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Ephusheni ukubona ayakhulelwa.

Ukulala - lokhu ingenye izinqubo okurarako futhi inoveli ezenzeka emzimbeni womuntu, okungukuthi ubuchopho. Kwaphela iminyaka eminingi, ososayensi bazama ukuxazulula imfihlakalo amaphupho futhi ukunikeza incazelo enengqondo ukuze lesi simo. Futhi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezidumile kakhulu baye bazama ukwenza i wayengahambisani nokuchazwa izenzakalo ezenzeka ngesikhathi sokulala, ezibopha ne izenzakalo ngokoqobo futhi esekelwe imibono yesayensi.

Ziningi eyeza nezazi zezinkanyezi ezikhuluma amaphupho. Eminyakeni yokuqala, abantu bakholwa ukuthi amaphupho bakwazi ukubona ikusasa, kodwa akunakwenzeka njalo ukubeka izenzakalo amaphupho kusikophu engokoqobo.

Kuze kube manje, kodwa kukholakala ukuthi ngesikhathi sokulala, ubuchopho bethu ngenkuthalo usebenzasebenzisa imininingwane wathola ngosuku, futhi okunika sokuchitshiyelwa ubuntu futhi ubuntu lomuntu. Ngakho, bonke nemicabango nezifiso zethu ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi esabe ukuvuma ngisho ngokwabo, ukufanekisa amaphupho ethu.

Kulesi sihloko Ngifuna ukutshela amaphupho lapho lowo mphuphi walelo noma lowo mphuphi walelo ubona ikhulelwa noma nje ukubona umuntu wesifazane okhulelwe.

I zengqondo kunazo owaziwa, owayehlangene amaphupho, kuyinto Freud sasho owaziwa. Waba kakhulu inkolelo yakhe yokuziphendukela ubuthongo. Kodwa ngawo namuhla ngeke ukukhuluma.

Kuyini ephusheni ukubona ayakhulelwa (sokukhulelwa ubuthongo)?

iphupho enjalo incazelo. Esikhathini izincwadi iphupho, ukuthi manje imfashini kunjalo, incazelo buphikisana ngakho ngokuqinile ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuqonda ukuthi yini sasifuna ukutshela enganakile yethu. Ngenxa ephusheni bonke enganakile uyaphuma bese lisitshela izifiso zethu.

Incwadi iphupho eyabhalwa Freud ziyaphawuleka, wabhala ukuthi ukukhulelwa iphupho (ikhulelwe ephusheni) okuyinto enkulu ngesakhiwo iphuzu, usho uJehova, "ukuzalwa" okuseduze into entsha ekuphileni kwethu. Uma ephusheni bazibone abakhulelwe (lokhu kusebenza abesifazane), kungenzeka ukuthi ukhulelwe noma ukukhulelwa ngokushesha. Noma kungase kusho ngaphezulu isifiso sakho enganakile ukuba babe nezingane. Kodwa lena incazelo eqondile into ubuthongo.

Kukhona incazelo ongokomfanekiso imihlola ezinjalo. Ephusheni ukubona ayakhulelwa ngokuvamile kumaka ku yimuphi umcimbi obalulekile empilweni yakho esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, okufanele mayelana kwenzeke futhi nibe nilindele lokhu kakhulu.

Kungenzeka ingane yakho emisebenzini babo bomsebenzi, ukuqaliswa umbono oye achanyuselwe. Noma, kunalokho, ukuvela imibono emisha, izinhlelo ezintsha, into qualitatively entsha ekuphileni kwakho.

Ngoba indoda ukubona umuntu wesifazane okhulelwe walala (kungaba umkakhe noma yimuphi omunye wesifazane) kusho ukuzalwa umqondo omusha, iphrojekthi, okuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kuye futhi i-career, okuyinto kubonakala owesifazane equlekile a izithelo ingane iphupho ongokomfanekiso wengane.

Enye ebalulekile uma ephusheni ukubona ayakhulelwa, kuyinto kwavela izici ezintsha zobuntu, okuyinto kuze kube yileso sikhathi wayengekho ephila tesifundvo.

Lokhu kungaba ukugcwaliseka ezinye izimiso zokuphila futhi ukuvela, kulo mongo, ukuqonda izenzakalo yangempela ekuphileni ophuphayo sika.

Nokho, ukuchazwa kwamaphupho njalo aphethwe nolimi kusuka umongo iphupho, ziyabhekelelwa izenzakalo ezenzeka ngesikhathi sokulala, okuyinto azungeze owesifazane okhulelwe ngabanye uthwele ingane yakhe, lapho kwenzeka, yini umbala kuba iphupho (emihle noma emibi).

Yiqiniso, konke lokhu kufanele ngempela kuhlobene nezenzakalo zangempela ezenzeka ngayizolo. Khona-ke iphupho iba ngempela linikeza umqondo, futhi singafunda wokufunda izimpawu subliminal ubuchopho bethu ukuhlaziya nokuqonda ukuthi yini okudingeka siyenze okuthile qaphela noma bajabule.

Ngakho, amaphupho ethu zigcwele eziningi ezingaziwa futhi kubalulekile, kuba ulwazi bese silahlekelwa ngezinye izikhathi, ukuhlaziya izenzo zabo.

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