Ngamahloni ezinganeni , cishe bonke abazali babhekana nazo. Abaningi babo ngezinye izikhathi balahlekelwa yizo zonke izibekezelo futhi abanaso nhlobo umbono wokuthi bangaba kanjani kulesi simo. Yingakho bezibuza imibuzo mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele yenze uma ingane iqhuma ama-hysterics. Ake siyiqonde.
Abanamahloni ezinganeni ngokuvamile baqala eneminyaka eyi-1.5-2. Ingane, eyengelosi encane enhle izolo, iphenduka enkani enenkani, ekwazi ukuhola abazali bayo ekushiseni okumhlophe. Kuyinto enhle ukusho ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha akubonakali ngaso sonke isikhathi yingane. Ngokuvamile amahlaya emntwaneni ahlaselwa yimpilo embi, ukukhathala, ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo. Isibonelo, uma ingane encane ingazizwa kahle, ingakwazi ukuphonsa intukuthelo ngokoqobo endaweni ethile, kanti esimweni esivamile singaphazanyiswa kalula noma sishintshe kwenye into. Ngakho-ke, umuntu akufanele aholele umntwana okhathele, olambile noma okhubazekile esitolo (kuya eposini, njll). Kubuye kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhipha imizwelo nokubona, ngisho nokuhle kakhulu. Uma uhlelo lokuzijabulisa lugcwele ngokweqile (isibonelo, indawo yaseshashalazi, bese uhambo oluya e-zoo noma ezikhangayo), i-karapuz ingase iqale ukuqala ukuba ingenangqondo ngokumane nje imizwa, noma kunalokho, ngokukhathala ngokomzwelo.
Ngokuvame ukudumaza ezinganeni kwenzeka ezindaweni ezinabantu abaningi: ezitolo, ezokuthutha zomphakathi. Futhi kulokhu, abazali abakhathazekile ikakhulukazi, ngoba balahlwa abanye. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke kulezi zindlela ukuzola, ukuyeka ukuzwakalisa futhi ungaqapheli abadlulayo, ululeke ukuthi uthathe umntwana ezandleni zakho, unike upapa, noma uthenge imoto ingane engathandeki. Kungcono ukukhipha ingane bese umvumela ukuba eze kuye. Kodwa-ke, ukummangalela kulesi simo kumane kungenasisekelo, ekuqaleni, ingane idinga ukuzola.
I-hysteria ezinganeni ayizona izinyembezi nokukhala. Izingane eziningi zikwazi ukugibela phansi, ziwe bese zigoqa ngezinyawo zazo, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukukusho. Abanye abasha baya phambili nakakhulu futhi balwe nocansi noma udonga ngamakhanda abo, badonsa izinwele zabo, bashaya ubuso babo futhi babangele nokuhlanza (okwakamuva, ngenhlanhla, kwenzeka ngokungajwayelekile). Ngezinye izikhathi izingane ziphenduka okwesibhakabhaka ngesikhathi sokukhala. Empeleni, ama-hysterics ezinganeni - into ejwayelekile kakhulu, kepha uma ivela kaningi futhi ingenangqondo, futhi ihambisane nanoma yiziphi izimpawu ezesabekayo, kufanele ubonise imvuthu kumuntu wezokwelapha osebenza kahle.
Uma ingane iqhuma amahlaya, yini abazali okufanele bayenze? Njengoba sekushiwo kakade, okokuqala kufanele uqine futhi ukhumbule ukuthi cishe bonke abasha badlula kulo. Okwesibili, udinga ukulahla ithuba lokudlala nabantu (okungcono, kungcono ukushiya yedwa uma kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka). Ngoba ukukholelwa kulesi simo kungenamandla, ingane ngeke ilalele. Futhi ngemuva kokuba ingane ikhulile, kufanele ukhulume naye ngesimo, uhlaziye ukuziphatha kwakhe, uzwise imizwa yakhe ("usithukuthele ngoba asizange sithenge imoto"), futhi uchaze ukuthi ukubonakaliswa okunjalo kwemizwelo akumukeleki ("noma ngabe ucasukile , Ukumemeza kuwo wonke umgwaqo akufanele kube "). Kungenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile ukudlala izigcawu ngosizo lwamathoyizi ozithandayo wengane, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe ukubiza isimo futhi ambonise indlela yokusebenza ngandlela-thile (ngokunembile nangalungile).
I-Hysteria ezinganeni ingazama ukuxwayisa. Ngokushesha lapho i-crumb iqala ukungenangqondo, kufanele iqondiswe kabusha ukwenza noma yiziphi izenzo ("bheka, yiyiphi igciwane", "ngilethe lelo phakatsi lejusi"). Ezinye izingane ziyasizwa yizibhamu eziqinile kanye "nabakwa-ticker" abahlukahlukene. Futhi, ungahambi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngesimiso - ngezinye izikhathi umntwana angakwazi futhi ahlinzeke ngokuthenga lo mshini okhubazekile kakhulu, kodwa kuphela uma ingozi ingakaqali. Futhi uma ingane ivele ingenele ekufutheni, ukuzijabulisa ukwenza isikhathi sekwephuzile, kungenjalo uzoqonda ukuthi ngezinyembezi bese ukhala ungakwazi ukufeza okuningi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izinqubomgomo zawo wonke amalungu omndeni zifana. Izimo lapho umama engaphenduki lapho ekhala, futhi ubaba ngokushesha egijima ukwenza konke ingane ethandekayo, kungenza amahlaya abe ngendlela evamile yokusebenzisa futhi ayenze isikhathi eside kakhulu.