Yini usitshela ingono halo

Emazweni amaningi aseYurophu futhi American, imfundo sex zabantu abasebasha bakhokha kakhulu ukunakwa ezingeni wombuso. Kusukela esemncane ezikoleni bayoqhuba amakilasi ozikhethela komzimba womuntu, umehluko ubulili for abafana namantombazane, izitho zomzimba womuntu, ukukhulelwa, ukuzalwa impilo entsha, kanye nezinye izihloko.

ngokuvamile Siye sabona umbono ohlukile. Lezi izindikimba zivame bayishaya indiva. Kube khona izindaba lapho efunda esikoleni esiphakeme ekuhloleni komzimba womuntu ifinyelela ukuqala izigaba ngokwehluka futhi izimpawu owesilisa nowesifazane, uthisha wabuza ukufunda la makhasi ekhaya ngaphandle incazelo futhi ngaphandle ukuxoxa ngalezi zindaba ekilasini.

Le ndlela le lokha nakethula impande okungalungile. Abantu abasha akudingeki befika ebudaleni ungakulungele ngokwengqondo.

Uphawu lokuqala sokukhulelwa

Isizukulwane abasebasha zamanje ukuvuthwa ngokushesha, hit ukugeleza enkulu imininingwane ewusizo, kodwa, naphezu kwalokhu, inani elikhulu kakhulu emantombazaneni asemancane uya nokuqhutshwa isisu. Imitholampilo kungabonakala nasemkhakheni lapho umama yesikole kuholela isisu - Ufaka, waphakamisa izandla zakhe nezimangaliso kanjani kwenzekile kumntanakhe. Akazi ukuthi ingxenye enkulu ngecala ke: hhayi ukutshela ingane mayelana inzalo, abafundiswa ukuzisebenzisa - isihloko Taboo abazali abaningi.

Akuwona wonke ukukhulelwa ukuqeda sad kangaka, manje, abaningi baqala ukubona ukuthi akhulelwe azale okwalandela ingane - uyisipho esivela kuNkulunkulu, kodwa konke kunesikhathi.

Ngakho-ke, ngifuna ngamunye ukuba uphile ukuphila kwabesifazane ngokobulili, ngisho usemncane kakhulu, kufanele wazi hhayi kuphela ngezindlela zokuvikela kodwa futhi mayelana izimpawu zokukhulelwa, ikakhulukazi isidingo sinake kakhulu ukuba amabele ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa futhi okwalandela ingane ibele.

Ukubukeka kwebele

Ngokuvamile alingana webele ingono halo incane. Omunye izimpawu zokukhulelwa, lapho halo iqala ukuba owengeziwe futhi sikhule ngosayizi. Kwandisa hhayi kuphela haloes ka izingono ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kodwa futhi esifubeni.

Wamabele, kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokukhulelwa, sibhekana ushintsho lokuqala - uqala ukuhlaba kabuhlungu ezindlebeni, Friend, kuboniswa hypersensitivity ingono. Wamabele uthi abafana, wathela - ke kwandisa kwegazi futhi uqale ukwandisa imigudu yobisi.

Halo ingono mnyama futhi bangaba nje brown. Okuqukethwe hhayi kuphela ingono lesikhumba strip wadalula maphakathi esiswini, abanye abantu besifazane, izandla, amahlombe. Konke lokhu njengomuntu ngamunye hhayi ngaso kubonakala yonke. Akukona esabekayo, ngemuva kokubeletha, konke kuza emuva evamile.

Abanye omama abakhulelwe abane-ingono halo ngokushesha uqala ukwandisa ngobukhulu amasonto ambalwa, ngezinye izikhathi, isikhumba ingono kakhulu welulela, okuholela emizweni okubuhlungu ukulunywa endaweni ye ingono. Abesifazane abaningi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa izingono ukuluma.

Zonke izinguquko ebeleni - ukulungiselela ayo ngoba ibele. Ngokuvamile ukulungiselela ayidingeki ngokuqondile, kodwa kukhona izimo lapho ingono halo iqine futhi akusho yokwelula. Kulokhu-ke kuyadingeka ukuze sikhuthaze izingono (uma kungekho usongo kwesisu), yanjalo esisuka futhi massaging kubo phakathi isithupha ne forefinger.

Vala ingono halo

Kukhona abesifazane abanale nokubingelela enkulu ingono ongakaphathelani sokukhulelwa - kuyisipho esivela Mother Nature. Yena, njengo cap, ihlanganisa ingxenye enkulu esifubeni, futhi abesifazane, yebo, ungathandi, kodwa akukho lutho ongalwenza ngakho, ngaphandle ukuthi ukuhlinzwa usizo. Kodwa kunzima ukuba ahlale kuso!