sithi lokhu: iyiphi isudi, kodwa kungcono okwesabisa ubuvila isaga. Isibonelo, lokhu: "Ubuvila kuba kubi kunokuqala isifo" noma "ubuvila, ubuvila, avule umnyango, bashise! - Okungenani mina bashe, kodwa ayizange evulekile ".