Akunakwenzeka ukuba akhulelwe. Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Injongo eyinhloko zesifazane - ukuba abe umama. Futhi ngokushesha noma kamuva-ke ecabanga zonke intombazane. Akukho injabulo enkulu emhlabeni kunokuba umama! Kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi imvelo onomusa wesifazane. Naphezu isifiso esijulile sokuba babe nomntwana, awukhulelwa. Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Ngokuvamile, owesifazane uthola ukuthi ngeke ukhulelwe, kodwa akusho ukuvikela, futhi unquma ukuthi ukukhulelwa kumelwe nakanjani kungakazukufika masinyane. Kodwa lokhu akulona icala. Ezinye ngempela zisesimweni emva isenzo esisodwa ocansini olungavikelekile, kuyilapho ezinye zidinga izinyanga eziningana okukhulelwa. Kodwa uma ku nonyaka akunakwenzeka ukuthola ukhulelwe? Yini okumelwe uyenze? Yiqiniso, ukuba aye kudokotela futhi ahlolwe ngokuphelele.

Kubalulekile kakhulu ukuhlela ingane, hhayi ukulinda okukhulelwa. Ukuze abe, encane enempilo eqinile, kuqashwe impilo abazali abalindele kudingeka sinake ekhethekile.

Thatha amavithamini yakho, yokuphila efanele, musa kabi utshwala, ukuyeka ukubhema, ngamafuphi, wenze konke ukuze ingane olandelayo kwaba enempilo. Endabeni indlela abanekhono kunjalo, lo mbuzo: "Angikwazi abakhulelwayo, yini okufanele uyenze" - ulahlekelwe ngawe kube lusizo.

Kubalwa menstrual cycle nge-ovulation day yakho. Phakathi nale nkathi, ematfuba enkulu ukukhulelwa, ngoba iqanda ripens ishiye tube fallopian. Endabeni umhlangano isidoda, kokukhulelwa kwenzeka kanye wesifazane ukhulelwa kanjani. Uma isidoda akanayo isikhathi sokuthi iqanda, maduze uqale osesikhathini.

Kuyinto engenakwenzeka abakhulelwayo, yini okufanele uyenze? Vele ungadumali! Kunoma ikuphi. Kukhona amacala amathathu owesifazane angaphansi kwazo lapho asikwazi ukuba ingane:

1. On luhlolo wembula kungekho kwezinso.
2. On luhlolo ukuthi nginesifo "ukungazali".
3. udaba zabesifazane zempilo e uzakwethu.

Esimweni sokuqala, owesifazane ecabanga ukuthi benzeni ukuze ayakhulelwa ngokushesha. Phela, impilo kulungile! Ngakho-ke Kuxhomeke isikhathi. Kodwa kanjani ufuna usheshise izinto. Izizathu yokuntuleka kwesisu Esimweni esinjalo kungenzeka zengqondo kuka bokuphila. Sekuyisikhathi eside waphawula ukuthi lapho owesifazane fixated ku sokukhulelwa, isikhathi eside lokhu kungenzeki. Umuntu kumelwe amane ukuze uphumule futhi ujabulele inqubo ngokwalo, ngokushesha nje isivivinyo ikhombisa ukuthi unakekelwa ngesisa emapheshana ezimbili!

Esimeni sesibili kuba eliyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Emuva kokuhlolwa, owesifazane ayisekho azibuze ukuthi kungani akunakwenzeka ukucabanga ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze. Waqaphela ukuthi hhayi yena angaba nezingane.

Okwenzeka ziqine kangangokuba ngalesi sikhathi akhohlwe yokuthi uma ethole ukwelashwa okufanele kusuka inqubo professional noma IVF abanekhono angase abe nonina, ukungazali - hhayi umusho.

Endabeni lwesithathu, owesifazane uyaqaphela ukuthi inkinga ayikho, kodwa uzakwethu. Mhlawumbe ngenxa isidoda sakhe isidoda zisuke. Wena uthi: "Ngifuna ukuba uthole abakhulelwe okusheshayo, yini okufanele uyenze?" Impendulo - ukwelapha uzakwethu futhi ukwandisa umsebenzi isidoda.

Ukuba umama - enza isimangaliso esikulu kunazozonke emhlabeni! Futhi uqinisekile liyoba!