ImpiloZempilo yengqondo

Prevention ukuxabana

Abantu bathi: "Isiqalekiso Lovely - nje hlekisa!" Kodwa odokotela bengqondo umndeni uthi: ukuthi akukho lutho akwephuli umndeni njengephuzu lokuphikisa. Futhi, ukuxabana, kuba lula kakhulu ukuvimbela kuka ukubhekana nemiphumela yaso. Ngakho-ke, kulesi sihloko kuzoxoxwa imayelana nokuvimbela izingxabano.

Umkhaya zokusebenza kwengqondo bakholwe - ngesisekelo umkhaya oqinile - iyona nenhlonipho ka owakwakhe komunye nomunye. Futhi luzokwakha isihlabathi ngaphandle lokhu isisekelo esiqinile. Uma umndeni uzoqala ukuxabana, bayoba kalula futhi ngokushesha abhubhise ngokushesha wabhubhisa indlu ngaphandle isisekelo esiqinile.
Ukunakekela, ubuciko nesineke - konke okunye mayelana amadoda ngomunye nomunye. Lapho, zonke izinkinga futhi iziphi izinkinga ziyaxazululwa ngokuthula, futhi amaphutha, futhi ngiphoxekile kungukuthi kwenqatshelwe futhi isuswe amahlaya enobungane.
Izingane emikhayeni enjalo sikhule ezolile futhi olinganiselayo, kokubona imodeli ingane efana nokuziphatha.
Afunda ukuhlonipha abantu bazo engqubuzanayo nemibono yabanye. Ukubekezelelana kuyabasiza sifuna ukugwema izingxabano. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala kunakho konke, odokotela bengqondo umndeni ukufundisa amalungu omndeni ukukhombisa bayahloniphana. Kepha akusikho lokho kuphela ezenzweni kodwa amazwi, ngoba akukho okusizwisa libuhlungu efana igama iluhlaza. Kubalulekile nje kuphela okuqukethwe kodwa futhi ithoni e engiwakhulume amagama athile. Shono Bathi: "Same kuwe izwi, kodwa hhayi lingabizwa."
Zonke izingxabano uqale ngokumthuka. Futhi ngokuvamile kubangelwa izwi. A abanokhahlo izwi isinyathelo umndeni kunzima kakhulu, njengoba kungekho Ukuvikelwa yangaphakathi, abantu avulekele nomunye.
Kodwa kufanele wenzenjani-ke uma usho into engalungile?
Umkhaya zokusebenza kwengqondo ukweluleka ngokushesha, ngaphandle zokuchitha isikhathi iphendukele ibinzana okusindisa: "Ngiyaxolisa, ngangingafuni ukulimaza wena!" Omunye umusho ngabe ususe ukunemba ukusabela, ngemva kwalokho-ke kungaba lula ukuchaza. Lokhu ibinzana kungaba ungumsindisi umndeni zomhlaba, njengoba kususa icala futhi kubeka isimo ohlangothini nenokuthula. Uma zihamba kahle, inkulumo, omthandayo bayokwazisa ukuxolisa esifike ngesikhathi esinjalo, futhi, mhlawumbe, futhi waxolisa uma wayenza iphutha. Into esemqoka - ungavumeli ukuthuthukisa ukuxabana - ngumbhubhisi eyinhloko umkhaya ujabule!

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