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Kungani "bamatasa kakhulu" - lokhu amanga enkulu?

Wake wathi kuwe, 'Ngimatasa kakhulu "? "Ngimatasa kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nale ndoda na?" "Ngimatasa kakhulu ukuba banakekele impilo yakho?" "Ngimatasa kakhulu lifunde olunye ulimi?" Ungase uthi ngisho ngikuvume ukuthi namuhla kwaba "bamatasa kakhulu" ukwenza okuthile ukugubha. umemezela Abaningi abalele ngaphezu kwesikhathi esisodwa.

Kuleli zwe yokuguquka, ukufinyelela okungenamkhawulo kulo lonke ulwazi, kanye iziphazamiso inqwaba kutsi umphakatsi wetfu has ngakujwayela ukusekela umsebenzi ngenxa yayo ... ukubonakala kwaso. Nokho, kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi umsebenzi zokukhiqiza. Singaba matasa zonke zokuphila kwethu omdala, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo usuku hhayi ukuba siphumelele. Yingakho amazwi "Ngimatasa kakhulu" kungaholela yalokho ezimbi.

Sivuna ukuhlwanyela

Wake wathenga imoto entsha, bese waqala ukuqaphela umshini ezifanayo edolobheni lakho? Noma mhlawumbe uthole inja, futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi zaqala ukuba banake bonke abafundi zalolu hlobo?

Lokhu akusho ukuthi Abenzi imoto yakho ngokuzumayo unqume ukukhipha onobuhle ngaphezulu edolobheni lakho, noma ukuthi abantu inja ngokuzumayo anda. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kuqale ukusebenza yakho uhlelo reticular kusebenze. Hhayi ukuze waft imininingwane nesithukuthezi yesayensi, singasho ukuthi kuyinto indlela othomathikhi ubuchopho bakho ukuthi ekutshela ukuthi yini wena okudingeka unake, futhi yini cha. Cabanga ngayo njengohlelo isihlungi ubuchopho.

Nakuba igama lalo indlela akuzwakali ezithakazelisa kakhulu, ethi yena kuyingxenye ebalulekile zobuchopho. Kuchaza indlela esicabanga - ukuthi uyaqaphela noma ngokungazi. Esinye sezibonelo enkulu yalesi mshini esimweni lapho Roger Bannister ran imayela kumaminithi ezine ngo-1954, nakuba ngaleso sikhathi yayibizwa njengento engenakwenzeka. Ngemva konyaka, ngemva waphula irekhodi, angaphezu kweshumi nambili abantu baye bakwazi ukuphinda ke, kuhlanganise abafundi basesikoleni esiphakeme.

Kanjani zobuchopho zilawula?

Isizathu salokhu indlela - ukuthi kunezindlela ezimbili ukulawula ingqondo zethu.

  • isilawuli Conscious - lena bayazi goal setting, Iziqinisekiso futhi ngeso. Asikwazi ukudala isihlungi evumela ubuchopho bethu ukugxila kulokho kuyosisiza zokusondelana umgomo.
  • isilawuli enganakile. Lapho uzitshela ukuthi awunawo kwesikhathi, ubuchopho lizama ukuthola zonke justifications ukuchaza ukuthi ungathandi ngempela.

Njengoba ubuchopho bethu uyogcina ukukholelwa kulokho esikusho ngayo, isigijimi phezu-umsebenzi iba uhlobo siprofetho.

Yiba matasa - akusho ukuba zikhiqize

Abaningi kithi benza umzamo omkhulu ukuqeda uhlu lwakho okufanele kwenziwe kuwo ngalelo sonto. Kuyinto kuphela uma uthatha isinyathelo emuva uqalaza, uyaqaphela ukuthi kulolu hlu kukhona izinto ezimbalwa ezithinta ngempela imigomo yakho.

Ngakho ake sixoxe umehluko phakathi kwe okuqashwa nokukhiqiza.

  • abantu Matasa Ziningi izinto eziza kuqala, ithele - kwabambalwa ezinkulu.
  • abantu Matasa kuthiwa ukugxila isinyathelo, ukugxila elikhiqizayo esengqondweni iyacaca ngaphambi kokwenza okuthile.
  • abantu Matasa ozama ukuqedela zonke izinto ngesikhathi esisodwa, focus Ukukhiqiza umsebenzi owodwa kuphela.
  • abantu Matasa aphendule imilayezo engenayo ngokushesha elikhiqizayo eceleni lesi sikhathi othize ukubhekana nayo yonke ngesikhathi esisodwa.
  • abantu Matasa bathi baze bangabi nasikhathi sokuba, ukusetshenziswa ke izinto ezibaluleke ngempela.

Iqiniso liwukuthi sonke isikhathi sayo yonke into, konke: umndeni, ukufunda ulimi olusha, ejimini, ukupheka ukudla okunempilo. Asikwazi ukwenza noma yini esifuna ukuyishintsha.

Law 20/80

Siphinde sibe ukucabangela umthetho Pareto: kukho konke esikwenzayo ekuphileni kwethu, 20% kuphela imiphumela 80% imiphumela oyifunayo.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma wena:

  • Funda ulimi olusha - ukugxila ikhambi kuyokulethela 80% elamukelekile (ie, ekufezeni kwekufundza ngekushelela ingxoxo).
  • Ukwakha ibhizinisi - gxila imisebenzi abalulekile amaningana, ezizohlinzeka 80% ukwaneliseka amakhasimende akho.
  • Letha umzimba wakho isesimweni - Gxila umzimba ezimbalwa uqeqesha 80% emzimbeni wakho.

Kodwa indlela yokwenza lo msebenzi isu? Zama zibuze umbuzo owodwa nje elula ...

Yini ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe?

Ethengiswa kakhulu kunazo incwadi "Into eyodwa," Buyela Umva Keller uwuchaza ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze, bese zonke ezinye izinto ngemibono akubalulekile noma angadingeki. Ungasebenzisa lo mqondo nebhizinisi wokuphila, ubudlelwano, impilo ngokomzimba, izimali nokunye. D. Kungase kubonakale sengathi lena enye yemibuzo enzima kakhulu ukuthi kufanele abeke ngokwakho. Eqinisweni, uphoqa ngokwakho ukwenqaba amathuba ezinhle, kodwa eqinisweni ngokwayo ukhulula isikhala kulabo ungashintsha ikusasa lakho. Ngezinye izikhathi emigqeni phakathi kwabo buzofiphaliswa, kodwa ngokuzibuza umbuzo ilungelo, ngeke "bamatasa kakhulu", futhi beqala ukuthatha isinyathelo enenzuzo.

Ekuphetheni

Zibuze: Ungathanda ngoyebo izinto eziningi kakhulu, ubheke impilo yakho? Noma abantu abaningi abangewona zibaluleke kangaka kuwe? Uma kunjalo, mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuba ashintshe izinto eziza kuqala kubo bese imisebenzi. Ngoba usuku lonke noma, uma ungakwazi, ngesonto, zama ukuthola ukuthi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kwenzekani kuwe. Uma impendulo ingucha - bese uqhubeka. Khumbula ukuthi ayikho impendulo into Okuqukethwe akuzwakali, uvula amathuba ukuze izenzakalo okungavamile empilweni yakho.

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