Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Lokho ihlola indlela iziphakamiso esilindile?
Lapho efundisa umkhuba, siyohlale isidingo ukuhlolwa ngokwengqondo abafundi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isidingo ezingase ziphakame noma yimuphi umsebenzi iqembu. Enye yezindlela iwukuba indlela jikelele imisho sidle.
Ingqikithi indlela ulula. Izindlela iziphakamiso kulindile kukhonjelwe wathi aqoshiwe noma ekupheleni ibinzana. Ngokwesibonelo, "Akukho uthando ngaphandle ..." noma "Uma Nganqoba kwesigidi, into yokuqala benginga ...". Kuye ngalokho sphere sifuna ukuhlola, ungakwazi beveza esingenamkhawulo ukuthi imishwana. Ungase futhi ucele kuncike hhayi elilodwa izimpendulo eziningana. Kuyoba ebalulekile ukuthi abanye nguqulo ye inikelwa kuqala. Izindlela imisho sidle lungasetshenziswa njengendlela yokuthola ukuhlolwa ngokwengqondo, futhi njengoba umdlalo ezimele. Ikakhulukazi ezithakazelisayo kungenzeka ukusisebenzisa ekilasini olunye ulimi noma isiRashiya. Ungakhetha for lo mdlalo ngoba ngemizuzu emihlanu noma eyishumi ekupheleni kwesifundo. Enye indlela yiyona ndlela "imisho akuphelele" izingane, eyenziwa "iketanga". Ngokwesibonelo, ungaqala ukutshela indaba.
ukuhlolwa okunjalo kungaba kwenziwe ngokuphindaphindiwe. Izinguquko ezenzeka nabantu, futhi ihlaziye futhi kungatholakala yilo imiklamo. Kuyinto kudingekile kuphela ukuthuthukisa kanye nokuchaza ngokucacile incazelo yaleli zindlela. Ungasebenzisa isikali "ukulandelana", "ukungaguquguquki", "lokusungula". Lokho ekupheleni imishwana kungahlolwa kusuka amaphuzu ahlukahlukene umbono. Le nqubo futhi osiza ekuboneni ukuthi ungubani futhi isitayela ukucabanga. Ngezinye izikhathi isetshenziselwa sitholakele nokuphazamiseka engqondweni, kuyinto pretty test jikelele ukuthi kungaba kwenziwe nanoma yiziphi qembu lobudala. Yiqiniso, kubalulekile ukuzivumelanisa okuqukethwe imisho, kuye ngokuthi umuntu okungekho wezengqondo noma uthisha onenkinga.
Similar articles
Trending Now