Ukuthi baziphathe kanjani uma zizungezwe louts?

Amandla main Ukumemeza futhi crudeness ukuthi abanaso. Lezi engenamsebenzi, kodwa amagciwane ngokomzwelo ezazihlala zikhona adluliswa esuka komunye umuntu, lokhu kwenzeka kaningi impela igama elilodwa noma ngisho shazi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usongo iza - esuka kubantu emgwaqweni, e ukuthuthwa abagibeli, abathengisi esitolo noma abakhulu wendawo, kukhona izindlela ezimbalwa ezinkulu ukuze kuqinise amasosha omzimba kuya coarseness futhi ukuba luhlaza.

Khumbula ukuthi ukuba luhlaza akuvamile ukuba kukhishwe sibhekiswe wena uqobo

Ukuziphatha kwabanye thukela kuncike kithi, ngisho nangokwengeziwe akuvamile wathumela kithi. Ikakhulukazi esimweni coarseness. Izwe akuyona abantu abaningi kangaka ngubani zivuka ukucabanga ekuseni, "Namuhla ngizakuqala nagrublyu phansi nomakhelwane wakhe." Ngokuvamile amazwi ahlabayo futhi ukuthinta luhlaza - indlela ngxabano luhlata efanayo ingxenye abanye, noma umphumela ngobuthakathaka yokuzingabaza.

Izaba ezivamile ngaphandle kwesizathu uthole umakhelwane ezimbi - ukusabela chain. Kukangaki luhlata ezingalindelekile ophoqelelwe ngamunye wethu ulahlekelwe yena futhi "Itafula" kwabanye. Kodwa kubalulekile njalo ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuziphatha kwethu kuxhomeke kithi, hhayi kusukela omakhelwane noma abasebenzi okwedlulele umtholampilo, abangamazi ukuthi baziphathe kanjani. Asikwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabanye abantu, kodwa uzilawula ngokuphelele imicabango nezenzo zakho. Ingabe akududuzi?

Khetha ukuphendula okuphambene

Ukuze ukuphazamisa "chain reaction" lapho uzizwa ukucasuka okungadingekile, udinga ukumisa kanye bophezela ukwenza okuthile okuphambene ngokuphelele ngiyibona iluhlaza. Akulula, kodwa ngemva ngeminithi lokuqala kuya kuba lula, futhi uma bophezela smile ngesikhathi esifanayo, imizwelo engafanele uzonyamalala ngokuphelele.

Ungathathi ukungafuni kwawo noma ukungakwazi ukuba bangahloniphi kwabanye njengoba lobuthakathaka. Yokwenqaba ukuholwa imizwa engakhi, ukuvikela imali yakho esele ezingokwengqondo nezingokomzwelo. Ukulandela lesi simiso elula, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzophawula ukuthi baye basungula amasosha omzimba kuya luhlata ngokuphelele futhi crudeness. Kungcono kakhulu ukuhlwanyela ukungezwani ngoba bayazi esikhundleni ezinhle, elikhanyayo, okuphakade.

Ukukhuthazela akumelwe bangahloniphi

Kunezikhathi lapho isimo sengqondo esihle futhi amazwi ezilungile azanele, ngoba ukuziphatha boorish futhi iluhlaza akuyona njalo kungagcini amazwi. Mhlawumbe kungcono hhayi ukuqhatha impikiswano, uma othile waphuma yena, noma isibambo ku umfudlana izimoto, kodwa kukhona izimo lapho ukuba luhlaza kothile kuyadingeka ukuhlangabezana ubulukhuni.

Ngokwesibonelo, uzakwabo wabhala off kuwe iphutha lakhe, futhi manje banesibopho ke. Kulesi simo, indiva inkinga noma ezimbalwa amazwi ezinhle unganikezi isixazululo. Nokho, impendulo kokumphoxa kuyonezela ubudlelwane eqenjini, aphange isimo wonke umuntu. Khuphukela meanness yabo encane siqu "ukuze Naphezu" noma ukuze afundise isifundo ukukulethela ukwaneliseka zokuziphatha akuyona isikhathi esingaphezu kwehora, bese uzizwa nakakhulu. Ngo ezifana nezimo ezinzima kumele uqhubeke ngendlela elandelayo:

• Vele utshele lowo okonile ukuthi ucabangani ngezenzo zakhe futhi kwakuthinta kanjani efanele nangokomzwelo.
• Distancing uqobo kumuntu ekucasulile.
• Uma lokhu ukukholisa osonile ukushintsha isimo, wazise abaphathi ngalesi sigameko, ukugcina ezolile futhi omile, ithoni businesslike. Leli akulona ubuthakathaka hhayi yabednichestvo - kuyilungelo lakho azivikele futhi umsebenzi wakhe.

Sebenzisa amaqhinga ngokwengqondo

Uma ngingathi uyahlanya aqukethe luhlata okuhambisanayo, ungazami ukwenza okukodwa noma ngaphezulu amaqhinga alandelayo:

• Zicabange ugone indoda wayebadelela kuwe. Zama bazwelane naye futhi ukucabanga ukuthi engenza kuye baziphathe ngale ndlela. Lesi senzo ngeke kweso ukunciphisa isimo sakho sengqondo esiphambene indoda.
• Nikeza incazelo ecacile imizwelo yabo. Ngomqondo ovulekile ukuhlola ngayinye imizwa ilawula konke ukucabanga kwakho, bamthinte futhi ukuthola ukuthi kungani. Lokhu ngeke uzole nokususa kuloku snapper kuwe.
• Thola ingane encane futhi bakhulume naye. Ukunqotshwa ithonya zangaphandle yokuthonywa imizwelo engakhi, thina ngezindlela eziningi behave fana izingane, bakhulise ukukhalela futhi ngaphandle. Ngesikhathi sikhula, sawubona ayeke ukukhala ngoba amathoyizi nekuplennyh ngoba esikuso yandisa, siyaqonda - manje, ngaphezu amathoyizi, kukhona nezinye izinto ezibalulekile, izinto ezibaluleke kakhudlwana. Lapho usukulungele ukuba bangahloniphi nothile, khuluma nengane yakho yangaphakathi futhi bambonise indlela angazisebenzisa lokhu intukuthelo engabalulekile eqhathaniswa nezinye izinto nemizwelo.

ikhono kancane kakhulu ukunqanda wena ukubheka isimo kusukela ngaphandle engasisiza ukuba uzithibe futhi yakhoibrium obungokomzwelo ebusweni luhlata abangenangqondo kakhulu futhi udelela.