Umbuzo omama kanye obaba: "Lapho ingane iqala ukumamatheka?"

I smile umntwana omncane - kungcono njalo ephathini kancane umama wakhe, ubaba nogogo nomkhulu. Futhi yini esingayifunda ekushoyo smile lokuqala - wayenjengomfazi isipho esivela ezulwini, kokhelo for the ukuqwasha nomsebenzi onzima umzali. Lapho ingane iqala ukumamatheka? Kungani engenzanga kanjalo, kuyilapho izinyane-yobudala kamakhelwane efanayo endows zonke ukumamatheka? Lemibuto wakhuliswa abazali abaningi abasha. On kubo, sizozama ukuphendula kule athikili.

Smile Wengane - akusiwona nje umcimbi umndeni enhle, kodwa futhi kube inkomba yokuthi ngokwengqondo, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo ukuthuthukiswa evamile, komphakathi ekuseni ingane. Ngakho-ke, isikhathi lapho ingane iqala ukumamatheka ngamabomu, uhlobo isinyathelo esilandelayo umgwaqo eside sokuthuthuka.

"Ingane yami waqala smile ngisho esibhedlela!" - uthi omama abaningi. Ungathathi amazwi abo inhliziyo. Abakubiza ngokuthi ukumamatheka, umhlibitho nje, ukusikwa equlekile imisipha ethile, okuyinto ifana ukumamatheka.

Ukuphendula abazali abakhathalelayo empikiswaneni ukubonakala smile lokuqala bayazi ngesikhathi umntwana, udokotela wezingane ngeke ukuyibiza engu-izinyanga 1.5-2. Yalwa smile ngokuvamile umama (noma umuntu, esikhundleni). Okuningi kuxhomeke ekutheni ukufunde imvelo imvuthuluka, uma kusuka ezinsukwini zokuqala kakhulu eduze ingane abazali ngubani wayelokhu exhumana naye abakhathalelayo, bajwayele ukuthatha phezu kwezandla zakhe, ulalele lokho abakushoyo futhi contact izwi, eqala ukuba ukumamatheka kudala njengoba amasonto 6. Uma ingane basingatha kancane, kuzokwenzeka izinyanga kuphela ezimbili noma kamuva ngakho. Ngakho musa wadikibala uma ingane yakho ayifuni smile ngenyanga, ungakhathazeki ngakho. Udinga nje ulinde.

Lapho ingane iqala ukumamatheka, sikwazi ukukhuluma kumiswa wakhe okuthiwa ukuvuselelwa eziyinkimbinkimbi. Lokhu ngokomzwelo motor ukusabela umntwana ephendula ukubukeka noma isikhalazo kuye omdala. Iqala lapho kumiswa eziyinkimbinkimbi eneminyaka engu-amasonto amathathu kusukela ekuzalweni: umfana ame khimilili futhi ngamehlo agcwele amehlo, lapho ebhekene nengxoxo omdala. Kamuva, ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbili, lesi simo lithuthuka ku ukumamatheka, Gulen futhi umsebenzi locomotor lapho sisebenzelana nabantu abadala. kumiswa Eliphakeme a nalomsebenzi eziyinkimbinkimbi - kweminyaka wezinyanga ezine. Kamuva, kukhona ukuhleka, kodwa ukumamatheka kancane futhi kancane uya kubantu abangabazi, ngisho noma labo ninobubele ukukhuluma ingane, ngokuvamile ayekhala ngisho nangaphansi kwezimo ezinjalo.

Ukwahlulela ngokubukeka bangaki izinyanga umntwana uyamamatheka, singakwazi ukuthi ngezinga elithile ukuze nahlulele isimo umndeni, ngokuphathelene nonina, esimweni sakhe esingokomzwelo. Ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi ingane akaqondi lutho, bakhulume naye, ngakho kusheshiswe inkulumo yakhe nokuthuthukiswa psycho-ngokomzwelo: sizoqala phambi gulit, imamatheka.

Ochwepheshe bathi abafana mancane amathuba okuthi bheka emehlweni ami futhi uqale ukumamatheka umhla ontanga yabo intombazane. Ngakho uma uye ezikhulayo indodana, ukuba nesikhathi esengeziwe ukuxhumana naye.

Isikhathi lapho ingane iqala ukumamatheka, kungaba juqu ukuthuthukiswa ubuhlobo bakhe noyise baba. Kid iqala ukuthumela amasignali, futhi uma ubaba uyaphendula sobuso bakhe nezwi, ukusungula obukhethekile ngokomzwelo phakathi kwabo, ngisho noma ngaphambili kwakungeyona.

Ngosuku lapho ingane yakho iqala ukumamatheka, kube isiqalo inqubo eside, kodwa ezithakazelisayo empilweni yakhe - komphakathi.