Maximalism Kwasebusheni: emihle nemibi

Boyish - ilungelo lokwenza intsha abangakazizwa wafunda ukubasa halftones. Ezingqondweni zabantu abasha zikhona izigxobo ezimbili kuphela: omnyama nomhlophe. "Zonke noma lutho" - ukuthi kwaba isiqubulo zika ziyingozi. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ngokuvamile sikhundla kuzuzisa kakhulu futhi ingafinyelela okuningi nge lutho. Young ukwenza ngendlela yabo ukuphila komuntu izifiso. Izici usakhula ayikuvumeli ukuthatha umbono abantu abadala.

Popular babonakale bengenasithakazelo futhi ethambile, ukulungele ukunikeza futhi zonakalise ngempilo. Young ngeke bakwethembe. Nokho, abantu abadala umsungulo has a amandla akhethekile, njengoba e inhloko abasha. Kumane nakumbona ngokoqobo. Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi boyish nalezo zinto ezifunwa uhulumeni wakhe ngokweqile Sinemandla umsindo isahlulelo lesizukulwane esidala.

Ngokuvamile, ukuze uthole okufunayo futhi sifinyelele umgomo, udinga ukuhambisa ngayo Ngokuqinisekile ecacile. Kubantu abadala, lokhu akusiyo. Umuntu onolwazi kungakwenza ukusho kuphela izinto liqinisekile. Yena ngokukhalipha ukuhlola amandla abo. Psychology of usakhula categorical kakhudlwana futhi ukuzisika. Iphinde kukhona naivety ezithile, okuyinto engazange okwamanje kwanyamalala ebuntwaneni. Yingakho abasha eniyenzayo umbhedo kangaka, khumbula ukuthi kamuva iba amahloni. Njengoba abadala, abantu ngokuvamile ukuzama ukuvikela izingane zabo emaphutheni eziye azibophezela. Nokho, lapha behlangabezana udonga incomprehension - kusese boyish efanayo. Umhlaba abadumile inkinga ka 'oyise namadodana " kuyinto ngaphansi kuba nenhlekelele yokungaqondi ezivamile.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lesi simanga is Yiqiniso, okwenzeka. It yaphawula ukuthi amadoda abe nokuncane iminyaka engu-30 ukuthi bafuna kusukela ukuphila. Lena akuyona yonke, kodwa amaningi. Ngakho-ke, ukuze silondoloze isabelo umlilo bobusha sisadingeka. Bonke abantu yimpumelelo abaye bafeza into empilweni, babeqhutshwa amaphupho ubungqabavu bobusha bakhe. Enhliziyweni yakhe, u besebasha. Ubusha buyisikhathi into akanayo eyodwa ubudala isikhathi - amandla nomfutho, naphezu kwazo zonke izithiyo zokuphila, siqhubekele phambili.

Boyish alamukeli esikalini yamanani kweningi. Ngakho-ke, abantu abaningi abasha bathi ngeke baphile njengoba abazali babo. Nokho, nalapho sesikhulile, iningi, ngeshwa, ukuphinda kubo ngisho noma kuze kufike emniningwaneni wokugcina. Mhlawumbe, ukuthi abantu abasha siqaphe nakakhulu, ukuthi ngabe akwenzekanga. Kodwa ingqondo - ingcebo abantu abadala abavuthiwe futhi ukuthi kuncane ongashintsha empilweni futhi ningakholwa ngamandla abo. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi into ezifana boyish, kutholakala phakathi abadala. Kodwa lapha livele nezakhi ezihlukene. Lapho isikhulile, akudingeki charm intsha, lapho ukuzikhohlisa, ingcindezi kanye ethile yithemba kuxutshwe cocktail. Adult bahilizisane maximalist, engalaleli noma ubani kodwa yena. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho lezi zimfanelo ezibalulekile musa izinzuzo, kunalokho they yodwa konakalisa ebuhlotsheni bayo nabanye.

izici Kwasebusheni ebusheni bakhe. Abadala ngeke ngikwazi ukukhokhela esiphehla categorical okukhethiwe nokwahlulela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-ukucabanga kwabantu abanolwazi has sici esisodwa ehlukile - nakalula. Yile mfanelo futhi ikhono lokwenza iphuzu omunye umbono, khuluma ngezinto ukuvuthwa zokuziphatha nangokwengqondo. Ngeshwa, mhlaba ngokuvamile siyimbangela conformism. Reality iphula amaphiko kunciphisa izicelo. Labo singayekanga ukuphupha njengoba abadala amayunithi. Ngokuvamile, laba bantu sifinyelele kakhulu ekuphileni kunokwazi ontanga yabo. Ngenxa yokuthi ukuqonda ukuthi yini eshukumisela umuntu umgomo. Ukwenza self-ukuthuthukiswa, ungakwazi pretty okuningi baqonde futhi bazise amaphutha nezikhathi ezimbili empilweni. Revaluation kuzosiza ukwenza isinqumo esifanele futhi ukuthola indlela aphume isimo esibi kunazo zonke.