Ngifuna abakhulelwayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Isifiso sokuba nezingane sizalwa nawo cishe zonke wesifazane. ukubukeka kwakhe, ngokuvamile uwela esikhathini lapho umshado iphetha muntu othandekayo futhi ukuqhutshekiselwa okunomqondo injabulo yomkhaya, yebo, iyona kokuzalwa kwengane yakho. Lapho bezama ukuthola ukhulelwe kungukuthi ethwele impumelelo, kunengqondo emagama lafana nalawa lokukhala, livela inhliziyo: "Ngifuna ukuthola ukhulelwe - akunakwenzeka!". Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukucindezeleka okweqile befuna itsintsa ebucayi kungenzeka zibulale amathuba nabantwana, kanye sokungasebenzi isikhathi eside.

Ngifuna abakhulelwayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Yini okumelwe uyenze? kusukela epilweni yangamalanga yesimodeni abizele imithetho emisha. Yingakho ukuhlela sokukhulelwa manje kubhekwe imfuneko futhi isiqinisekiso busebenze evumayo. Ukuze uqale, owesifazane kufanele babonane nodokotela-wezifo zabesifazane. Iyoyimisa eziningi cwaningo ezokwenza ukuhlonza imbangela kunokwenzeka yenkinga. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi inhlolovo okufanele uhambe ngayo noyise esizayo ingane. Phela, kunezimo lapho nkinga ukuhluleka nguye, noma bobabili ophathina. Kunoma ikuphi, sesha impande izimbangela kufanele ukuphathisa ochwepheshe abaqeqeshiwe kunokuba nombelethisi ovela olubheke edolobhaneni elingumakhelwane.

Ngifuna abakhulelwayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Yini okumelwe uyenze? Uma contraindication zokwelapha umuntu ekhulelwa alikho, noma ukwelashwa seliqediwe, futhi balazisa sokukhulelwa ingekho, ungalilahli ithemba. isifiso Ngezinye izikhathi ngonya unezingane uqale egqoke imvelo ukwenama kwalowo kuzinga ngokwengqondo kubathinta kabi inqubo nje ebamba isisu. Kulokhu, odokotela bengqondo ukuncoma ukuba ivalile, ukuyidlulisa isimo, baphazanyiswa nezinye izinto ezisikhathazayo. Uma usizo ezihlotsheni nakubangane kule ndaba kungasizi, ungabona onguchwepheshe.

Ngifuna abakhulelwayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Yini okumelwe uyenze? Benzeni ogogo bethu futhi omkhulu-ogogo ezinsukwini lapho imithi kwakungelona ezingeni eliphezulu enjalo, kanye umqondo welithi "Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo" kwakungelona emehlweni? Abesifazane wacela usizo kuNkulunkulu. Ungakwazi wavakashela izindawo ezingcwele, sokuthandaza ngesikhathi esontweni lendawo noma ekhaya. Into esemqoka ukuthi Kwase kufika onke amalunga imithandazo esuka enhliziyweni. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho abalutholayo amandla amangalisayo ngempela kwavela impilo entsha.

Ngifuna abakhulelwayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Yini okumelwe uyenze? Kwenzeka ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kungasiza izindlela kagogo womuntu ongabazisayo. Ngokwesibonelo, uma umkhaya engenabantwana uthola lekati, ngokushesha kufika umntwana eside elindelwe. Noma ngokuthinta isisu nokuthumba owesifazane owayezithwele, uthembisa intombazane uyaphupha ukuba babe nomntwana. Abagxeki uyothwala kula mazwe kuzothatha kuya zenzakalo, hypochondriac abantu - isimangaliso. Kodwa kule nkinga zonke izindlela zinhle. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ungawoni empilweni kamama futhi umntanakhe ongakazalwa.

owesifazane ngamunye unquma uqobo ngubani ukucela usizo, wathi: "Ngifuna abakhulelwayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka!". Yithemba emehlweni umphefumulo uyakwazi ukwenza owesifazane isisulu bakhohlisi futhi psevdotseliteley. Ungahlali nge bedoyu wedwa, cela usizo abathandekayo, hhayi ukuba esimweni esibucayi. Bese konke Kuyophumela ethubeni!