Ukukhulelwa kwentsha: isisu ekhaya - ayengayicabangi nakuyicabanga!

Ukukhulelwa, ngeshwa, akuwona wonke umuntu kuyinto godsend futhi umcimbi eside elindelwe. Kuqondane ukuthi ingane ayihambisani amapulani kanye amathuba abazali esizayo, futhi ngokuvamile zimane okwamanje ukulungele babe nabo. Njengomthetho, kusenzima abantu impela, ngokuvamile namanje awukagcwalisi esikoleni. Lena ngempela nesimo esinzima empilweni, lapho kubonakala sengathi ngeke bakwazi ukusiza khona noma ubani ngoba abazali ukutshela kwenzekeni wesabeka - kubonakala sengathi ngeke bakwazi ukungena isikhundla futhi ngaphandle kwemvume yabo ukuhlinzeka usizo lwezempilo kunoma ubani asikufanele. Eqinisweni, ukutshela abazali bakhe ngalesi sigameko - lena kuphela indlela elungile ukuphuma, futhi ngokushesha ngcono. Uma ngempela qinisa nodaba, ukukhetha ushiye kakade. Ngo kusaqalwa okufanayo kungenziwa ukunciphisa imiphumela emibi kokungenela wezokwelapha: isibonelo, umthelela mini-isisu akuyona njengoba inhlekelele njengokuhlaba isisu umnyuziki wezokwelapha, kodwa kuphela lapho usaqala.

Ngeshwa, eziningi amantombazane acabanga ukuthi okuwukuphela kwendlela ngabo - lena isisu ekhaya. Ithi, futhi abazali abazi, futhi inkinga ziyoxazululwa. Kodwa kungaqali Noma ngabe yikuphi kube: Ukukhipha isisu ekhaya - kuba ingozi enkulu hhayi kuphela empilweni kodwa ukuphila, ikakhulukazi esemncane ezinjalo. Ngakho-ke lo msebenzi kuyingozi ngempela, ngisho noma eyayiqhutshelwa isikhungo sokwelapha - yezinkinga emva isisu ikude kujwayelekile, eyenziwa ekhaya, uba ngendlela emangalisayo yingozi. Ngeshwa, zisencane, abantu ngokuvamile abacabangi ngemiphumela futhi ngeke bakwazi ngokwanele ukuhlola ingozi, ngakho ayevame ayezikhandla kangaka, kuhlanganise izinyathelo ezedlulele kakhulu, engaboni ukuthi impilo uyachitheka, ngisho ukuphila, kukhona asifani kabi likamama.

Yeka indlela okuyingozi isisu ekhaya? Okokuqala, izindlela ezisetshenziswa le njongo, hhayi kuphela ingaphumeleli, kodwa futhi kuyingozi empilweni iyonke. Njengomthetho, isisu ezinjalo lwenzelwe avuse kwesisu zokupheka athandwayo. Kungaba iyiphi amakhambi noma imithi lokuhlala ezinkulukazi, zokugeza ezihlukahlukene, ngokuvamile kuhlangene utshwala - ngokuvamile ke aliholeli elamukelekile, kanye ubuthi zokuchithwa izibilini, umsebenzi ngezinye izikhathi abakwazi okubuyisela ukuphila. Ingane uthola yi lokudakwa ezinzima, kodwa wazalwa, kodwa ukuthi kungenzeka zonke izinhlobo ukuhlukahluka ziphezulu kakhulu. It kuvela ukuthi umuntu ufuna ukuxazulula inkinga ngaphandle ekhaphela zomphakathi yayo, kodwa lokhu shall bonke abantu, futhi izimpilo ezimbili zonakale phakade.

Uma isisu ekhaya namanje aphethwe, e iningi amacala wavula ukopha oluqinile, futhi ngokuvamile ke kungenziwa wayeka kuphela ukususwa kwesibeletho. Lo msebenzi esabekayo akabashiyi esikhathini esizayo usuphelelwa ithemba, lokuthi ngelinye ilanga uyoba ingane wamukelekile. Endabeni ayengaphendukanga ukuba abanjalo abanekhono lesizalo ukopha nakanjani kuholela ekufeni.

Yiqiniso, abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ikhambi elingcono kakhulu ukuba isimo lokukhulelwa kwentsha - ukugcina ingane. Ziyakwazi nezimpikiswano eziningi esivuna ikhambi elinjalo, kodwa ezimbalwa wayeyokwenza kanjalo esimweni esinjalo. Mhlawumbe ngempela kuyindlela engcono, okungenani, ngokuqinisekile ungcono isisu ekhaya, kodwa noma isiphi isinqumo esinokulinganisela kanye sibacabangele ngokungathí sina unalo ilungelo lokuthatha khona. Ngamunye has isimo yayo yokuphila futhi izingxabano zabo siqu, futhi akekho umuntu unelungelo lokubamba ahlulele abanye abantu nezenzo zabo, isekelwe kuphela umbonwabo. Ngamunye isimo zhizennye kubalulekile ukukhetha esingconywana, futhi uma umuntu wanquma isisu, ake ngcono lokhu kwenzeka ezimweni ophucukile, nezingane kodwa avele, kodwa uma umuntu ilungele ke - abanelungelo ukuba bedingeka futhi bethandwa .