Lokho okushiwo amantombazane efana guys?

Kokubili abesilisa nabesifazane athanda abantu bobulili obuhlukile. Ngenxa yalesi bazimisele ukuthatha ezihlukahlukene imihlatshelo: oyakuhlala ukudla, ukuze zinyamalale ejimini, ukuchitha imali eningi ku izingubo eziwubukhazikhazi bese ngisho ukwenza ukuhlinzwa isikhumba. Iningi ukungabaza rending inhliziyo-futhi izakhiwo kuthinta abesifazane. Basuke bahlushwe umbuzo, lokho amantombazane abafana, futhi kungani umuntu ungathandi nhlobo. Kunoma ikuphi, ugqozi zonke izintokazi zihlukile. Othile usanda ufuna ukufakazela yena nabanye, ukuthi uyakwazi sivuse isithakazelo indoda ethile, umuntu - nje ukuchitha isikhathi naye, futhi othile - kwakufanela ashade naye. Izigidi amantombazane ephethwe ukuqala ubuhlobo, ukucabanga ngizibuza indlela ukuhlanganisa uxhumano nomsebenzisi umfana. Umbuzo ngokwayo ungenele kakade phezu inkululeko ukuphila komuntu. Awukwazi embopha kuye, yilowo nalowo kini - ubuntu, kubalulekile ukuhlonipha imizwa yimuphi umuntu. Enye into ukuthi kungaba nje kancane ukulungisa ukuziphatha kwabo futhi bheka futhi uzame ukuqonda ukuthi angamjabulisa kanjani guys ngaphandle kokuphula uqobo.

Ngokuphambene nalokho okukholelwa yiningi, ukubukeka namanje phansi kunabaphostoli isikhundla ukuziphatha. Njengomthetho, ngosizo ke ungakha isithombe esihle kothile, bese uzama ukumosha idili ngamazwi azo nangezenzo. Into yokuqala ukuthi uyikhumbule - indoda kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi abe nomuzwa wokuthi kancane ngobuchule. Futhi ngisho noma eqeda nomaphi iminyaka eyishumi esikoleni, akudingekile ukuba wambeka esimweni amahloni. Londoloza ulwazi yakho yokunqoba isitebhisi umsebenzi.

Abantu abaningi abacabanga ukuthi bayakwazi okukulungele amantombazane abafana, kodwa kukhona ngokwabo futhi ngokukhululekile nangomoya ngokweyisa. Yiqiniso, uma umgomo wakho - ubudlelwane kudlula ngokushesha ngoba ngolunye usuku kusihlwa, ukuziphatha uninhibited cishe sizokusiza yokulithola. Nokho inoveli sina angisoze, uma behave fana a unondindwa. Guys abathanda ukuchitha isikhathi okunjalo futhi kamuva uthatha amantombazane umfazi lula. Futhi ngempela kungani mina kwalena yokusebenzisa ukuphila kwami ku-mlilo?

Kungcono uma ushiya yakho imikhuba emibi, uma ikhona. Believe izinkanyiso yesayensi yezokwelapha, ukuthola kunzima ukuba athwale abakhethiwe izingane enempilo, hhayi uphonsa usikilidi futhi akazange adikibale ingxenye neminikelo yako yokuphuzwayo. Nge ngonya intombazane mnandi nje hang out, kodwa akuvamile ukuba ukhethe ukungenela ubuhlobo obungathi eside.

Cishe zonke intombazane okungenani kanye empilweni yakhe sibhekene guys yokungathembeki futhi ngokungagwegwesi ukuba banengeke. Ngakho, uma ekucasulayo kanye, akusho ukuthi zizokwenzeka futhi. Asikho isidingo ubonise bonke uhlobo olusha umngane ukwedelela besilisa labantu emhlabeni. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi amantombazane abafana, masivume - smiling, bejabule, nomusa wethembeke. Yiqiniso, kufanele sibonise umusa zivela ngaphakathi, njengoba besho, uma kungenzeki, khona-ke alikho. Kodwa bonke abanye akunzima kakhulu ukuba sifinyelele.

Manje mayelana nokubonakala. Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, lokho amantombazane abafana bacabanga, futhi yini amantombazane abafana nawe? Ezikhangayo futhi amahle. Yebo, libalulekile. Nazi nje ezimbili kulezi zingxenye akusho tente ngenxa izimonyo noma izingubo. Kubalulekile ukuthi akhipha amandla omuhle, futhi isimo sobuso bakho ayenobungane. Uma ujwayele ukuhamba nge umhlibitho wokunganeliseki okuphakade, kunesidingo esiphuthumayo ukushintsha into. Ngakho ngeke sifinyelele indondo besilisa.

Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele sikuthathe unakekele kakhulu ngokubukeka kwabo. abagqoka kuphela agcizelele izimfanelo zakho ezinhle. Into eyinhloko ukuba bangayeki izingubo eziyinselele kakhulu futhi ukwambulwa. Kungani? Ezichazwe ngenhla. Ukutholakala kungase kudonse uMuntu usuku olulodwa. Ukuze wenze i-Kuyadingeka ungakhathazeki. Abantu abasha musa kakhulu uyomdumisa. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukwenza kuphela kugcizelelwe idatha zemvelo, futhi upende impi futhi akakubangeli ezingabantu akalutho kodwa ukucasuka.

Landela lezi amathiphu kanye uzokwenza njalo ezithakazelisayo futhi eyinkimbinkimbi ukuze amadoda. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, musa ukushintsha ngokwabo kanye nezimiso zabo.