Kuyini like ukulwa nezinye izingane? Ngomuntu wesifazane ngamunye zonke ngamunye

Yilowo nalowo owesifazane osuke osesimweni ukubheka phambili ukubukeka ingane yakhe azalwe. Kodwa iningi labesifazane abakhulelwe bayesaba zomsebenzi, ubuhlungu, ukubeletha. Ngezinye izikhathi lezi ukwesaba banemandla kwendlula ubuhlungu abazizwa kwalokho. Kuyini like ukulwa nezinye izingane? Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, kumelwe siqonde ubunjalo lesi simanga.

Ezigabeni kamuva yokukhulelwa singenzeka mpi - kokumethemba. Abazange ukubika ukuqala zomsebenzi, imvelo yabo hhayi uphenyo. Ososayensi abakwazi ukuphendula nangokunembile, ngabe kokumethemba kudingekile ukulungisa kwesibeletho nokuhlelela ukuvezwa kwawo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuze ubonise owesifazane okhulelweyo ngokuzalwa oluzayo. Kunoma ikuphi, awayona eside futhi musa ukuphinda njalo ngezikhathi ezithile. Noma yini bangazizwa umama okhulelwe is elalimbelesele ubuhlungu kanye ubulukhuni esibelethweni. Kuthatha beka lapho ukuthatha ukushaywa iDemo.

Ngamunye abesifazane ebeletha has impendulo yalo yombuzo: "Kuyini lokhu othanda ukulwa?". Kukholakala ukuthi le mpi ephelezelwa ubuhlungu njengokuya esikhathini, namandla kuphela. Ngesikhathi besanda kuqala umama wabo omusha azizwa kahle, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho ukunaka. Ngokwesibonelo, uma amanzi ongakabi wathutha, kungaba uqhubeke ukuphetha ngokuthi harbingers. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthola aphindaphindwe indlela abupheli ubuhlungu futhi isikhathi eside kangakanani. Uma ngemva kwenkathi ethile yesikhathi ubuhlungu eza futhi, kumele uye esibhedlela. Le mpi kuqala njalo isikhathi eside kakhulu kunezinye ukubeletha okuphindaphindiwe. Ngakho ningatatazeli. Ungawalinda ngokuphepha baze kuzophindwa kanye njalo kumaminithi eziyisikhombisa. Ngalesi sikhathi batawudzinga kutsi babukane ngco, ukubutha konke okudingayo ukuze yokwemukela esibhedlela. Lapho Kufinyeta babe njalo, ubuhlungu iba obuphathekayo ngezinye izikhathi. Le nkathi iba ejabulisa kakhulu ngoba umama okhulelwe. Kuyini like izimpi, yayingase ikwazi ukutshela abangane noma ochwepheshe izikhungo zokuqeqesha kwabesifazane abakhulelwe.

Nokho, uma owesifazane ngesikhathi yokuzala ukulungiselela okwamanje, wafunda izincwadi, bahlanzeke ngokokuziphatha, ngokwenyama ubukele ebeletha. Njalo umama omusha udinga ukwazi kusengaphambili indlela yokuphefumula ngesikhathi sokubeletha, ukuthi baziphathe kanjani. Wabe uyozizwa uphephile futhi ngeke ucele umhlengikazi lapho ukuqala ukulethwa.

Ezisithinta inqubo Kufinyeta owesifazane bengayi. Yena uyakwazi ukulawula kuphela imizamo, okuyinto izoqala emva. Kodwa ukwelapha isimo nge ukulinganisela kuyadingeka, ngoba maduze sizogcwaliseka isenzakalo esibaluleke kunazo zonke futhi kuyisikhathi eside elindelwe - umhlangano nengane. Lokhu kufanele acabange nalapho esesikwa, ezama ukuzenza akhululeke. Kungcono ukuba udabule leli ephasijini noma bahlale phezu fitball. Uma, ngesikhathi izimpi nawe eceleni komyeni wakhe, khona-ke ongayenza uhlikihla endaweni sacral. Lokhu kuzokwenza adambise kakhulu ubuhlungu. Abaningi abesifazane ebeletha Kuthiwa lapho ubuhlungu bengasenakubekezela, kusho ukuthi kokuzalwa kwengane okuzokwenzeka, ngoba impi yokugcina ukuya ngokuqondile imizamo ngeze. Ngemva kokuzalwa, owesifazane enezinwele akusho cabanga ukuthi kunjani lokulwa. Akazange asho ukukhumbula. Manje, ehlezi eceleni umcebo wakhe omncane.