Ukuziqhenya - yilokho ngekhwalithi? Ukubaluleka, ukuhumusha, ukuhumusha

Kukhona umugqa onjalo kumculo odumile: "Ezinkimbinkimbi kukhona ukuziqhenya, hhayi okungaphezu kwalokho." Ucwaningo lwethu luzoxhunyaniswa ngokucatshangelwa nje kuphela - yini lokhu? Sizokuthola namhlanje.

Okushoyo

Leli gama nakuba lingathandekile kokuqukethwe, elikhangayo ngendlela elula, ngakho kulula ukuthola isichazamazwi esichazayo. Lithi ukuziqhenya kuyisiqhenya nokuziqhenya. Kuvela izibizo ezintathu, okuzosho kancane kumfundi ongakulungele. Ake sinikeze incazelo yokuzidla nokuziqhenya. Njengoba lezi zimfanelo zivame ukufana, singasakaza ngokufaka incazelo yenye yezimiso, masibe "ukuziqhenya". Okushoyo kanje: "Ukuzikhukhumeza, ukuzikhukhumeza, ukuziqhenya." Kulokhu, kungenzeka ukuthi usho incazelo yencazelo "yokuziqhenya" kuphela ngokubhekisela kwisiphakamiso esifanayo, kodwa ngisho nangaphandle kokunikeza impendulo ehlakaniphile. Sizovala isichazamazwi esichazayo futhi sizenzele thina: "Umuntu obeka ngokuqondile noma ngokungaqondile ngaphezu kwamanye ngesisekelo noma ikhwalithi kubhekwa ukuthi uyazidla."

Ukuziqhenya umqondo ofanayo. Isibonelo, umuntu oyedwa ulawula i-Mercedes, enye i-Zhiguli. Yiqiniso, owokuqala uzikhukhumeza okwesibini futhi ucabanga ngalokhu okulandelayo: "Ebhakedini ngamakhiloti namantongomane ...". Ungakwazi ekugcineni ukwengeza igama elihlambalazayo lokuphelela, kodwa kuphela ngokwengqondo. Asikho isidingo sokufungela lutho, ngaphandle kwesidingo. Manje lokhu kukuziqhenya njengoba kunjalo.

Ama-synonyms

Indlela esiyithandayo ukusebenzisa izifaniso zokucacisa, ukuze ulwazi olusha lulandele kusukela endala. Ngakho-ke, njengomthetho, kulula futhi kungcono ukunaka indaba. Masingayinaki, ngalesi sikhathi. Ngakho:

• Okubalulekile;
• Ukuzidla;
• Ukufisa;
• Ukuziqhenya;
• I-Conceit;
• Ukuzidla;
• I-fever yenkanyezi;
• Megalomania;
• Ukuzidla;
• I-Bombast;
• I-Pathos;
• Swagger.

Lapha ukuziqhenya okunjalo okuningi. Ama-synonyms cishe ayaziwa kakhulu kumfundi. Uhlu ludinga ukufaka okukodwa okusobala: nge "megalomania" lapha akusho ukuthi akuyona ingqondo yengqondo yangempela, kodwa kuphela ukuzethemba okuzenzekelayo.

Izimbangela zeStellar Disease

Bona, njengoba umfundi eqonda, ahluke ngokuphelele "ezigulini" ezahlukene. Isibonelo, esikoleni umuntu angaziqhenya kulokho uthisha amdumise ngakho. Uma ingane isesikoleni, akasazi ukuthi kuzodingeka adlulise izivivinyo eziyinhloko ngaphandle kokuzikhumbuza futhi abuyisele, ngakho ukuhlolwa kwesikole kanye nodumo lwabantu abadala abakushoyo kusho okuthile. Kodwa ake, mhlawumbe, siqale sinike uhlu lwalokho umuntu angaziqhenya ngakho nokuthi kungani ikhanda lakhe lingase lihlaziye:

1. Kusukela ekufezeni.
2. Kusukela esimweni emphakathini, umsuka.
3. Kusuka ekuhlakaleni kwehlanhla ngokuzenzekelayo ngesimo semali noma amandla.

Sesivele sibheke ngokuphumelelayo iphuzu lokuqala. Izintandokazi zothisha kalula futhi kalula zibambe i-asterisk. Uma omunye wabafundi ehlangabezane nalezi zenzakalo, bayazi ukuthi abantu abanjalo banengwa kanjani. Lokhu kuphinda kubonakale ukuthi ngokuziqhenya (incazelo yegama esiyihlola) akukho okukhangayo. Kodwa, njengomthetho, izihloko zalolu hlobo ziyakuthanda kuphela ukuzindla kwazo esibukweni futhi aziboni ngokwabo. Kodwa asiyeke.

Swanky "abahloniphekile"

Manje kunengqondo ukukhumbula ngokuphathelene negazi kanye nobaba, kodwa kunjalo kubalulekile, futhi ukhilimu womphakathi manje, okokuqala, labo abangathola okuningi. Ngalo mqondo, isithombe esithi "Princess on Beans" (1997) sibonakala sisahlanzekile. Umlingisi oyinhloko unesibongo kanye nezinye izindinganiso zokuziphatha ezibonakalayo, uma bezingekho, izingozi zomlingiswa zaphela ngokushesha, ngeke kube khona ukuphikisana.

Ku heroine ka-Elena Safronova, asikwazi neze ukuziqhenya (okushiwo isikhathi eside saziwa, sihlaziya izizathu). Into yukuthi akanayo imali, futhi uma ekhona, futhi wakhulela ngokunethezeka, mhlawumbe sasizobona isithombe esihluke ngokuphelele.

Kodwa i-Pupkov evela ku-movie ayitholanga ngempela "i-Russian entsha". Kodwa ngokujwayelekile, indaba eyaziwayo: amandla nemali zonakalisiwe, futhi aziwa ukuthi yini elimaza umuntu ekubukeni kokuziphatha. I-protagonist igcina isintu, kanti empeleni kwakukhona futhi ihluke ngokuphelele izibonelo zabacebile ababedakiwe ngokuvunywa. Kunokuziqhenya okuningi kuye. Umfundi ngokwakhe uyakhumbula izibonelo "ezifanele" zokuziphatha kwabantu abanjalo uma umshini ophuzi uphuthuka.

"Case Lucky" (1994): izindlela ezimbili zokuphendula inhlanhla engazelelwe

Kubuye kwenzeke ukuthi ukuziqhenya kukhona kumuntu kusukela ekuqaleni. UNkulunkulu uyazi ukuthi kungani. Isibonelo, yonke iphutha liwumzali omubi: abazali batshela ingane ukuthi uyindoda enhle kakhulu, enhle. Yiqiniso, umuntu kufanele akhule esimweni sothando, kodwa ukudumisa kusadingeka okuthile, hhayi nje lokho.

Isakhiwo sefilimu sinjalo. Iphoyisa uCharlie uhola amaRandi ayizigidi ezingu-4 e-lottery, kodwa ukuhamba kwesimo kungukuthi ekuseni wathembisa u-waitress ukuba anikeze isigamu sokuwina ithikithi, ngoba wayenayo imali yokubamba.

Umkakhe, okwenziwe ngenjabulo ngenhlanhla nokuhlupheka ngenxa yokuzikhukhumeza kusukela ekuzalweni, uhlela ukuhlala othembekile womshado. Isihloko sokwehlazeka yizimfanelo zokuziphatha zenceku nomthetho. Futhi uCharlie akazi ukuthi kufanele akwenze kanjani ngalolu hlobo lwemali, ngoba usejwayele ukuhlala ngokuthobeka, okungukuthi, inhlanhla yakhe ayizange iphendule ikhanda lakhe.

Yiqiniso, singathola iziphetho ezithile ngabantu abahlukunyezwa ngokweqile, kodwa sigwema iziphetho ezinjalo futhi sivumele ukuthi umfundi asebenze eyedwa. Umsebenzi wethu yilokho okushiwo igama elithi "ukuziqhenya". Kube khona ukugcina kokugcina.

Kungenzeka yini ukugwema ukuziqhenya?

Akukhona ukuthi kungenzeka, kodwa futhi kuyadingeka. Ukuphila kuyashintsha: namuhla umuntu uhamba ngehhashi, futhi kusasa usehlulwe empini elandelayo. Cha, hhayi ukuthi wafa, kodwa isimo kanye nesimo sashintsha, futhi labo abazobe bekhona ngaphambili baxoshwa yize. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi inhlalakahle, njengokuhluleka, akuyona ingunaphakade, futhi konke kungaqeda ngokoqobo ngosuku olulodwa. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuhlala unomthelela, unomusa, ungabi namanyala kunoma ubani, futhi ungazigabisi nganoma yini. I-Destiny ikhetha kuqala ukuthi yini umuntu ayigugu kakhulu.