Ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa: nasemiphumeleni ebuhlungu

Kuyangikhathaza kakhulu lapho othile izihlobo noma abantu abaseduze ehilelekile inethiwekhi izidakamizwa. Umuntu onjalo hhayi kuphela kungayinaki ezinye izinhlobo zako, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi luhlaza lokho futhi nolaka. Kwakukhona izimo lapho ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kwaholela ebuhlungu: ukweba (lufundisa ngisho nabantu obathandayo), ukuboshwa, noma ukufa. Kubi nokuthi izikweletu ashiywe umuntu onjalo, yabekwa imindeni nabantu abangaqaphile.

Eminyakeni embalwa edlule yizidakamizwa kwakubhekwa njengesibusiso isifo kwekhulu lama-21. Indlela langempela ukuze belaphe futhi ukuqeda lesi sifo kwakungenakwenzeka nokuyicabanga. Olwenziwe inkambo nokuvuselelwa enganikanga imiphumela oyifunayo, futhi ngokushesha isiguli ukugula wabuyela umsebenzi wakhe wangaphambili.

Okwamanje, wadala izikhungo eziningi ezahlukene lapho abantu abagulayo ziqale ziphile kusukela ekuqaleni: abakufundayo lokunqoba izifiso zabo eziyingozi, ukuphendukela enkolweni, yokuzibeka kwezithibelo ezithile.

Abantu abangakaze wasebenzisa izinto ezingekho emthethweni ekuqaleni nzima ukubona izimpawu ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa abe umuntu ajwayelekile (mhlawumbe umngane noma ngisho isihlobo). Nazi izinguquko ezimbalwa zangaphandle ezenzeka ngemva ukwamukelwa of Ukweqiwa.

ukunyakaza Human abukeka afana nezenzo ngaphansi amponjwana: izinyathelo engaqinisekile, zize zithonye kancane. Ngokuvamile iqala egwinya, inkulumo kuba egwinya futhi ngezinye izikhathi abangenangqondo ngokuphelele. Kukhona ukusangana ahlukahlukene, okubangela ngamabomu uhleko, usizi, ukucabangela noma ukucasuka. Futhi izinguquko umbala:-ke ubusa noma paleness noma ububomvu esobala izandla nobuso. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umlutha ungabona tint aphuzi ezizungeze amehlo.

Ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kuholela yokuthi izingalo kukhona ukotini, kukhona eziningi ukunyakaza ezingadingekile. Nazo ngokufanayo, kungahamba kancane, noma, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokushesha kakhulu. Ngaso sonke isikhathi umuntu ezama bhala basihlikihle izintende ubuso siqu.

Ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kubangela constriction balezi zingane futhi enamathiselwe ingilazi umthunzi amehlo. Bayakhohlwa ukukhanya futhi iyoba njengomuthi bleary.

Kwezidakamizwa ezithile, njengezingxoxo zawo utshwala, kukhona luningi nomlomo owomile. Ngakho-ke, umlutha ngokuvamile licks ezindebeni zakhe.

Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi zonke lezi zibonakaliso abakhona kanyekanye abantu. Ukubonakaliswa abaningi babo bancike kunokudla izidakamizwa kusukela amavolumu ezahlukene kanye Isikhathi esesiye sadlula ngemva kokusebenzisa. Kufanele bazitshela ukuthi ngesikhathi Freaks ekuqaleni ngasese "bazitika" ezinjalo eziyingozi. Ukuze athathe umthamo, base holed up emaphasishi esikoleni, zokuhlala, emagalaji nezinye izindawo ezigqagqene.

Kodwa lena kuphela esigabeni sokuqala lesi sifo. Khona-ke abayimilutha bazibophezela abanandaba nabantu noma izinto CABANGA them. Inkinga eyinhloko ngabo iba ukungabi khona umthamo okungaguquki oshumayela ke angathengwa.

Imiphumela ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kungase zihluke kakhulu ukweba izinto ezincane kusuka kubangani nabathandekayo babo ukuze izindodla credit, abese alenga izikweletu ezingakhokhiwe ukweletwa ebhange.

Endaweni yokuqala kuba Umndeni uthwala kanzima umuntu ogulayo. Ngemva elahlekelwa umyeni wakhe, uyise noma indodana. Baningi iloli sezinzwa, kuze ngemuva kokuhlaselwa yisifo senhliziyo, bangalindela ukuba abazali asebekhulile omdala "ingane." Futhi lokho akhawunti umkayo nge nomfana noma indodakazi, lapho "Papa" udonsa yonke into endlini, azishiye ngaphandle ngendibilishi na?

Ngalezi izimo kanzima ukubeka silwe bukhoma kanye nokuzwisisa. Ngakho ngokuvamile ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kuholela nokuwohloka komkhaya. Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, ikhono lokushintsha uhlobo lokuphila lapho. Nokho, akuzona zonke umlutha uzovuma wayencisha wena ezingabazisayo "injabulo".