Njalo girl e babegcina sakhe osebenza kwabobulili obuhlukile. Futhi abaningi babo bebhekene nenkinga yokushoda uzwela guys ukuthi ngempela ezethusayo nkosazana esencane. Kodwa akubona bonke abantu uzama ukuxazulula le nkinga, sithembele sikhathi, ethi ayoyiletha isikhulu wakhe, ayizalele ngiphuphe kusukela ebuntwaneni. "Kungani Angiyithandi guys?" - ingenye imibuzo ebuzwa kakhulu isikhathi sethu.
Futhi ubani oyithandayo?
Uma isinqumo ukuze uthole impendulo yombuzo othi: "Senzeni? Angiyithandi guys" - ukuqala nge Cabanga ongamenza ukuthandana. Mhlawumbe nawe idealize amaphupho abo futhi silwele ngabo, engazi uzwela kweqiniso emhlabeni yena. Kodwa kulokhu, kudingeka uqonde ukuthi izikhulu safa kanye izibankwakazi, futhi ikhophi-Brad Pitt awukaze ukuhlangabezana. Yehlela emhlabeni. Bhekisisa ngokwabo, ukubukeka kwabo futhi uhlamvu. Uneminyaka ephelele, ukubheka insizwa ezifana? Uma kunjalo, yini okufanele inconywe, kusho uhlala endaweni ethile ngempela ingxenye yakho, ekahle efanayo lapho ukhona. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, mhlawumbe futhi akusho "ungathandi wobulili obuhlukile", kodwa umane bakhangwa amantombazane? Lokhu inkinga ehlukile, lapho kufanele ujike kudokotela wengqondo ngiyofuna noma zama ukwakha ubudlelwano bobulili obufanayo, futhi ukuhlola ukuma kwabo kweqiniso.
Angiyithandi ubani!
"Kungani Angiyithandi abafana, ngoba ukuthi banayo yonke ingqondo yami ukuba kuthiwe uthando?" Futhi ngempela - kungani? Mhlawumbe bengekho uhlobo yakho? Zama bajwayelane insizwa inkampani ezahlukene, ukubukeka ehlukene kanye nobudala. Kanti futhi musa like? Khona-ke, isizathu mhlawumbe itholakala ebuntwaneni. Kuyini ubuhlobo bakho nobaba wakho? Ngokuvamile, amantombazane owufunayo ukucabanga insizwa, like a twin, like ubaba. Kodwa ake ucabange ngakho - uyise uyakuthanda sengathi indodakazi, hhayi intombazane. Wazi kanjani ukuthi kungaba eyingoduso yakho? Yebo, futhi uthando lwenu ngaye wehlukile imizwa indlela abobulili obuhlukile. Yebo, ubaba wakho uphelele, kodwa yinye, futhi udinga ukukhulisa izingane ehluke ngokuphelele. Musa ufuna aphume endlini kayise ukuphila endlini efanayo?
Kungenzeka yini ukuthandana ufana nje?
Uma ubusazi impendulo yombuzo othi "kungani Angiyithandi abafana," ungase wenze umzamo ukuze uthande umuntu elala nawe. Yiqiniso, lokhu kufanele kwenziwe, kodwa uma umuntu engenaso umfana oyithandile, ngisho emva inhlangano eside ayizange sembelwa umphefumulo, akunakwenzeka ukuthi kungabangela ngokwakho ngaphakathi
ukuzwelwa. Konke lokhu ngeke ngamabomu, wena nje uyohlupha indoda. Kungcono ukuthola omunye futhi sizame ukuthola kulo ngasohlangothini oluhle. "Angiyithandi guys" - okushoyo, isandla sakhe ubumfihlo. Kodwa kunabantu abaningi kangaka amahle, amadoda khulula, omunye wabo ngokuqinisekile ngeke ukuheha wena. Bangayeki emhlanganweni wokuqala, lapho ebona ibala ku ihembe lakhe. Kungase kungabi slob, kodwa Ngathulula ikhofi kuso ehhovisi. Funda guy kangcono wehlele usuku wesibili nowesithathu, zama ukuba banake amaphutha (akabe uqaphela eyakho). Khona-ke ukuhlehlisa lesi sifundo eceleni bese ubheka ezinye, ezifana "Ingabe intombazane efana nomfana?" Ukuze ufunde mayelana leyo mizwa mutual Ingabe unayo esifanayo nomuntu omncane.