Amathiphu ambalwa wokuthi ungaba kanjani epholile ekilasini

Inani elikhulu labafundi besikole bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi "kanjani ukupholisa". Akuvamile ukuba "unqobe" lesi simo ngaphandle komzamo. Kuncike ezinombeni eziningi zezici: izimfanelo zobuholi, ukuzethemba, inhlanhla, amandla, ukuhlakanipha, njalonjalo. Omunye unikezwa ukuba abe mkhulu kunawo wonke umuntu ngokwemvelo, futhi omunye umuntu kufanele afune ulwazi oluningi futhi alandele amathiphu athile ukuze avele ebukhulu obukhulu.

Indlela yokupholisa

Ngokushesha noma cishe, cishe bonke abasha (bobabili abafana namantombazane) banombuzo othi "kanjani ukuthi ungene". Esiklasini, kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona kakade umholi othile, obhekwa njengowokupholile kunazo zonke, kodwa ungayithola kanjani?

Kukhona umbono oyiphutha wokuthi umfana onzima kufanele abe yi-cocky, ulaka, enze izenzo ezingalungile, ezishukumisayo, aphikisana nabantu abadala. Empeleni, ungakwazi ukwandisa izinga lakho lobukhali ngezindlela ezihlukile. Isibonelo, ukuze uzibonakalise ngenye indlela yemidlalo, kufanele ucabange ukuthi yini engcono kakhulu ukuthi umphefumulo ungubani - futhi hamba! Njengoba wazi, ukuze uphumelele kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi, kubalulekile ukwenza imizamo, futhi kakhulu, ngakho akuyona indlela esheshayo futhi elula, kodwa izoletha izinzuzo ezinkulu. Uma bekukhona umbuzo othi "kanjani ukuphola ekilasini", kuyadingeka ukuba usondele kuyo yonke into engathí sina. Mhlawumbe sidinga ukuba sihluke ohlukumezayo ekilasini lokuxhaphaza futhi sisize ababuthakathaka, futhi sishaye kalula ukuhlaselwa kwabalingani esikoleni.

Amathiphu awusizo womfana

Ukuhamba komuntu ngamunye kunencazelo yakhe. Ingaba nemiqondo ehlukene ngokuphelele, izimiso nezenzo. Kodwa uma ubuzibuza ngempela ukuthi "kanjani ukupholisa," ekilasini nasendlini kufanele uhambisane nezivumelwano ezithile:

• Ungalokothi ugxeke ngaphambi kwesitha, noma ngabe usekhulile noma awodwa. Ukukwazi ukulwa kupholile, ikakhulukazi uma uwina.
• Ukuze uhluke kuwo wonke umuntu (ngendlela enhle, isibonelo, ukuyeka ugwayi kanye / noma utshwala, uma konke lokhu kusetshenziselwa futhi podnachivayut wena.
• Ukwazi ukwenza izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi (noma yimiphi imidlalo noma ukuzilibazisa kufanelekile: i-skateboard, i-snowboard, ibhayisikili futhi ngokujwayelekile konke inhliziyo yakho ifisa).
• Yima uqine ngokwakho, ukwazi ukuvikela umbono wakho.

Imithetho eyisisekelo ye "krutyshki"

Okumangalisa ukuthi amantombazane abuye abuze umbuzo othi "ungaba kanjani". Esiklasini ngokuqinisekile kukhona "umhlambi" wezintombi, noma umthandile umfana, engingamthandayo ngaphambili. Kukhona imithetho ethile esebenzayo kokubili amantombazane nabafana:

• Buka ukubukeka kwakho. Okufanele kube konke: izingubo, izicathulo, isikhumba, izinwele. Uma uzitshele ukuthi "Ngifuna ukuphola", khona-ke kufanele ngigcine ukubukeka kwami esimweni esihle.
• Qiniseka kukho konke. Noma yini oyenzayo, kukho konke kufanele uqiniseke ngokuqinile.
• Thuthukisa izimiso zabo futhi, ngokufanele, zihlale zihambisana nazo.
• Ukuthuthukisa izimfanelo zobuholi. Ukupholisa ngempela kungabangena nabo ekilasini, abangane kanye nabajwayele nje.
• Ukuzimela kokuqukethwe kusuka kubantu abadala. Uma kunokwenzeka, cabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uzoziqhenya. Futhi izinto ezithengwa ngemali yazo, zizofaka ukupholisa izikhathi eziningana.
• Ungakhohlwa ngokuzihlaziya okuqhubekayo nokuzithuthukisa. Isimo esiphezulu siyanqabela ukuthi sihlale sisinyathelo esisodwa phambili.
• Unabangane abaningi ngangokunokwenzeka esikoleni, esifundeni, edolobheni. Lapho abantu obaziyo abaningi, kungenzeka ukuthi udume kakhulu (Yebo, ngomqondo omuhle wezwi).

Ukubhubhisa "ukupholisa"

Amantombazane namantombazane amaningi "apholile" akholelwa ukuthi ukuzinza ukuziphatha okubi, ukubonakaliswa kobudlova, ukungahloniphi abanye, kodwa akunjalo. Ngingathanda ukushiwo izikhundla eziyinhloko ezingalungile ezinganeni zesikole, ezizibuza ukuthi "kanjani ukuthi ziba namandla".

1. Eklasini, akufanele uzame ukufumbathisa wonke umuntu. Imali idala abantu, ikakhulukazi uma bengayitholi umsebenzi wabo.
2. Isimo sengqondo sokungcola kokufunda nabo, kanye nabadala (othisha, abazali). Lokhu kuziphatha kuzongena futhi kulungiselelwe ngokumelene nawe.
3. Ukungavamile, ukudumisa okunamandla kwamakhono akho, amandla noma ulwazi. Abantu abanobuqili nabahlakaniphile bodwa bayaziqaphela ukuthi bahamba phambili, ngaphandle kokusiza noma yiziphi izindlela eziphansi.

Ukufingqa

Uma sicabangela konke okushiwo ngenhla, umfana noma intombazane (uma esenombuzo othi "kanjani ukupholisa ekilasini"), kufanele kube nokuqonda okuncane ukuthi yimiphi imizamo okufanele yenziwe ukuze ibe yindlala / iminyene.

Isimo "esitholile" sidinga ukuba wenze umsebenzi omningi kuwe. Ukuzibophezela ngokwakho njalo, ulwazi lwezwe elizungezile nabantu liwumsebenzi omuhle odinga ukuthuthukiswa kwansuku zonke nokuzithiba ezintweni eziningi. Umthetho oyinhloko, okufanele ulandelwe, ufanele ube ngokwakho. Akukho ukuziphatha okunamandla okuzoshintsha indawo yemvelo, umusa kanye nesifiso sokusiza abantu, futhi lokhu kuyakwazisa kubantu bobabili esikoleni nasempilo.