Ukungqubuzana kwezinhloso zenzuzo, ngenxa okuyinto kunempikiswano - akubulali!

Udweshu njalo ezingemnandi, ngisho emva kokuba isixazululo sokungezwani isalokhu aftertaste ezingemnandi emphefumulweni wami, okuyinto ke kuvela ugeze off kuphela ngobukhulu ubunzima, ngakho-ke kungaba efiselekayo ukugwema ukushayisana ezinjalo. Kodwa-ke ngeshwa, emkhayeni ngaphandle izingxabano Awukwazi ukwenza, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ukuze kuvinjelwe impi, kubalulekile ukuba sizazi izimbangela eziyinhloko ukungqubuzana hhayi step on the hala efanayo.

Izizathu ukuthi ngemva kwesikhathi abonakale iwubuphukuphuku

Ukungqubuzana e mibhangqwana futhi kuyoba, futhi namanje imbangela kuyinto Ukungqubuzana izithakazelo, ngenxa okuyinto kuphakama impikiswano. Ngokwesibonelo, omunye umlingani ufuna ngengubo ekamelweni bekulokhu oxube okubi nokuhle, kungcono ethokomele, zakudala, ubuhle, kanye nezinye ukholelwa ukuthi ukhetho engcono kungaba okuyisidina, njengoba kufanelekile cishe noma yini. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umuntu uyakwazi ukujwayela izinto eziningi, ukwenza ezinye uhlobo ingubo kungabangela umbango?

"Angazi ukuzwana" - kuyinto izaba eyinhloko imibhangqwana lapho ukungqubuzana, ngenxa okuyinto kukhona ingxabano, lidlule esigabeni wokugcina - inzondo nobutha. Yebo, wona empeleni kungenzeka. abantu abahlukahlukene, lwemibono leyehlukene, ukuphila ezahlukene, kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokuba bahlale ngokwahlukana noma impikiswano!

Enye esiphuthumayo inkinga - zokungazimiseli zibasize endlini. Isikhathi esining impela amadoda nje bayakhohlwa ukuthi owesifazane usuku lonke kuyadingeka ukuze ushintshe izinto eziningi ngendlela yena ababheka ngayo ngeviki, ngakho ngempelasonto ngokuthula amanga embhedeni, futhi abesifazane bamatasa ngemisebenzi yasekhaya. Le nkinga kungase kubonakale laughable, uma sibheka-ke enye indlela: Ingabe kunzima ngami ukuqeda ushanela ngigeze izitsha, ukulondoloza yena nomngane wakhe ekuhlukunyezweni ezingadingekile?

izinkinga ezingathi sína

• Nokudakwa. Yilokho Kunzima ngempela ukwamukela, futhi yini cishe akunakwenzeka ukujwayela, kodwa ngoba kungakhathaliseki ukuthi singakanani funga, abantu namanje ngeke siyeke ukuphuza kuze iyabaphilisa efuna ukubaphilisa.
• Ukungathembeki. Lesi ngesinye futhi isizathu ngoba "nokufa" njalo ezimpikiswaneni, kodwa kungani lokuba nobuhlobo, uma une ohlangothini omunye? Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi isigamu usungula ukungathembeki kusuka ekuqaleni, ngenxa okwenzekayo futhi kungenazo izingxabano. Lokhu, ngasendleleni, eyodwa ngaphezulu "ezibushelelezi" umbuzo - Umhawu ngokweqile futhi uyahlanya.

Ukungqubuzana kwezinhloso zenzuzo, ngenxa okuyinto kukhona ingxabano, kungase ukuzibonakalisa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ngokwesibonelo, ubugovu kungabuye ngokuthi ukungqubuzana. Kuphela lapha lubucayi kakhudlwana futhi unsolvable: akekho ziyawathinta kokuzithanda omunye, kulesi simo ezandleni ubuhlobo.

Lezi yizinto ezimbalwa nje imibuzo ezivamile mayelana nokuthi iziphi izinhlelo imibhangqwana ukuxabana, kodwa kholwa yimi, akekho kubo abakwazi ukuqeda uthando lweqiniso. Izimbangela ukungqubuzana, ngenxa okuyinto kukhona ingxabano, zihlukile, futhi ngokuvamile funny kakhulu.