Esikhathini ngasinye sinobudlelwane obungathí sina, ngokushesha umzuzwana ufika lapho abantu benquma ukubopha impilo yabo ndawonye futhi babe yunithi eyodwa yomphakathi. Kungenxa yale njongo ukuthi inqubo efana nokubhaliswa kwenzeka Umshado ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Ngemuva kokubhalisa, izimo zengqondo zithola, ngokusho, isimo esisemthethweni, futhi abantu abasha baba umndeni wangempela. Lokhu akuyona nje indlela yokuhleleka, okufaka ukufaka isignesha kwisitifiketi somshado, kuyisifiso esifanele sokuhlanganisa izibopho zabo ngomshado futhi babe ngabayeni bomthetho. Yiqiniso, lo mzuzu obalulekile futhi obalulekile empilweni yomuntu ngamunye udinga ukulungiswa. Ngenxa yokuthi ukubhaliswa komshado kudlulile ngaphandle kwe-hitch, kufanele kulungiselelwe kahle.
Okokuqala, ukubhaliswa komshado ehhovisi lokubhalisa kudinga kusuka kumakoti nomkhwenyana izimo ezinjengokungena kwesicelo, ngaphandle kwalokho isifiso sokuba umndeni wangempela ngeke senzeke. Abantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi amantombazane amancane, nabo Bawubona, futhi kuyaqondakala, ngoba ukufakwa kwesicelo kuyisikhathi esithandekayo. Njengomthetho, umphumela walesi siphithiphithi yimaphutha emafomu kanye nemibuzo, ngakho-ke, ukugcwalisa imibhalo, udinga ukuhlala uqaphele kakhulu. Qaphela nokuthi ukukusebenzisa kuzodinga imibhalo efakazela ukuthi ungubani. Uma uqedela isivumelwano, umakoti nomkhwenyana kufanele baqiniseke ukuthi akekho wabo onomkhawulo wokushada, uqaphele ukuthi uthatha igama lakhe, futhi ukhombise ukuthi omunye wabesifazane abasha abazoshada yini ngaphambili. Khona-ke kufanele ukhokhe umsebenzi wesifunda bese ukhetha usuku lomcimbi ozayo. Uma unesithakazelo ngosuku oluthile, kungcono ukusebenzisa kusengaphambili. Kulesi simo, ungaqiniseka ukuthi ukubhaliswa komshado ehhovisi lokubhalisa kuzokwenzeka ngesikhathi esisodwa lapho udinga khona. Futhi khumbula, imishado eminingi ihlobo nasekwindla yokuqala, ngakho-ke uma inombolo ethize ibalulekile kuwe ngalesi sikhathi, xoxa ngosuku lomcimbi ozayo kusengaphambili.
Ngemva kokufaka isicelo, abantu abasha kufanele balungiselele umshado: bathenge izindandatho, izingubo, bameme izivakashi, bahlele indawo nemihlobiso yomkhosi, baxoxe ngemenyu, banakekele ikhekhe lomshado nokunye. Kuze kube mzuzu lapho Ukubhaliswa komshado kuzoqala ehhovisi lokubhalisa, konke kufanele kulungele, futhi indawo yomshado kufanele ifike emaminithini ambalwa ngaphambili. Lesi sikhathi kuyodingeka ukuxazulula izinkinga ezithile zenhlangano, isibonelo, udinga ukudlulisela izindandatho zomshado kumsebenzi ozoqhuba umkhosi. Umbuzo uvela: yikuphi ukubhaliselwa komshado ebusweni ehhovisi lokubhalisa kuhluke ngokujwayelekile? Okokuqala, bonke abangane nezihlobo bakhona ehholo, umculo ojabulisayo udlala, futhi emva kwenqubo yokubhalisa, labo abasanda kushada bangenza umdanso wabo wokuqala. Ngokwemvelo, izindleko zalesi senzakalo zizodlula inani lokubhaliswa okuvamile. Namuhla, ukubhaliswa okungavunyelwe komshado ehhovisi lokubhalisa kuba yindabuko ngokwengeziwe, futhi akusho ukuthi kubiza kancane, yilokho nje imibhangqwana emisha yanamuhla ikhetha ukubhaliswa okuthiwa ukuphuma, okungabanjwa esifubeni semvelo, endaweni yokudlela noma kunoma yimuphi omunye Indawo abantu abasanda kushada abayoyikhetha.