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Indlela yokuba umngane omkhulu, intombazane nomfazi

Izigidi zabesifazane emhlabeni zinesithakazelo kulo mbuzo - ukuthi ungaba kanjani umngane omkhulu, intombazane nomfazi kumuntu othandekayo? Ungaba kanjani ukuthi akasoze ayeka uthando nokushiya, ukuze impilo yakhe yonke izinikelwe kowesifazane oyedwa?

Amaphupho Okuphila Okuhle

Ngamanye amaphupho omuntu ocansini womuntu ovele evele, njengenkosi evela enkulumweni yezinganekwane, ethinta imfucuza imihla ngemihla ngemibala ekhanyayo, uzogqoka inkosikazi yakhe ezandleni zakhe, aphule izinhlayiya zothuli futhi azibophe zonke izinhlelo kanye nezifiso kuphela kuye. Phela, ukwenza ubudlelwane bomshado, wonke umuntu uyathemba futhi ufuna ukuthwala imizwa yabo ngokuphila. Kodwa, ngeshwa, lokhu akusebenzi kuwo wonke umbhangqwana. Kuye kwafika amaphuzu ahlukile, futhi ngezinyembezi, ukudumazeka, ukucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka, bese kuthi, njengokukhanya kombani ebumnyameni obumnyama, isifiso esinesifiso sikhuphuka ekhanda ukuze sibe ngowesifazane ongcono kuzo zonke izici ngubani oyokwazi ukuba umngane, intombi, inkosikazi nendoda indoda Umuntu oyedwa. Uyomnika injabulo, futhi uzomthanda njalo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Kodwa indlela yokusebenzisa lolu hlelo empilweni? Ungaba kanjani owesifazane ohle-iphupho?

I-Halo yeHero

Wonke umuntu ozihloniphayo, ngenxa yemvelo engokwemvelo, uzibheka njengomholi, oyinhloko nomsebenzi wokuvikela nokuvikela owesifazane wakhe. Umgomo wakho ukumsiza abonise izimfanelo zakhe ezibukhali empilweni yangempela, ehlonipha njalo amandla akhe, isibindi futhi ephindaphinda lokho naye uzizwa "njengodonga lwamatshe." Ungamkhohlisi, kholwa kuye futhi ukhuthaze. Ukuphumelela komuntu ngokuqondile kuxhomeke kowesifazane wakhe. Umngane ohlakaniphile, ekwazi ukuthi angamsiza kanjani, uzoqondisa umlingani wakhe endleleni efanele futhi amsekele ngezikhathi zokuhluleka nokungabaza, futhi uyombuyisela lokhu ngokuphindwe kabili: impilo ecebile, egcwele ukuphila nokubonga okungapheli nokudumisa.

Ngethemba elikhulu

Ukukhanya ngokumomotheka nokukhanya okukhanyayo kwamehlo, kugcwele amandla asemqoka futhi abalulekile, intombazane iyithola umfana, uyomheha njengemagnet futhi athole okuningi. Okokuqala, uzomkhohlisa njengomuntu okuthakazelisayo ngaye ekukhulumisaneni futhi abe khona, futhi ubungane obukhululekile buyokhula bube yinto engaphezulu uma ebona ukuthi eduze kwentombazane enhle ingakwazi ukunqoba zonke izinkinga zokuphila. Futhi wena, ube nomqondo ocacile wokuthi ungaba kanjani umngane omkhulu kunazo zonke (futhi abathandekayo bakho), uzokwazi ukuhlangabezana ngokugcwele nakho konke okulindelekile kothandekayo.

Ngokuqondene nabakwa-grouchy, abesifazane abangenelisekile abalahla wonke umuntu nento yonke ngenxa yokuhluleka kwabo futhi balungele ukuthululela kumuntu oye wazama ukukhuluma nomuntu ongenandaba nokungaboni, mhlawumbe akanalo ubudlelwane obude bomshado.

Ukugxeka okuncane nokuqhathaniswa

Noma yikuphi umuntu ongeke ajabuzwe ukugxekwa kwansuku zonke kokubonakala kwakhe, isisu sakhe sagging, umholo wakhe omncane, hhayi amakhono engqondo kunazo zonke. Futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe uma kuqhathaniswa nesoka lomngani wakhe, umgijimi-umakhelwane noma owesilisa omuhle ovela ekhava. Esikhundleni salokho, ake uzizwe ekhangayo, edingekayo futhi oyifunayo kuwe. Amadoda, njengabesifazana, abonakala ngezakhiwo eziphansi. Ngokubona ubuhlungu obunzima bokucindezela kwakhe futhi engazi ukuthi angcono kanjani kunabanye kuye, angakwazi ukuhamba nje, ebheka indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kule ndawo, lapho ehola khona indima ye -scapegoat.

Ukubukeka okunethezeka

Ziqaphele, uzame ukubukeka ngendlela enhle futhi enhle. Uma engakukhethi ubuso obuhle, kodwa umhlaba ocebile wangaphakathi - lokhu akusho ukuthi akumnandi ukudweba nokugqoka, ngoba uyakwazisa emantombazaneni ngokwemvelo nangokwemvelo. Lena umbono ongalungile. Owesifazane ohlotshiswe kahle uyokwenza kube mnandi kuye kuphela, kodwa nakumlingani wakhe. Futhi imibono embalwa yokubonga ehlose kuwe iyoqinisa kuphela ubuhlobo - uzoziqhenya ngawe futhi uqaphele ukuthi ezandleni zakhe - iphupho lomuntu!

Ngakho-ke, enye indlela yokuba umngane omkhulu, intombi noma umfazi - njalo ubheka ubuhle futhi ulungele yonke indawo.

Isithakazelo esiqotho nokunakwa

Ngentshisekelo ube nesithakazelo empilweni yakhe, izinto zokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi kanye nezinkinga. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, zama ukulalela ngokucophelela, ngentshisekelo, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa noma ukwephula i-monologue. Umlingani okhombisa ukunakekelwa okuthandayo kumfana, futhi ngubani owazi ukulalela, uzokhuphuka esiteji. Ngenkathi intombazane, ngubani ongayeki okwesikhashana, ingxoxo engapheli futhi engenangqondo, akekho umfana ongafuni ukubona kabili.

Izindaba zomqondo

Isiteleka esasakazeke kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane kufanele abe mnandi, omncane futhi engacabangi ngempela, engenayo incazelo futhi enokholo. Uma le ntombazane iboshiwe ezindaweni eziningi zolwazi, efundiswe kahle futhi efundisiwe, ingakwazi ukusekela ingxoxo ethakazelisayo - isivele isesigabeni samadodakazikazi adingekayo. I-blonde enengqondo eveza izindebe zakhe ezimnandi nje ukusho enye into eyiziphukuphuku, futhi intombazane enolwazi olunamakhono angakwazi ukuxhuma bonke ososayensi bezwe ukuba ibhande ibanjwe ngokulinganayo nokukhangwa kwamantombazane angase abe khona. Namathela enqabeni yegolide - futhi uzokuthanda kaningi.

Inkululeko njengendlela yokuheha

Isimiso esilandelayo sokuthi ungaba kanjani umngane ongcono kakhulu wokuphila, uzwakala kanje: unike imikhosi yakho ethandekayo yenkululeko futhi ungabeki isikhubekiso entanyeni uma efuna ukuhlala nabangani ebhasini, uya ukudoba noma ukudlala amathangi enethiwekhi. Amadoda ngokwemvelo ahlelwe ngendlela yokuthi, ngemva kokude nabathandekayo babo okwesikhashana, bazizwa benesifiso esinamandla sokuba sesiseduze naye.

Ayikho i-matriarchy!

Akekho umuntu ozothokozela "umkhonto ngesiketi" - owesifazane ozama njalo ukuthatha amandla ebuhlotsheni kanye nendlu ezandleni zakhe, uthanda ukubusa futhi uqhathanise nabathandekayo ngokusekwa kwezici zamadoda. Ngaphandle kwalokho, lokhu akusiyo i-henpecked noma "muzhchinka", ejwayele isandla sensikazi yensimbi nendima ephila isikhathi eside yenceku. I-macho yangempela ifuna ukubona eduze komfazi othembekile, onothando, ongenakuqhathaniswa. Uphupha ukuzondla ukukhathazeka kwakhe okuthandayo, ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka ukuzizwa edingekayo futhi eqinile. Futhi akadingi neze i-Amazon imisa ihhashi lakhe emncintiswaneni, futhi i-superman, idwengula endlini evuthayo.

Manje uyazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani umngane omkhulu, intombazane nomfazi kumuntu othandekayo. Njengoba ubona, akukho okungeke kwenzeke futhi okungaphezu kwemvelo kuyadingeka. Ayikho imingcele 90-60-90, noma ingqondo ehlakaniphile, noma umzamo wokusindisa umhlaba - kuphela ukuzwela okuncane, ukuphendula nokukwazi ukuba ngowesifazane wangempela!

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