Ikhaya nomndeni, Amaholide
Umkhwenyana womkhwenyana - amasiko amadala namasiko amasha
Ngomunye umbhangqwana osemusha usuku lomshado wabo lukhunjulwa ngokuphila, lugcwele imizwelo ekhanyayo, ejabulisayo kanye nemibono. Ukulungela lokho kudinga umzamo omkhulu, isikhathi kanye nalokho, izimali zezimali. Noma kunjalo, ungakwazi ukuhlela enye imikhosi encane, ezoletha injabulo enkulu kwabashadayo esikhathini esizayo. Kuphathelene nesiko esidala, njengomdlalo womkhwenyana womkhwenyana.
Namuhla abantu abaningi abazinaki ngokukhethekile kulo mcimbi. Kodwa lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuhlela iholide langempela, ukunikeza ithuba lokuba abazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana bajwayelane futhi baxoxe ngezikhathi ezibalulekile zomhlangano zomcimbi ozayo ozayo. Kumele futhi siqaphele ukuthi lo mdlalo womkhwenyana uye wahlonishwa njalo ezikhathini ze-olden ezweni lakithi, kwakukhona imikhuba ehlukahlukene enhle lapho abanye bezinkampani zanamuhla bakhokha khona. Uma ufuna ukwenza okuthile okungavamile, ukukhombisa isimo sesikhathi esidala nabadlali bokudlala, izingoma nemidanso, kufanelekile ukubhala noma ukuthola isimo esenziwe ngomumo wokumaketha kusuka kumkhwenyana. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi udinga ukucabangela imithetho engaqinisekisiwe.
Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuphatha umkhwenyana womkhwenyana ngokuvumelana nayo yonke imigqa nemithetho, khona-ke njengomdlali wokufanisa kufanele ukhethe othile kusuka kubantu abaseduze. Ezikhathini zesikhathi esidala, lo mdlalo wesikhangiso ngokuvamile wakhetha isihlobo esikhulile somkhwenyana noma umama wakhe. Namuhla, lapho yonke imithetho ilula kakhulu, ingaba umngane noma ngisho nomngane. Ngokusho kwemithetho, abakwa-matchmakers kwadingeka bafike endlini yomakoti kuphela emva kokushona kwelanga, ukuze kungabi yi-jinx. Umsebenzi wabo oyinhloko kwakuwukwazisa umndeni wendoda yesikhathi esizayo ukuthi insizwa yakhe iyomthatha njengomkakhe. Ngokuvamile kulezi zinhloso imishwana elungiselelwe ngokukhethekile yayisetshenziselwa ifomu elingenalutho. Isibonelo sendima enjalo, eyenza umdlalo womkhwenyana owedlula kakhulu futhi unikeze inothi yamasiko endala, ingaba kanje: "Unomkhiqizo, sinomthengisi". Ngokwezimpahla kule nkulumo kusho umlobokazi, ngaphansi komthengisi insizwa ehlinzeka ngesandla sayo nangenhliziyo.
Ukuze umcimbi onjalo onomthwalo wemfanelo ozobanjelwa ezingeni elifanele, kufanele ulungiselelwe kahle futhi uhlole izimo ezihlukahlukene. Kulesi simo, umthwalo omkhulu uwela emahlombe omuntu odlala indima yabadlali bokudlala - kufanele ajabule, aphile futhi abe namandla, ngoba lokhu kunquma kakhulu umphumela womdlalo womkhwenyana. Isikripthi salesi siqeshana esingavamile singatholakala silungile.
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