Isakhiwo uhlamvu

Ngezindlela eziningi, thina lokho esiyikho, ngokunembile ngenxa takhe similo setfu. Kuyini uhlamvu? Lena into eziyinkimbinkimbi. Libhekisela inhlanganisela esitebeleni yezici ezahlukahlukene zazo ngokuzimela obonakaliswe ngamazinga ahlukene. Uhlobo kanye nesakhiwo alo aye wafunda ngodokotela eziningi ehamba phambili. Baye babona ukuthi umlingisi kuthinta ukuphila komuntu, umbono wakhe, isimo sengqondo kwabanye abantu. isakhiwo uhlamvu emisebenzini ehlukene kuchazwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ngokuyisisekelo, kusho isiqalo nesigcino a izici zamabanga aphansi naphezulu. Iziphi izindaba, yebo, nalabo nabanye.

Isakhiwo uhlamvu kwengqondo

Thina sonke sisabela ngezindlela ezingafani kwenzekani emhlabeni. Ezimweni eziningi, izimpawu psyche eziyinkimbinkimbi. uhlamvu isakhiwo ethile kulelo izakhi zalo axhunyiwe nomunye. Kwakuvame ukuthi oyedwa bangase bazibone ukuthambekela esikhundleni mutual. Ngokuvamile ethathwe enye. Into wukuthi indoda onesibindi, njengoba umthetho, juqu futhi mathupha, futhi igwala futhi ebucayi ukwesaba.

isakhiwo uhlamvu siqukethe izici ehola, kanye emincane. Okokuqala setha indlela yokuthuthuka yomuntu. Ngesisekelo ifomu lesibili.

Ulwazi kulezi zimfanelo ehola kusivumela ukudala isithombe ngokwengqondo umuntu, ukuqonda ukuthi iyini. Phawula abalobi ukumambula isithombe uhlamvu ngokushesha eligcizelela ezicini ezithile bobuntu bakhe. Uma singakwazi ubabonise kahle, umlingisi ke uzobe kuqondwe umfundi ngokushesha.

Izici Zobuntu kungembula isimo sengqondo somuntu ukuba ngokoqobo, kodwa kukhona, ngesisekelo okuyinto ungenza nesiphetfo lesingakalungi.

Izici Zobuntu kungatholakala ezihlukahlukene ezimweni, kanye ubuhlobo ngokoqobo. Zibonakala ngokucacile kakhulu:

- ngesikhathi nokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Ukukhuluma sociability, ukuzehlukanisa, ukuphana nokunye;

- ekufezeni yimuphi umsebenzi. Lokhu kusebenza ukukhuthala, umsebenzi onzima, ubuqotho, nokunye;

- lapho sisebenzelana ngokwakho. Umuntu angathola i-siphakamise noma yehlise ngokwakho, kube ezilahlayo, noma ukuphoqa ngokwakho ukuthuthukisa ngaphezulu ukuthethelelana ngokwakho. Ngokwabo bonke lobu kwakhiwa ezifana nezimfanelo ezifana amandla okumelana naso ;

- isakhiwo imvelo nesimo sezulu kungabuye atholakala ukuhlaziya ebuhlotsheni bomuntu impahla. Lapha umuntu kungaba inobudlabha, behlanzekile, mafutha, nokunye.

isakhiwo uhlamvu liyinkimbinkimbi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ngeke ukwazi wahlulele konke kunoma iyiphi isici esisodwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi umane nje umphumela rush obudlulayo balesi imizwa. Kubalulekile futhi ukuba ukhumbule ukuthi ezimweni ezahlukene abantu kungaba okuhle noma okubi, elalinamandla ukuwedlula noma ngobugwala, Lihle noma ewubunuku. Abaningi bayaqiniseka ekhaya, kodwa lalahleka ke, kwenzekani ku-umphakathi.

Ngokuvamile, isakhiwo imvelo ikakhulukazi kungaqondakala ngokusebenzisa ke maqondana lomuntu emphakathini kanye nabameleli bayo ethize. Masingakhohlwa ukuthi indoda uyisidalwa kwezenhlalo, okungukuthi, ukuziphatha kwakhe noma kunjalo, umphakathi nje. Umphakathi Kunethonya elikhulu ubuntu bakhe.

Ezinye izici ngokuvamile libhekene abantu ngabanye kuphela ehlukene, kodwa futhi amaqembu kwezenhlalo lonke. Akukho nzima ukuqagela ukuthi amasosha yizingalo eziyikhulu isici, isibindi, isibindi, isibindi, ukuzithiba, nokukhuthazela ukuze abavukuzi, umsebenzi onzima, ukukhuthala, nokunye.

Kukholakala ukuthi imvelo isegazini. Ngokwengxenye lokhu kuyiqiniso, kodwa akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi izici eziningi zalo zivele nje ngenxa yanoma yisiphi izimo ezithile noma ngenxa ukuphindaphinda kwesikhathi eside isenzo esifanayo, ukusetshenziswa noma yikuphi ukuziphatha.