Kanjani ukuba ocansini?

Kasibili bonke abantu eziye zaphetha ukuthomba unesithakazelo kangakanani ukuba ocansini ngendlela efanele. Futhi lo mbuzo akusilo ize, ngoba isenzo socansi akuyona nje inqubo lokuhlangana izidingo ezingokwenyama, kodwa futhi ukwethula ubuciko uthando ngesiwombe sesibili.

Mayelana Amaphuzu angenhla asisiza kugcwale umlomo ukuthi ngaphandle amandla Ukuheha nesifiso sobulili umlingani kuyoba njani ejimini. A nokujabulela kungenziwa yabhekana kuphela inhlanganisela ivumelane ekugcwaleni ezingokomzimba nezingokomzwelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akunakwenzeka ukuba ngeso lengqondo indlela ukuba ocansini ngaphandle ngempela umlingani wakho, ngoba bezoziphatha kwemizimba emibili eqala Ukukhululwa egcwele. Ungabi namahloni kothandekayo, wena badinge ukuxoxa ngothandekayo wabo izintandokazi siqu kanye nokuhuheka nezinkanuko. Ngokwesibonelo, e-Europe ingxoxo ngocansi nomlingani kubhekwa ingxoxo ngokuphelele evamile, ngisho ezidingekayo ukuze sivule yimpumelelo.

Endaweni ehlukile, siphawula ukuthi imibhangqwana eminingi angazi kanjani ukuba bahlanganyele ubulili bendunu ngakho bakhetha ukundlula le timu party. Nokho, lokhu kwehlukahlukana ungenziwa kuphela ukuqinisa umshado wenu futhi ukuvula HORIZONS esisha ebuhlotsheni. Abesifazane abaningi babe lolu hlobo sobuhlobo bobulili kubangela eziningi uyesaba ukwesaba ukuthi uzinake ngokwanele kugomela. Ukuze sicubungule kwase kuphephile ukuba bobabili abalingani, kufanele uzilungiselele ngokucophelela. Okokuqala, ngokushesha ngaphambi kocansi ukwenza i enema ukuze ugweme izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zezindwangu ezingaba lezimanga ukuthi kungonakalisa i kusihlwa obuseduze. Okwesibili, ngesikhathi anal sex igrisi kumele kusetshenziswe njengendlela yemvelo, umswakama is hhayi kukhiqizwa. Uma kungenjalo, khona ngempela kunosongo ngokonakalisa ezindongeni ingquza, futhi kungaba kamuva ukuthuthukisa i ukuvuvukala.

Enye inkinga ahlekise imibhangqwana eminingi kuyinto umbuzo indlela zenziwe ubulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa futhi ukuthi ungakwenza. Lapha ukubukwa wezazi ungavumelani, ngoba icala ngamunye ngamunye. Yiqiniso, uma ukuthuthukiswa umbungu kuhambe kahle futhi awekho ezisongela impilo omama esizayo, isenzo socansi kuvunyelwe kunoma iyiphi senyanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwezinye izimo, kungase kube ngisho nethonya elihle enhlalakahleni yawo abesifazane. Nokho, nge ithoni lelitfutfukile kwesibeletho ucansi kungaholela wazalwa kungakabi isikhathi noma ukuphuphuma. Kunoma yikuphi, abazali babazukulu kuba isibopho ukuba bonana nodokotela wakho kuqala owesifazane owayezale Ngiyonika iseluleko enemininingwane.

Ukuzalwa komntwana kunoma yimuphi umkhaya kubhekwa ukuba real okwehla esiphundu. Phakathi nale nkathi, ukunakekelwa Chad othandekayo kuletha kuphela abazali, futhi libido kungaba kukhuphukele emakhaleni ami ngomfutho ovuselelwe. Kulokhu kudingeka sazi indlela zenziwe ucansi ngemva kokubeletha. Odokotela batusa kakhulu wokudeda bezoziphatha izinyanga zokuqala 1.5-2. Mayelana isikhathi esiningi kuzothatha ngokuba yokutakula abesifazane uhlelo ngokobulili, futhi Ukungena ngaphambi umnqamulajuqu kungadala ukulimala le mucosa lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kanye nezinye pathologies. Kodwa ngalesi sikhathi, ungasebenzisa njengoba ithuba eliyingqayizivele bajwayelane ezinye izinhlobo ukwaneliseka.

Kodwa into eyinhloko ubudlelwane phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane - hhayi imishini inqubo, futhi indlela yokwenza uthando. Yilokho uthando! Phela, kuphela lo muzwa ukukhanya okwaziyo ukukhulula aphakeme injabulo abalingani.