Self-kulinywePsychology

Izibonelo isazela. Self-ukulondolozwa, indlala, okusinda

Instincts kukhona isakhiwo ebalulekile yobuntu bethu, ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo kuncike ngokuyinhloko nevikeleko lethu. Lapho senza isandla sakhe, ufuna adle, noma ukufunda okuthile okusha, siphila, ukusebenza nokwengamela asathuthuka. Man, ukuzalwa, imizwelo engokwemvelo noma ingqondo ukuthi esivela kithi uNkulunkulu ophilayo. Ingane encane ingabe ukuthi lilambile, kodwa lapho othinta amakhona umlomo wakhe ibuyisele Umntwana uqala ukubheka webele likanina ukuze ukugcwaliswa.

Kuyinto ngenxa wemvelo siphila esewusana. Khona-ke amanye awo evelele, ngokuba yisandla lonke yezimpilo zethu. Ake sibone ukuthi iyini le imizwelo engokwemvelo, nendlela babonisa ezimpilweni zethu.

Instincts nokuzivumelanisa nezimo kwabantu

Ekuphileni wonke umuntu kubaluleke kakhulu indima imizwelo engokwemvelo. Zibalulekile kakhulu kithi, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi ukuphila kungaba ancike kuzo. Kodwa on the ezingeni nesimo sengqondo sokuzivumelanisa nezimo lesintu lincike ekuhlaleni isiphelo sayo. Kungaba ikhono azalwa naso noma bathenga ukuzivumelanisa yisiphi isimo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izimo lapho umuntu kwaba. Uma sikhuluma nezimo abantu, kungaba okusezingeni eliphezulu, ongaphakeme naphakathi. Ngu isegazini nezimo okungumsu zihlanganisa ubuntu, ongokwemvelo, ukubukeka, ezazidingeka ukukhalipha, ekwakhekeni nasekumeni komzimba, amakhono angaphakathi, imizwa nempilo.

Kukhona into efana lithathelwe. Libhekisela amazinga okuzivumelanisa yomuntu, isikhundla sakhe emphakathini futhi ube nomuzwa wokwaneliseka noma ukungeneliseki ngokuphila kwabo futhi bona ngokwabo. Nezimo iyona umuntu oyedwa okuqinisekisiwe ebuntwaneni izici bemvelo nesiqondiso sakhe siqu. imizwelo engokwemvelo Ukuthi sika ezibhekwa njengengxenye wokuqala nomkhulu kunabo bonke ubunjalo bomuntu, esinikela nezimo.

Ingabe ikhona isazela komama kanye zoyise?

On nomqondo isazela uxaka izazi zesayensi eziningi, olwenziwa umsebenzi omkhulu ngokwesayensi. amafomu ehleliwe lesi sipho bemvelo eyaziwa usosayensi Garbuzov. Yena kuchazwe wemvelo eyisisekelo, kodwa abazange zihlanganisa nomqondo isazela komama kanye zoyise. yalokho okunjalo wagxeka abanye umsebenzi wakhe, abanye nabo. Kuthathwa ngokuthi imiqondo le ezibhekwa imizwelo engokwemvelo okunemibandela, ngoba awaveli nhlobo. Futhi ukunakekela izingane zabo lingahunyushwa ngalezi zindlela lokuyeka self-ukulondolozwa noma ukwandiswa uhlobo.

Kodwa omema izibonelo isazela, akunakwenzeka ukuba wazi ukubonakaliswa nemizwelo nabazali. Futhi akukho lutho ongalwenza ngakho, nemvelo esingokwemvelo ngakho. isazela nal kubhekwa ukuba SOMBHALO esekelwe isidingo zomlando ukuze alondoloze yesizukulwane futhi ukuqhubeka nemindeni yabo. Zonke izidalwa eziphilayo kufanele isazela komama mammalian, ngaphandle ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi abantu kuthatha ifomu ingafaneleki. Lokhu kungaba njengoba phezu imininingwane yokugcinwa kwezingane njengoba abadala noma ukunganaki njengoba engamukeleki yabazali. Uma sikhuluma imizwelo engokwemvelo esingokwemvelo, ngumama kubonakala amantombazane kusuka kakhulu ebuntwaneni. Okuningi ngokucace ke kuzibonakalisa nabesifazane abangabafundi abakhuthele ngaphansi inhliziyo yakho lezinyane lembuzi elilodwa, labo kakade sebebelethile. Animal isazela umama wehlukile obuntu, ngoba kusekelwe yokuthi uMdali esivela kuzo zonke izilwane. Futhi abantu bayakwazi ukwenza okuthile kunokuba sithembele kuphela isazela.

Isenzakalo ukuhluka (hhayi njalo ehambisana ne-obhekwe ingane) ubhekwa isazela kayise. Lokhu kubhekwa mkhuba kwezenhlalo moya, okuyinto lihlotshaniswa nemithetho yomphakathi yesimanje ukuthi kuqhutshwa nezindinganiso zomkhaya.

Izinhlobo imizwelo engokwemvelo Garbuzova incazelo

Ngokusho nomqondo yilo profesa, neuropsychiatrist sefilosofi, kukhona imizwelo engokwemvelo eziyisikhombisa eziyisisekelo. Lezi zihlanganisa: i-isazela ukuzala self-ukulondolozwa, inkululeko zocwaningo, isithunzi, yokuzinikela futhi ukubusa.

Kukhona dyads ezintathu, okuyinto zibuthelelwe wemvelo. Ngokwesibonelo, dyad "A" ubhekwa base, ihlinzeka sokusinda ngokomzimba yomuntu futhi lezi zilwane. Lokhu dyad kuhlanganisa ezimbili imizwelo engokwemvelo: self-ukulondolozwa nokuzalwa kwabantu. Kodwa dyad "B", ehlanganisa ucwaningo kanye isazela enkululeko, inikeza komphakathi eyinhloko indoda. Kugcine, eyesithathu, le dyad "B", ehlanganisa isazela yokubuswa nesithunzi, uhlinzekela izinsiza self-ukugomela futhi self-ekulondolozweni womuntu-aspect zenhlalo ezithinta ingqondo. Ndawonye, zonke dyads ezintathu isiqinisekiso lithathelwe womuntu empilweni yangempela.

Self-ukulondolozwa njengoba isazela sabantu esiyisisekelo

Ibuse umuntu ubhekwa okukodwa noma ngaphezulu wemvelo, lonke uzwakalise buthaka kakhulu. Ukukhunjulwa Kwalabo izibonelo isazela, asikwazi bayakhohlwa nekutilondvolota mine.

Iziphi izindlela ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, abantu nje amashushu ukusinda. Nge ubunjalo izilungiselelo umzimba womuntu abantu ecacisiwe baye bafunda bhekana nezingozi ibalindele yonke indawo. Lokhu kubonakala eqinisweni lokuthi uma kushisa - indoda ukudansela isiginci sakhe isandla uma benikwe ukudla okusolisayo - zokuchithwa ke, uma umuntu akazi ukubhukuda kanjani-ke, kusobala, akazange angene phansi ekujuleni kwamanzi.

Animal isazela kungabuye ngokuthi uhlobo self-ukulondolozwa isazela. I isazela self-ukulondolozwa kubhekwa eyisisekelo ngoba nje kokungabi nabo nhlobo nezinye imizwelo engokwemvelo ulahlekelwe ukuthi asho ukuthini. Futhi isizathu salokhu isobala: into yokuqala udinga nganoma isiphi ngabanye, kuhlanganise nomuntu - iwukuba unakekele yokulondoloza ukhona, kungenjalo ngeke bakwazi ukusebenza futhi elula wusizo emhlabeni. By endleleni, le isazela self-athuthukiswe izingane kusukela ekuzalweni.

Genofilny uhlobo - kuyini?

Lapho genofilnom uhlobo obusa isazela of ukuzala. Uma kusuka kakhulu ebuntwaneni, umntwana ukhulela emphakathini lapho izithakazelo awashintsheki kuphela umndeni, kuyoba ethule kuphela uma wonke umndeni kuyinto ndawonye, bonke kulungile anempilo ajabule owandile. Kubantu abanjalo, ekhaya lakhe ubhekwa inqaba, kodwa izimfuno ilungu ngalinye lomndeni - ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye. Isikhathi esining impela, abantu yalolu hlobo zilungele zizinikele ngenxa izingane zabo nemindeni yabo. the isazela sokusinda kulokhu akusebenzi, ngoba uhlobo genofilny aluhlosile nje ngokwabo, kodwa imindeni yabo. Ungakwazi ukugcina lokhu isibonelo isazela wokusindisa abantu egumbini esivuthayo. Le ndoda ne isazela evelele self-ukulondolozwa akunakwenzeka yena uzasindisa abantu ngesikhathi umlilo. uhlobo Abantu genofilnogo uzokwenza ngaphandle kokunqikaza.

I isazela sokukhathalela

Lokhu usinga ejwayelekile uhlobo yokuzinikela. Abantu abaye wabusa lokhu isazela kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuba sibonise umusa nokukhathalela abathandekayo. Bona ukuthuthukiswa imizwelo engokwemvelo, kodwa zonke kuzoncika ukusebenza kwalesi obusa. Lokhu isazela kuholela abantu ukunikeza umakhelwane lokho ekudingayo abantu. Laba bantu ngaphezulu wokuzidela kunabanye, banikela ukuphila kwabo umphakathi, ukuvikela ababuthaka, ukusiza abagulayo nabakhubazekile. Abantu isazela sokukhathalela iyophila isiqubulo: "Umusa uyosindisa emhlabeni!" Ngokuvamile, kungcono izibonelo ezinhle isazela, ngoba bonke labo bantu wayelwela ubulungisa emhlabeni futhi bazimisele ukusiza abanye, noma ngabe zingakubiza kubo.

Umcwaningi - imfundo noma zibangelwa izici zofuzo lomuntu?

uhlobo Ucwaningo kungenziwa ngokuthi ukwazi okwengeziwe. Kulesi hlobo cwaningo kubhekwa ukuba isazela evelele. Kusukela ebuntwaneni kuba "Who Knows?" Ngelikabani ilukuluku ezingeni eliphezulu, futhi bonke phezu show yini isifiso sokubatshela emnyombweni. Izingane yalolu hlobo kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthola izimpendulo ezijulile futhi kungase kutholakale zemibuzo yabo. Bafunda eziningi futhi othanda ukuba ulinge. Lokhu ngokuvamile kuba abantu yokudala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini usuyisigqila. Ngakho-ke, umcwaningi - kuba kunalokho umphumela imizwelo engokwemvelo yomuntu kunemfundo.

uhlobo evelele

Kulesi hlobo eyinhloko isazela zokucindezela, kodwa noma kunjalo kuba nokungapheleli esakuzuza basinde isazela okukhulu. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, abantu abanjalo ziboniswa ikhono ahlele Imidlalo, ziqeqeshelwa wazibekela imigomo futhi ukuyifinyelela. uhlobo evelele bazwisise abantu ukuba babahole. Laba bantu bazizwe kwagcizelela isidingo ukulawula abanye. Isikhathi esining impela izingane kusukela uhlobo evelele sikhule abaholi, abaphathi, abezombusazwe, abasebenzelana kanye abagqugquzeli.

I isazela wokusindisa enkululeko siqu

Labo ukulwa ukuze kulondolozwe inkululeko yomuntu siqu, kukhona izibonelo isazela enkululeko. Nge inabukeni izingane ezinjalo abonise umbhikisho lapho inabukeni zabo, futhi noma iyiphi uhlobo izivimbelo enkululeko futhi kubangela kwenqatshwa, okuyinto ngaleyo ndlela ikhula nengane yakho. Uhlamvu okubusa abantu ibhekwa njengeBhayibheli isifiso sokuthola inkululeko yokuzibusa, inkani, ukubekezelelana ngenxa yobuhlungu, nezici ezithile ukuze ingozi. Abanaso ukubekezelela isimiso sama. Ngenxa yokuthi laba bantu baye wacindezela isazela of ukuzala nekutilondvolota mine, bavame aphume imindeni yabo. Avame ukugcina inkululeko yabo, abakuthandayo futhi ubuntu. Abantu abanjalo ayikwazi kakhulu nokukhawulela izenzo, bengakuthandi ukuba bazithobe.

uhlobo Dignitofilny of imizwelo engokwemvelo yomuntu

Lolu hlobo ubuswa isithunzi isazela. Kusukela esemncane kakhulu, abantu abanjalo ungakwazi ukubamba indida noma wokuhlekwa usulu. Abanaso kwanoma iluphi uhlobo losizi. Lena uhlobo lwabantu oxhumana nabo kusukela ebuntwaneni singaba izingxoxo, kodwa lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngomusa ngendlela ekholisayo. Ukuze alondoloze nodumo isithunzi, umuntu onjalo uyakwazi ngisho ukudela into eyigugu kakhulu anayo. Kubalulekile ukukhomba kusenesikhathi uku ingane, ukuze ngingasebenzisi ukucindezela ungubani inqubo ukuphila. Kubantu abanjalo udinga ukwesekwa kanye nokuqashelwa. Khona-ke bona ngokwabo azizwe edingeka futhi efunwa.

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