Ngokwezibalo, abantu aba maningi amathuba okuba ube ujabulile engu-65 no-79

Ososayensi ukwabelana izibalo ezithakazelisayo kakhulu futhi akumangalisi. Phakathi okuxubile yobudala izilaleli inhlolovo ukuthola ukuthi abantu abajabule bazizwa bezibona bathi zithambekele imizwa yokukhathazeka labetibambile ukuthi ukuphila kwabo iyonke. Kwatholakala kube untanga esijabulisa kunazo ingase ihlanganise abantu abaneminyaka engu-65 no-79. Ningakholwa kanjani-ke?

Amaqiniso - yizinto nenkani

Kunengqondo ukuthi injabulo enkulu - iyona kwentsha. Kodwa kukhona catch. Vumela wonke umuntu ukukhumbula ngokwami eseyinsizwa. Ngokuvamile, le ngxenye iDemo ligcwele imizamo bagomela ngokwaso, kuba nakho elibukhali uthando unrequited, angisizwanga kahle isisebenzi amadala, ukuthola indawo yayo ilanga ... Futhi neze ubani intsha uyazi ukuthi lapha futhi manje ujabula njengoba kuyoba kunanini ngaphambili. Phela, thina lapha asikhulumi ngama yokuthi injabulo futhi nokuqaphela ke njengoba elinikeziwe.

Izinga aphansi lokwaneliseka ngokuphila bubonakala labo abaneminyaka engu-45 kuya ku-59, kanye nasebekhulile kusukela eminyakeni 80 noma ngaphezulu abagula kakhulu izifo nokuba nesizungu. Esikhathini yobudala emaphakathi isigaba ngokuvamile ukuzizwa ukhishwa inyumbazana noma isiphetho amadoda kunabesifazane, liphinde Empeleni.

Yin'indaba?

Isilinganiso seminyaka yobudala - lapho ebonakala, ngaphezu, sasidlala inombolo ethile eminyakeni? Mhlawumbe iqiniso lokuthi eminyakeni ekhiqizwa ezingeni eliphezulu lokukhathazeka. Efika ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuphila, kodwa abaningi angakakwenzi. Uma wathatha umsebenzi, osanda kuzalelwa futhi esekhulile izingane - into eyodwa. Futhi uma hhayi? Shintsha into kamuva, ukuyeka - ungafuni. Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Nge simo engcono kakhulu - isikhathi yokukhathazeka izingane zabo, okuyinto abangazange okwamanje esungulwe ngokwabo ekuphileni imisebenzi yokunakekela abazali asebekhulile.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mzamo engapheli ukuhlanganisa phakathi komsebenzi nemithwalo yomkhaya, ngoba lokhu ngokuvamile ngokungaqondi phakathi abashadayo. Ngamafuphi - inkinga yokukhula.

Ukuphila okusha kuqala

iminyaka 55-60 - ngesikhathi somhlalaphansi. Ubani bangase baphikise ngokuthi izinguquko ekuphileni kakhulu? Akubona bonke hamba ngeholide, kodwa hhayi wonke, futhi bafuna. Kukhona incazelo: umhlalaphansi ukuphila kungaba nzima uma akusiyo impesheni isimo isisebenzi noma jikelele. Futhi umuntu namanje kwesokunxele umsebenzi, futhi abanye izibambe, nokukhathazeka ezikhulayo: kusenjalo axotshwe?

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, manje nokuthi bonke labo abangazange wanquma ukuyeka umsebenzi wami, kwaba isikhathi esiningi khulula. It has ithuba ekugcineni niyenze, futhi mhlawumbe uthole okunye ukwenza okuthile, ekahle yobudala kanye sengqondo. Ngomqondo onabile, kukhona izimfanelo yokuthi uhlangabezana izinga entsha yokuphila nobuhlobo uzizwe ujabule ngempela. Kodwa kuncike isitokwe ngokujulile ukwakheka komuntu.

Ubudala injabulo

Ukuze abafundi abaningi zingathola ukuthi phakathi abantu ukuguga (eqonde kakhulu: kwasebekhulile, kodwa sisasebenza) zingatholakala okuningi kuka nalabo abasakwazi ukuhlanganyela aneliseke ezimpilweni zabo. Abazange akhononde Isiphelo sakhe, bebheka emhlabeni emehlweni bakahle futhi bahlakaniphe kangakanani. Yebo, nakhu, izwi eyinhloko - ngokuhlakanipha! It ngempela engu-ukuhlakanipha, lapho siqala ukubheka izinto philosophically. Izinkinga kulezi iminyaka kungukuthi beqonda babazi ngakho. Kusobala ukuthi kuleli qembu lobudala waqamba inkulumo ethi "ningaboshelwa ukucasula uNkulunkulu."

Kodwa konke lokhu incazelo abstract. Empeleni, lokhu kwenzeka. Izingane ziye zakhula nigxilile, abazali babo, ngokuvamile, ayisadingeki. Ngo ovamile, bona ngokwabo manje ekusizeni abazali izindlu zabo futhi bazama ukuba ukwesekwa. Abazali amahhala ngo umqondo ocacile izwi - ngaso sonke isikhathi bakwazi ukunikela ngokwabo. Bakhululekile e indlela Bachitha izinsuku zabo, yini ukuchitha imali. Uma wena lucky kakhulu - ungakwazi ukukhokhela ukuphumula ngokwanele. Hhayi zokungcebeleka ngempela eqolo - ngokuphindaphindiwe emzini ngomuzi njengoba kukhona izindawo lapho ungakwazi ukuhamba, uthole umoya opholile, uxoxe nabangani kanye nezintombi. Phakathi kwabashadile abadala amiswa ubuhlobo obukhethekile futhi efudumele. Ngalesi ubudala, indoda kanye nowesifazane, kuboshelwe nomunye baningi ngisho nangaphezu kwezinwele ebusheni bakhe. Yiqiniso, zikhona izimo ezingase zonakalise ukuphila - onempilo ebuthaka futhi ngokuvamile umuzwa wokuba nesizungu. Kungenxa yalezi zizathu ezifanayo abantu wangenela engu-80 mlando, ngokuvamile umuzwa wenjabulo.

Kuyinto kuyihaba, kodwa kakhulu

It kuvela ukuthi ukuthambekela ukukhathazeka ngokweqile, kanye nekhono uzizwe ujabule ... ingase ixhomeke endleleni kazwelonke izimo uhlamvu.

Ngakho, waphawula ukuthi zihlale zikhathazekile lyubyam esingokwemvelo ubuzwe Arab. Ngaphansi ukungenwa bonke abantu Chinese.

Irish cishe njalo ujabule ekuphileni kwabo, futhi ukukholwa ukuthi ikhona umuzwa kuwo. Nakuba kupholile futhi kuvikelwe British ingxenye enkulu abazibheki lucky. Futhi lokhu naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi isixhumanisi kungase kutholakale ngokwesayensi phakathi ezempilo, inhlalakahle - kanye nomuzwa wenjabulo.

Abesifazane bazizwa ojabulayo okungenani eseneminyaka engu-iminyaka engu-38, amadoda - eminyakeni 53-55.

Futhi ekugcineni, kumnandi kakhulu eqinisweni: izinkawu, njengabantu, kungenteka uhlushwe zinhlekelele yokukhula. Kodwa abantu ngandlela-thile uNkulunkulu ngokwakhe ngaphambilini! Into eyinhloko ukuba nazo zithathe izinto nge ukuqonda kuyo yonke iminyaka kukhona nesizatfu sekujabula. Injabulo Ushintshe kancane ngeminyaka, kodwa empeleni yayo ayiguquki. Qha nakanye wena!