Self-kulinywe, Ukuphathwa ukucindezeleka
Kanjani ukuphila ngemva ukukhashelwa kothandekayo?
Ukukhaphela ... imizwa Njengoba abaningi ngegama elilodwa! Mayelana lokungakholwa ebhaliwe amanoveli ngokwanele, ngokuvamile lokhu esenzeka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi nsuku sibhekene izindaba zangempela futhi yokudlala washintsha lapho sekufikile endlini yethu, asikwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi sikulungele. Kanjani ukuphila ngemva komuntu oshade naye, ukuthethelela into enjalo ingenzeka? Zama ukuqonda.
Kanjani ukuphila ngemva komuntu oshade naye, futhi uma kudingeka sibathethelele?
Kubalulekile anqume noma cha ukumthethelela umoni. Zama ukuhlola isimo ngokuphelele ngokwakho noma uthintane nesazi sengqondo. Ukuze wenze iphutha, kudingeka uqonde ukuthi lezi ubudlelwane ezibizayo futhi okuhle. Zikhona izizathu kungani Union kufanele lugcinwe noma ukuhlala ngokwahlukana - lena ngempela ukhetho best. Ushintsho olulodwa ngokomzimba nje kungenzeka ngempela. Uma umlingani wakho ukwenza lokhu njalo, noma has a ubuhlobo obuseduze nomunye umuntu, mhlawumbe kufanele ukumthethelela futhi ngikudedele.
Kanjani ukuze alungise ubuhlobo ngemva ukungathembeki?
Thatha ngokwayo kukho ukuthethelelwa sizokwenza isinqumo esingalungile akulula kanjalo, ngisho nzima okulenza lifike. Lokuvukela umbuso - ucingo wake-up ukuthi ubudlelwano phakathi indoda nowesifazane akukhona konke kulungile. Uma uhlangabezana nale nkinga, kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba nesimanje ekuphileni komkhaya wakubo. ubudlelwane Kobuthakathaka zingatholakala ngenkathi ukhuluma enhliziyweni nomlingani wakho noma nguwe. Funda indlela kabusha uxhumane nomunye, futhi akusiwona singathekiso. Akubalulekile ngakho, indlela aphile ngemva ukukhashelwa unquma. Kunoma ikuphi, bonke ngeke kusaba njengoba kwakunjalo, kodwa ngendlela entsha. Ungafuna ngokuphelele ukushintsha indlela evamile zezinto - yisa, thola umsebenzi omusha noma enye into. Uma ukwabelana umlingani kanye isekela lezi imibono, isinyathelo esidinga isibindi.
Zama uyayekela kwemicabango ngalesi sigameko. Akulula, kodwa ungakhulumi futhi umlingani njalo uhlambalaze. Ayikwazi ukuthethelela khukhumala uma uzobe avuselelwe ukukhunjuzwa abakhethiwe zabo "Ingabe me favor" cishe kwezinyanga ezimbalwa of Yimpi olunesivunguvungu inyunyana yakho ngeke usaba khona. Uma uthola kunzima ukukhuluma ngqo womshado, ukuvuselela wenhlanganyelo kancane kancane. Zama isithakazelo nomunye, uchitha isikhathi ndawonye akukona, kodwa kuyathakazelisa futhi engavamile.
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