Yiziphi izimpawu uthando ezingabantu?!

Wonke umuntu wesifazane njalo abanesifiso umbuzo owodwa: kanjani ukuqonda ubuhlobo indoda kuye. Ukuze uqonde lokhu akukona silula indaba ephathwayo, namuhla sizoxoxa yiziphi izimpawu uthando ngoba amadoda. Yiqiniso, sizozama ukuhlonza nenqubo main, kodwa ungakhohlwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthi abantu abazalwa ezahlukene. Futhi lapha kubalulekile ukuthi bayowenza. Kodwa, ngisho kanjalo, kungenzeka ukuhlonza lezo zibonakaliso ngenxa yothando amadoda, okuyizinkinga ezivamile kakhulu, futhi engaveza ngezindlela ezingafani, cishe kuzo zonke omele wobulili namandla.

Njengoba ojwayelekile, at the stage of nucleation izimpawu uthando umfana intombazane ngokulambisa lizwakale. Zizwe futhi baqonde kungaba we okuthiwa iso umdlalo okhethekile. Olwa for inhliziyo yakho ingashaya ngokuphindwe okudelelayo, noma ofihla amehlo akhe, kungaba ngokuqondile iso, noma kungaba umfana noma usekhulile. Lapha kubalulekile ukuba banake indlela indoda ihlala, ie kubukisisa indlela yekuma yakhe. Noma ubani akagcini ngokuba nesithakazelo esiqotho owesifazane iqala ukufinyelela kuye, ukuncika kuye, njalo ngimlandela zinjengethunzi. Kulesi sigaba, okungukuthi esigabeni azalelwa indoda azizwa kaningi phakathi ingxoxo into kunaka kwabo uyangingiza, okuvunyelenwe ngayo noma nje zithwale okunye ukwaziswa kadoti. A uphawu olucacile ucabanga ngemizwa enamandla, okuyinto waphinda kuqinisekisa ukuthi ngempela indoda akayena ongenandaba kuwe, kunenkolelo ukuthi ngesikhathi ingxoxo nawe kokuqala okuthile twist ezandleni zakhe.

Futhi lokhu akuyona yonke izimpawu uthando amadoda. Uma uqaphela ukuthi umlingani wakho uqala ukukhuluma nawe kakhulu loudly noma, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ethule kakhulu, eziningi UYAHLEKA kanye namahlaya, noma uzama ukubheka kakhulu, lokhu kuwubufakazi obucacile bokuthi umuntu ukwenze abakhethiwe yakhe. Nokho, kukhona enjalo ukuthi ekuqaleni umuntu ubuhlobo ugwema ngokucophelela nawe iyiphi buhlobo kwakuwukuba. Lokhu akufanele kusenze ukukhathazeka. ukuziphatha Okufanayo kwenzeka ngoba wayenamahloni ngokweqile futhi injabulo.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izibonakaliso uthando amadoda ezitshaliwe seziqala ukubonakala futhi kuba lula kakhulu ukuqonda uma uyakuthanda yini noma cha. Isibonakaliso eziqinisekile ka kothando wesilisa - kuyinto kwemizwelo yakhe njalo okuhle. Futhi qaphelani-ke zonke emhlabeni, okungukuthi, abantu osebenza nabo, iinhlobo zenu nabangani benu, futhi abantu ngisho engajwayelekile.

We hlola labo izici avele esigabeni sokuqala ubudlelwane nucleation. Manje ake ukuhambisa nokuxoxa ukuthi kuzokwenzekani. Lapha kuyafaneleka yokuthi ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ake umuntu e yakhe Sanctum kwangaphakathi, okungukuthi ekhaya lakhe, futhi kuvumela ukusingatha, khona-ke zonke wathi. Njalo uba futhi uyaziqhenya yokuthi lokho kushintsha ozenze endlini yakhe, isibonelo, hung amakhethini ezintsha noma izitshalo elaligcwele indlu, kuba Akungabazeki nhlobo ngenxa indoda ohlobene nawe engahlali. Kubalulekile ukugqamisa elinye iphuzu: umuntu othanda uyojabula ukwethula kini ukuba abangane babo futhi uthathe kule nkampani ngempela. Ngokuphawulekayo, izimpawu uthando Man akuyona okuningi ezahlukene kusukela eyabantu abadala kakade.

Umuntu othanda wena uzolunga enze ukuzidela okuthile ngempela. Yena uyakwazi ukukhuthazela emkhayeni wakho, ukuyeka ibhizinisi lakhe futhi abaleke isicelo sakho ukuze ufinyelele, ukuya nokubuya isigamu edolobheni, bese wonke, befuna ezinye izinhlobo eyayidingeka kakhulu kuwe. Kodwa, yilokho kubalulekile: musa bewenza lo uhlobo isheke eliqinisekiswe futhi kwenza amadoda prodelyvat efana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umthanda kangakanani nawe noma.

Futhi ekugcineni, uma umuntu engithé kuwe ngaso efuna izingane ndawonye, kukhona kakade nzima aqonde sina izinhloso zakhe kanye imizwa yakhe ejulile.
Yiqiniso, wonke umuntu wesifazane uyakwazi kwasekuqaleni ubudlelwano nucleation ukuba baqonde indlela indoda emphatha ngayo kuye. Kepha thandani noma cha, ungafunda kuphela ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile!