Kanjani ukubonisa uthando indoda, ukuthi wayemthanda wena?

owesifazane ngamunye nokuba nobuhlobo indoda efuna ukuba banamathele emithethweni ethile ukuhlobana okukhona phakathi kwala madoda amabili kwaba kujabulise kakhulu futhi ukhululekile kokubili. Kodwa kungani kungewona wonke kwenzeke? Indlela uthande indoda bambeke ukuba akuthande?

Ucwaningo lolu daba bekulokhu isihloko imisebenzi eminingi bengqondo. Uchwepheshe ngamunye wayefuna ukuletha ifomula ezinye ezintsha kanye yasekuqaleni ubuhlobo ephelele. Kodwa umphumela kwaba kuphela ukuze bahlanganise izimiso eziyisisekelo indlela ukuthanda indoda futhi simjabulisa. Ake sibheke ezinye zazo.

Okokuqala, owesifazane kufanele bazazi injongo eyinhloko yobuhlobo nomuntu wesilisa. Njengomthetho, kuyisibopho sakho ukuqinisekisa induduzo esiphezulu yena kuye, ubudlelwano ivumelane ne eside. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ufunde ukuthi uthando umuntu, kubalulekile ekuqaleni lokuzinqumela, kungani-ke, futhi khumbula ukuthi ugqozi njalo. Njengomthetho, izingxabano emndenini uqale ngenxa yokuthi abesifazane ngokuvamile izikhalo: PMS, amaphaphu emini, ukukhathala, nomhawu, nokunye. Ngakho kudingeka ukucabanga ngokuthi umlingani wakho kuwufanele ukuthula, futhi ngokufanelekile, lakho inkinga enjalo.

Ulandela iseluleko izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, kubalulekile ukuba sidumise umlingani wakhe. Uma akufanele udumo, akunandaba mqondo kuye ukulahlekelwa nhlobo. Udinga ukukhetha amagama afanele ukuze umuntu amthandayo. Masikwenze kubenjalo ukuthi angaphinde ambone ngentshisekelo yakho kuye futhi izenzo zakhe, bonisa ukunakekelwa. Musa ukulandela isimiso "ukuze badumise -. Izindlela bonakalise" Kuyinto esebenzayo nje ebuntwaneni. Adult ukuba adumise kungenzeki, ngoba ngamunye wethu kukhona umkhawulo ukuzethemba.

Akekho umuntu othanda ukuba eyihlazo yomphakathi. Igunya amadoda emphakathini kubaluleke ngaphezu owesifazane owayeshushumbisa ngezinye izikhathi uye ukufihla ngaphansi azenze isiwula zokunganaki. Kanjani ukubonisa uthando indoda? Cabanga ukuthi iningi umuntu othembekile, engxenyeni yesibili iqala ulimaza idumela lakho phambi kwabangane, osebenza nabo noma ophathini - lokhu okulingana ummese emhlane. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba nesoka lakhe ukuba ahloniphe futhi asekele kuzo zonke izimo.

Lapho esebenzelana nabo kufanele ugweme amagama tijobelelo amancane, ngoba zizwakala akuyona njalo afanele kuye. Kungcono agcinele lolu hlobo of nkulumo for ubusuku ekhethekile lempumelelo lothando.

Owesifazane kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi ukuqashelwa muntu othandekayo othandweni kakhulu inkanuko ukuzethemba futhi kuthuthukisa kakhulu. Nokho, lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ngikhulume la mazwi ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungenjalo incazelo ukulahlekelwa kwabo umsindo. Kodwa bayakhohlwa nabo, futhi, hhayi zinkulu.

Abesifazane kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi uzakwethu kufanele kube yinto esemqoka ubuhlobo. Kuyinto elula kakhulu ngoba Akubalulekile cabanga isinqumo, "izinkinga zaleli zwe" lapho zonke kungenziwa waziphatha indoda. Akukona zilulaza owesifazane except for labo izimo lapho uzizwa ululazekile. Othile uyabubona wanika isandla sakhe njengoba lomkhumbi olamandla ongedluli, nabanye - njengoba mfana ukuthi owesifazane akakwazi gxuma phezu ichibi yobuthakathaka bomzimba of the imilenze.

Wonke umuntu wesifazane kufanele bakwazi ukupheka wenze njalo. Lo magazini ebuhlotsheni ngisho kuxoxwa. Uma kungenjalo, umuntu uzothola ngokwabo ngekhono ukupheka!