Ngizothola umfana uma ngingakwazi ukuphatha ukukhuliswa kwezingane

Namuhla abaningi omama omncane, phakathi kwabo nabangane bami, baqashe umntanakho ngomntanakho. Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi umama omuhle kufanele abe yingxenye yokukhuliswa kwezingane zakhe ngokwakhe. Emva kwakho konke, ingane, ukuze ikhule ijabule, idinga ukushisa komama kanye nothando. Ngempela, ngisho ne-nanny enhle ayikwazi ukuthatha indawo yengane yomama, kodwa ukumsiza ngeseluleko futhi athathe omunye umsebenzi angakwazi. Nguwe kuphela okudingeka ukhethe i-nanny efanele yengane yakho .

Ezikhathini zangaphambili cishe bonke abameleli base-Russian intelligentsia babebafundisi noma amabhontshisi. Khona-ke lesi siko sanyamalala, kodwa muva nje saqala ukuzalwa kabusha, ngoba akusiwo amakhelo anele kanye ne-kindergartens, nogogo abanalo konke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ugogo ugogo "uhlale" nabazukulu babo, futhi abahlanganyeli ekuthuthukiseni kwabo. Futhi ugogo kaningi ukuphikelela ezindleleni zakudala zokudla, ukukhulisa, ukuthuthukiswa kwezinsana, eziphelelwe yisikhathi. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuthola umfana onolwazi ekunakekeleni izingane futhi enezindlela zanamuhla zemfundo.

Kuze kube yimanje, kunemidlalo eminingi nokuzivocavoca oklanyelwe izingane ezineminyaka ehlukene. Unanny owazi kahle futhi onolwazi unolwazi futhi wazi zonke izici zokuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezincane. Imisebenzi yakhe ihlanganisa nokudla, ukugeza, ukuhamba, nokuhlanza igumbi lomntwana, ukugeza nokusiza kuqala. Umhlengikazi onamakhono angenza ukusikhipha kwengane lapho ingane ishaya. Ngamagama, ngumsizi obalulekile kulabo omama abangabhekana nazo zonke izindaba ngokuzimela. Ukuze ngingazitholi ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa, ngizophinde ngithole umfana uma ngingakwazi ukubhekana nokukhuliswa kwezingane ngokwami.

Namuhla, lapho izithuthi zomphakathi ziyeka futhi emaphephandabeni, kunezikhangiso eziningi ezizimele lapho izinsizakalo zokuthola izingane zinikezwa ngokungazenzi. Kodwa ukuthi unganikeza okuyigugu kakhulu - ingane, engaziwa? Phela, kube khona amacala lapho, ngokunganakekelwa kokubeletha nengane, kwakukhona izinkinga, noma waba yisibhamu noma umsizi ojwayelekile, obekade efihla, "ethatha okuhle". Ngakho-ke, ukhetho lomchwepheshe kufanele luhanjiswe ngokucophelela. Kodwa ukuze ukwazi umuntu kahle, akwanele ukuhlola ipasipoti yakhe, udinga ukuba nolwazi emkhakheni wezokwelapha. Ngakho-ke, nakuba lolu hlobo lwezinkonzo zamemezelo ezizimele lungabizi kakhulu, ngizobuyela ejensi lamannies , lapho ukukhethwa kwabafakizicelo kuqhutshwa ngokuncintisana.

Abasebenzi be-ejensi bayokhetha abafakizicelo abaningana abahambisana nezidingo zabazali, ngemuva kokukhuluma nomsizi ongcono kakhulu okhethiwe. Uma emva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa kuvela ukuthi akafanelanga ezinye izinqubo noma nje wagula, le nhlangano izothatha enye i-candidate. Bonke abakhohlisi bakhethwe ngokucophelela, ngakho-ke akukho bantu abangahleliwe ejensi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amanye ama-ejensi ahlela izifundo zokulungiselela ama-nannies . Ukufunwa kwabachwepheshe abanjalo kukhulu kakhulu. Ukufuna i-nanny phakathi kwabahlobo bakhe akufanelekile, ngoba uma bengayitholi le ndima, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuchitha ubudlelwano nabo.